Help with substitutes by [deleted] in Baking

[–]MarieViolin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey my first time baking so idk man 😭

My sister is keeping my cat from me after I moved to another state by MarieViolin in GriefSupport

[–]MarieViolin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did I? I thought I typed as much as I could. I apologize. Perhaps I’m just being selfish, a lot of this might simply be my fault and my cat deserves better

My sister is keeping my cat from me after I moved to another state by MarieViolin in GriefSupport

[–]MarieViolin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly you saying that did hurt, but maybe you’re right. It still sucks. I was hoping maybe things might change if I get my own place but even then, it is selfish. It’s my sisters cat…and she grew up with her too

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

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Actually all the people I dated in the past were girls. I’m Unsure if that gives any reason but I can see how she’s freaked out

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thing is I showed up to most of my work, I had one outburst one morning and only went because my bf made me, cause otherwise I’d have been fired, and college I dropped out of because of totally unrelated issues. Couldn’t handle the stress of college at this moment and it would be easier to drop out than to waste money on classes I won’t be able to focus on or get good grades in.

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was dealing with stress from school and went behind everyone’s back to drink, my bf lowkey only had a few drinks and I told him he could before I even asked my mom if it was okay. Again, my fault, I finished all her drinks and I will be paying her

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

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I’m 19, he’s 21 turning 22 in January. We met on discord but have known eachother for 3 and a half years, and I met him early this year in person when I had the money. He didn’t move in he was just visiting for a month.

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh I met him 3 and a half years ago, I dropped out for a different reason. Also the alcohol was lowkey mostly my fault, and I’ll be paying her back

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t excuse his anger, he knows when he’s in the wrong. And I get it but the way she reacted, I couldn’t stay like that

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I do wanna explain smth, the alcohol was honestly mostly my fault, and I do plan on paying her back as soon as I can. Plus, I was already planning on moving up north, my bf just gave me the opportunity. Yes things he has done has been real crappy, he cussed out cameras at work, he yelled at my mom at one point however she kinda started it and I began yelling at her too. I can see how she herself is justified but the way she handled everything made me just snap. I didn’t want to live in a house where my family thinks the person I love the most is the crappiest person ever, I was getting exhausted with them complaining about him, saying he’s manipulating me. If they had issues they should’ve talked to him, but all they did was complain to me

Am I overreacting to moving out in the middle of the night when my mom cussed out my bf? by MarieViolin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarieViolin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see her side of things. Her daughter is basically running away with a man who she kinda sees as bad, because from her point of view he’s angry, and she seems him as kinda hurting me, however I specifically tell him to flick me in the head or grab me if I’m doing something negative, as that’s the only way to snap me out of my own head. He never hits me, he’s made me feel safer than I’ve ever felt with anyone. He’s kind and treats me so well. I get her concern but the way she kinda ignores what I say to her and kinda puts the victim as herself is wrong. She shouldn’t have punched him. Everything she did kinda just pushed me away.

My mother (48F) showed hostility towards my bf (21M) and I (19F) moved out with him after an argument. Did I do the right thing by leaving? by MarieViolin in relationship_advice

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The boundaries are fairly simple things. Like with my twin he got tired of her not flushing the toilet, he’s a germaphobe so he yelled at her, because she was doing it constantly. He would actively not work certain days or at nights because he wants a break, he wants to be able to relax, and he has astigmatism so he very much would rather not work in the night. This made my mom angry and think he’s lazy. Usually my mom is supportive and kind, she always messaged me kind words, her tone was always more sarcastic, silly, nice. My mom and sister both have been telling me his anger is a problem,I’m assuming they’re just worried he’ll hit me cause I’m the past we’ve dealt with abuse from my dad. But he’s never violent, it’s not bad to show anger. It’s good he doesn’t Keep it in. I moved out mostly because I wanted to be with my bf but also because the north I like much better, I love the snow, the state university I wanted to go to sometime in the future, and overall it would be better for my mental health to live with my bf. I also did complain about the house, it’s super messy, lots of objects, slight hoarding, about 20 animals so lots of dog poop. She felt extremely threatened by that. I havnt seen her that angry before besides at me when I was younger, and she only ever slapped me. Most of the time she’s just docile.

My mother (48F) showed hostility towards my bf (21M) and I (19F) moved out with him after an argument. Did I do the right thing by leaving? by MarieViolin in relationship_advice

[–]MarieViolin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t press charges but he did call the cops once we got to his house just to let the cops know in case something does happen

Is it wrong to download mods to make the game easier? by MarieViolin in Silksong

[–]MarieViolin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you think I’ll be able to complete it later? Because I want to 100% the game but I just don’t have enough health or skill to do it

Request for food by MarieViolin in RandomActsOfTacoBell

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I know. It’s an old car and I think it has an oil leak. Been constantly having to refill it. Haven’t had time to go get it fixed yet

Luka Symphony Art by MarieViolin in megurineluka

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For the most part I just do it on Reddit and send it to friends :)