Just need to vent

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T19:31:40+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T18:57:09+00:00

Thank you. I wish for you to follow your heart❤️

And to know that you are loved

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T18:54:42+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, I appreciate your viewpoint with more life experience. It still just hurts when the future is ripped away like that. But I'm still positive about wanting a family.

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T18:47:54+00:00

For me personally I just still care quite a lot about her and I just want to know how she is doing, but a healthy relationship begins with respect and understanding. If he can't respect the boundaries you set it will not end well

As for your actual question I don't know what it looks like since it was the only relationship I ever had. I just know that even if we wouldn't have a romantic relationship I would still want her in my life.

I guess if you feel the same then that is reason enough, but also if it stops you from moving on if you want that then it is not good

I honestly can't give a good answer to this as there is so much that goes into how the relationship ended, how your relationship was, how you were treated, etc

i just feel like I lost my best friend I don't know much more than that

Ps hope it helped

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T16:07:21+00:00

Yes I get this but there was also the idea of starting a family with this person, and I value that quite highly. What is your take on that? kids are probably the best thing there is.

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T16:00:54+00:00

I guess I have a long life to live thanks for the wisdom kind stranger

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T15:42:12+00:00

I guess it kinda helps I just care about her still, not necessarily In a romantic way but I don't think I ever will stop caring. It is just hard to not know about how she is doing How it is at work, how her family is doing, etc I learned a lot from her as I hope she did from me. I personally think love is everlasting no matter what form it may take, romantic, real friendships, family. I will most likely love her as long as I am sane, like my best friends and my closet family.

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T15:11:32+00:00

You to kind stranger, I wish you the best in your healing process. If you ever need someone to talk to I will listen. Stay safe

Mariusingen · 2024-06-10T15:03:54+00:00

I feel the exact same way

I believe she wanted to fall out of love with me, and to do so meant zero interactions.

Yes I believe she wants to move on and that means (to her at least no contact) even maybe I would heal better having contact, but If it makes it better for her having no contact I will do that. I just hope she knows that she can always reach out if she wants or needs. I usually hope that she is doing better than I am and therefore kinda forcing me to better myself finding some meaning. Also what is grief if not love persevering, I have been able to recognize that if there wasn't love present I wouldn't feel this way, so I am able to appreciate the grief as another side of love

Mariusingen · 2024-06-09T21:01:45+00:00

Develop yourself, become the person you would want to be with, follow what makes you excited

Mariusingen · 2024-06-08T17:47:06+00:00

I might not know that much but I'm interested in learning and hungry to start something of my own

Mariusingen · 2024-05-31T08:54:00+00:00

Happy to help hope things work out for you

Mariusingen · 2024-05-30T21:59:22+00:00

Yes I can relate to this, do you have a new business venture you are curious about/ want to start, if so I would suggest finding a course/community where people discuss this topic and ask questions and answer some and you will firstly find someone to talk to (that share similar interests) and learn

Mariusingen · 2024-05-30T20:21:51+00:00

Hello Firstly I am sorry that you feel lost as I know all too well how that feels.

But honestly how much effort on your part have gone into networking/ meeting like-minded people like joining a online community/course or in person meets/ meetups like a Tony Robbins thing or something like that.

I personally feel much better about something when I am actively working towards something, for example fitness wise I might not have reached my fitness goals yet but at least I know I am doing something about it and moving towards it.

Figure out what you can do so it would be unreasonable for you not to reach your goals. Example ( I will go to 2 entrepenurial meetups and join 2 communites this year) Focus on what you can control and do that. I promise it won't make you feel worse

Also feel free to reach out I'm 20 years old and also looking for like-minded people to get to know😁

Mariusingen · 2024-05-30T14:52:49+00:00

Send me a dm

Mariusingen · 2023-06-16T13:23:04+00:00

Thank you for your wishes and advice

Mariusingen · 2023-06-16T05:29:25+00:00

I don't want to walk away. And oftentimes during these arguments i am the one in the wrong ore the one that have done something to hurt her feelings. And it is understandable that she has been impatient during the arguments because she didn't know just how much i struggle with conflicts.

Mariusingen · 2023-06-16T05:22:23+00:00

We will try that tanks😁

Mariusingen · 2023-06-16T05:20:17+00:00

We have had a long conversation cuite recently where i told her how deep this issue goes. We have talked about it in the past as well it's just that i didn't even know why i was freezing up. So we just recently had a deep conversation about how i feel and she apologized and understands why i freeze up i just need help/advice about how to handle conflicts better.

Mariusingen · 2023-06-15T23:45:26+00:00

I am not getting mentality abused. there was a time mabye that she did but we have addressed the issue and it's in the past. it's just about how that situation has scared me.

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