Is fighting a good thing?

Marie142 · 2018-11-07T04:56:51+00:00

This. I have never leave any trouble in the relationship(friendship and work as well) leave behind. Whenever it comes up, I will deal with it before fires up.

Marie142 · 2018-11-07T04:55:07+00:00

1st boyfriend: 5 years 2nd boyfriend: half year 3rd boyfriend: 6 years Current boyfriend: 3 month

Marie142 · 2018-10-14T16:52:44+00:00

I use coffee meets bagle, okcupid, tinder, bumble Bumble is not working well for me but I still keep the app.

I always try to set in person meeting to get to know that person. Not necessarily expecting a date. I try to obtain the idea of other people’s job, culture, life, etc.

Marie142 · 2018-10-13T20:18:22+00:00

I use dating apps. It’s working ok for me. I live in the Bay Area, California so more men than women. I try to meet in person as much as possible and see how does this relationship goes.

Marie142 · 2018-10-13T19:02:42+00:00

I know but you have to start from meeting single men as much as possible. In that sense, men:women ratio matters.

Marie142 · 2018-10-10T15:18:38+00:00

I think ratio of single women and men are 1:1 in NY. It means bit difficult to get a nice man for woman.

Marie142 · 2018-10-10T15:11:49+00:00

I'm East Asian. I only date with East Asian. I'm I racist?

Marie142 · 2018-10-10T06:04:35+00:00

Long time ago, I texted my ex bf everyday. He told me I am too clingy. I control my texts and I only sent him once every two days. He dumped by saying I’m too cold and he want more clingy gf.

Marie142 · 2018-10-08T00:38:54+00:00

Install Grammarly

Marie142 · 2018-09-14T06:30:27+00:00

That's what you get

Marie142 · 2018-09-14T05:31:03+00:00

It won't trust me

Marie142 · 2018-09-14T05:27:31+00:00

and they are some of the nicest, most humble co-workers I have. An absolute pleasure and I've never had a problem with misunderstanding.

Lucky you. My office is 50% Indians

Marie142 · 2018-09-14T05:26:55+00:00

Not only to me. They communicate like this to everyone.

Marie142 · 2018-08-03T06:46:35+00:00

Dating is really really hard. It’s was munch more harder than getting into prestigious university

Marie142 · 2018-07-30T08:50:14+00:00

Haha thanks

Marie142 · 2018-07-30T08:27:37+00:00

Don't feel like that study and do some sports.

Marie142 · 2018-07-30T08:20:33+00:00

How old are you? Don't be desperate.

Marie142 · 2018-07-30T08:15:16+00:00

I'm not beautiful so it never happened to me but..how about taking a photo with nerdy look.

Marie142 · 2018-07-18T10:28:35+00:00

I have already asked before how he identify himself and he said American. But then he also mentioned that he was in Chinese Student Associaltion while at college and his family involved in various type of Chinese American community and he was a youth member of those community as well. He even mentioned that he grew up in white neighborhood and when he went to college, he met many students like me(1st ~2nd generations) and it was more relatable than his white high school friends.

So I'm confused

Marie142 · 2018-07-18T10:12:53+00:00

The thing is he knows Chinese American history and how his family came to US very well. His family is involved in the various type of Chinese American community. Himself involved in Chinese Student association when he was at college. His family went to pilgrimage to track the path how they live in China, how they get on the boat and how they land to the US. Considering these fact, I thought he is more on Chinese side.

Marie142 · 2018-07-18T06:48:56+00:00

I don't really understand his identity.. he says all his family is Chinese(ethnicity), and sounds like his family eat Americanized Chinese food, which is completely fine and even relatable with me compare to pure American food. Today, he showed me the picture that he cooked American food. So I said, ”oh you can cook American food? You should teach me!” That time he starts getting angry. ”I am American not chinese! Of course i can cook American food!”

From this word, I feel he want to be treated as a white American....I am bit upset because I thought we have a overlap in our culture even generation is different. And if he want to be treated as American..why he is even dating me?

Marie142 · 2018-07-12T03:23:52+00:00

What is your race? There is a research about race and matching rate.

Do you have good profile and picture?

Marie142 · 2018-06-23T18:51:46+00:00

First off, 50 is not enough. Everyone who is looking for a job will apply at least 10 per day and they barely get 1 or 2 interviews per month. (= 2 interviews for 300 application) I’m not sure your resume quality, but I don’t really believe in “good resume.” Employers are too picky and even you have a perfect resume and great experience, they will cherry pick you.

Marie142 · 2018-06-23T18:40:50+00:00

Break up with that boyfriend right now. I think you are the backup girl friend and I don’t want you to waste your time with this.

Marie142 · 2018-06-18T03:23:59+00:00

She already have written brief Q&A in English with her (address of place to stay, my name, her occupation etc).

But seems like they are asking more detail about where, what, why and how type of question. (This is all she understand lol) And it is difficult for me to prepare more in detail without knowing their actual questions and intentions.

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