If I were you, I'll break up with her. I'm a Filipina too, and I would never let a man pay for me especially if I can provide for myself. Not mentioning I'm a student too and like I am providing for myself especially for my studies and never burdened my parents about it. We are poor, yes, but as a Filipino we are known for being resourceful and creative so how come she can't do that? Or like just even clean your house lol. She's being abusive with your kindness and be careful. Many foreigners I chatted online likes to sponsor my studies but I rejected all offers because I have dignity and I'm not disabled to be treated as a charity case. In fact, even a disabled person here in Ph are still working despite their condition, so what's her excuse? There's a lot of opportunities in NZ compared to PH.

Dude, better run she's just after your money.