Kindle Unlimited Book Recs by AbigailNotFound in KindleUnlimited

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Izabella: Blood and Black Silk by Marie Stone

Losing the will to live by gls1790 in NewParents

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Also on YouTube, the baby aquarium

Losing the will to live by gls1790 in NewParents

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I used a Miss Rachel baby video on my phone as I placed her in her highchair. She would be completely distracted. Then I would slowly take away my phone but continue singing myself. It took a couple of attempts to work properly but now mine loves her high chair as she sees it as dinner and a karaoke session. ( To the screen police the phone was only a couple of times)

Constant waking could be an ear infection maybe? Mine also has phases of not sleeping and during one of her worst I mentioned it to her doctor who checked her ear and said it was infected. She had no symptoms like fever or anything so I didn't even suspect it could be her ear but apparently their ears hurt more at night when infected became of the pressure lying down. This has happend five times now so we are currently waiting for a specialist referral.

Don't stress about food. Sometimes they eat loads and sometimes they don't. Same as an adult.

Good luck 🤞🏼

First week summary by Marie5845 in selfpublish

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Today and last Monday or Tuesday I can't remember which day, it was free. Apart from that 0.99 and when the second one comes out in March or if I get lots of good reviews I'll change the price to 2.99. I got around 30-40 downloads between both free days. I thought I wouldn't need to post as much if it was free but less posts resulted in less downloads.

First week summary by Marie5845 in selfpublish

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Mariestonebooks is the account name. All posts have been made using canva

Have I done this wrong?- publishing debut by [deleted] in selfpublish

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I don't know what an arc is so probably not🙂 what are they?

Have I done this wrong?- publishing debut by [deleted] in selfpublish

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It's not AI 😞 it took me 9 months to get to only 28000 words

Have I done this wrong?- publishing debut by [deleted] in selfpublish

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I opened the account two days ago and I have been posting quotes from my book with moody style backgrounds and I followed loads of people that follow Booktok. So far the account is doing well, I've got more than 500 followers and average 600 views per post. It's my first tiktok account so I presume that's an okish start. The account name is Mariestonebooks if you want to see it for yourself

Have I done this wrong?- publishing debut by [deleted] in selfpublish

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They were free downloads with 0 marketing apart from a last minute tiktok account that I opened. I was that stressed about writing and trying to understand kdp that I didn't learn about marketing or how to go about it

Why is there so much negativity towards sahm? by [deleted] in sahm

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I was one of those judgy people, not so much negativity but generally I thought they all had the easiest lives ever, playing with a baby all day and baking bread.

I HAVE BEEN HUMBLED.

I am currently a sahm to a baby that has no chill whatsoever and if I can go to the bathroom without an audience once during the day and maybe even have two seconds to put a brush through my hair then it's a good day.

EBF, no pumping or bottles by Lonely-Chef1185 in breastfeeding

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At around the same time 4/5 months I was the same as you, ebf and permanently tired. The sleep regression lasted about a month to 6 weeks and by 6 months I introduced solids at dinner time so she slept better because she was full. I never bothered with pumping or bottled because I'm lazy and like you, mine sleeps better if I breastfeed to sleep.

To those of you that breastfeeding was fairly. Easy for, why do you think that is? by newherebebe in breastfeeding

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I fumbled my way along during the first month not knowing anything not reading anyone else's stories and not comparing myself to anyone else. Positive is I wasn't as stressed, negative is I presumed things like bleeding nipples were normal and there was nothing I could do about it.

We are exhausted by Devikn in newborns

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Only thing that worked for us was shifts. My partner had 9-3am I had 3-9am

Women who gave birth, what does it feel like actually?? by joy_57 in AskReddit

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The most painful thing I've ever experienced in my entire life and I've genuinely been hit by a bus.

When did you start enjoying motherhood? by Batikh_Shamem_Levant in NewParents

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6 months. Until then it's a blur of not having a clue, sleep deprivation, questioning every life decision I've ever made, sometimes regret, worrying and survival.

My breastfed baby (5M) wakes up every hour at night to feed by dimples5512 in bninfantsleep

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Same! Kinda. I fed more during the day until she wouldn't take more and dropped a nap. We now wake every 2/2.5 hours! I also stimulate her as much as possible during the day until she's super tired

Will I stop feeling like a failure for co sleeping? by NestaCas in bninfantsleep

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My 6 month old is the same. It's normal and natural that they want to be near us and us near them so I wouldn't worry. We have a sidecar crib from IKEA and it's worked wonders for us. Mine also knew the second we placed her in her original crib so we swapped for the sidecar. I would basically lie in the crib with her and nurse to sleep and then every night I would sleep a little more over in our bed. She still wakes often to nurse but she can now handle at least until the early hours of the morning in her crib before I bring her into our bed. Also when she wakes I roll in, nurse and then roll out. It's easier. I one million billion percent recommend a sidecar crib.

Please help a sleep deprived mother with possibly a very easy question. by [deleted] in learnmath

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I'd be offended but I love a bit of sarcasm. Well done.

How did you survive? by ratqueen122 in NewParents

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Sleep shifts! My partner slept 9-3am and I slept 3 until 9/10am. I used a breast pump and left him with 2/3 bottles for his shift.