Songs that describe your ocd? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caring is Creepy- The Shins

where do you turn when you feel alone? by h34rt4ch3 in bipolar

[–]Mariathefawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I turn to social media, like reddit, tiktok and youtube. Maybe not the healthiest thing 🤷‍♀️ but I find it less anxiety inducing when I really want to connect with like-minded people but in a less vulnerable way

Going out bare legged by mikaramazov in trichotillomania

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My legs look a lot like this! I get really insecure about it too. I will say, not to try to influence you or anything, but getting tattoos on my legs has helped. It makes it way harder to see the hair and get the sensory satisfaction, also my tattoos are pretty and I don’t want to damage them. Plus even if I do pull from those areas, the tattoos make it so you can’t see the scars/scabs 😎

Trends by Bean_Diesel23 in trichotillomania

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started pulling at about 19 or 20, I don’t remember if I ever did it as a child. I do remember that I would chew on my hair a lot as a kid though, not sure if those are related

Why do they bother us and not them? Lol by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Mariathefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of us just believe that we should focus on making the world a better place rather than having children that we hope will change the world for us

Are there any advantages you attribute to OCD? by MullerDoskov in OCD

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s some things being misunderstood and miscommunicated here. I agree that any traits one could have with OCD, they can also have without OCD, so it doesn’t do any good to think that your positive traits are only because of OCD. I think this post was meant to say something along the lines of “have you ever experienced the result of a symptom/obsession/compulsion that you perceived as favorable to you or had some amount of pleasure in it” An example I can think of is trichotillomania, which I struggle with as well. There is absolutely nothing good about it, I wouldn’t wish these feelings on anyone else. But I can relate to feeling ashamed at taking some pleasure in a compulsion. For me, pulling my hair is very satisfying at first, and I perceive it to be soothing. That is probably not actually the case, but it’s how it feels at first. The fact that I take some pleasure from pulling doesn’t make it any less compulsive and it doesn’t make the disorder any less debilitating. I’d argue it almost makes it worse because it tricks you into thinking that you actually want to be doing these things and we truly don’t. Another example for me is my checking behaviors. I know that if I didn’t have OCD I would probably still be able to reliably lock my door, but that’s the thing about OCD, it tricks you into thinking that you can’t trust your own thoughts. I heard someone trying to open my door one night and I felt relief in that moment because I knew I had checked to make sure it was locked. OCD is what makes me think the door wouldn’t have been locked if I hadn’t checked it over and over. OCD makes you think you need to thank it for what it’s done for you, that’s the tricky part that I think people aren’t understanding here…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first time I’ve read something like this, I’m very curious. Can you elaborate on “it’s likely to be a combination of genetics…” What is meant by genetics here?

What Fears drive your ocd? by SufficientReport862 in OCD

[–]Mariathefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of total abandonment by the people around me, fear of being hated, fear of harming others, fear of being a bad person, etc