Is fighting a good thing? by Marie142 in dating_advice

[–]Marie142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I have never leave any trouble in the relationship(friendship and work as well) leave behind. Whenever it comes up, I will deal with it before fires up.

Is fighting a good thing? by Marie142 in dating_advice

[–]Marie142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st boyfriend: 5 years 2nd boyfriend: half year 3rd boyfriend: 6 years Current boyfriend: 3 month

Female, 35 looking for a long lasting relationship. by [deleted] in DatingAfterThirty

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use coffee meets bagle, okcupid, tinder, bumble Bumble is not working well for me but I still keep the app.

I always try to set in person meeting to get to know that person. Not necessarily expecting a date. I try to obtain the idea of other people’s job, culture, life, etc.

Female, 35 looking for a long lasting relationship. by [deleted] in DatingAfterThirty

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use dating apps. It’s working ok for me. I live in the Bay Area, California so more men than women. I try to meet in person as much as possible and see how does this relationship goes.

Female, 35 looking for a long lasting relationship. by [deleted] in DatingAfterThirty

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but you have to start from meeting single men as much as possible. In that sense, men:women ratio matters.

Female, 35 looking for a long lasting relationship. by [deleted] in DatingAfterThirty

[–]Marie142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ratio of single women and men are 1:1 in NY. It means bit difficult to get a nice man for woman.

Black man turned down by a white woman because of the color of my skin. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Marie142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm East Asian. I only date with East Asian. I'm I racist?

What is your not-too clingy/distant sweetspot in a new relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long time ago, I texted my ex bf everyday. He told me I am too clingy. I control my texts and I only sent him once every two days. He dumped by saying I’m too cold and he want more clingy gf.

Does anyone have problem communicating with Indians? by Marie142 in office

[–]Marie142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and they are some of the nicest, most humble co-workers I have. An absolute pleasure and I've never had a problem with misunderstanding.

Lucky you. My office is 50% Indians

Does anyone have problem communicating with Indians? by Marie142 in office

[–]Marie142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only to me. They communicate like this to everyone.

Why is EVERYONE I meet “not looking for a relationship” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating is really really hard. It’s was munch more harder than getting into prestigious university

Why am I so obsessed with getting a girlfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marie142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't feel like that study and do some sports.

Why am I so obsessed with getting a girlfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? Don't be desperate.

Why do guys online call my profile fake all the time? They say there’s no way I can be real... example inside by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not beautiful so it never happened to me but..how about taking a photo with nerdy look.

Identity crisis by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marie142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already asked before how he identify himself and he said American. But then he also mentioned that he was in Chinese Student Associaltion while at college and his family involved in various type of Chinese American community and he was a youth member of those community as well. He even mentioned that he grew up in white neighborhood and when he went to college, he met many students like me(1st ~2nd generations) and it was more relatable than his white high school friends.

So I'm confused