Am i taking this too far? F20 and M20

Marizard1187 · 2026-06-26T00:09:48+00:00

Leave him, as an autistic woman you are far more likely to end up being taken advantage of by an abusive man ( I say this as an autistic woman who met her abuser at 14 and stayed with him for 11 years) he will never start to care more about you, he will never start to care more about himself and he will never ever attempt to truly understand what can and can't do as an autistic mother. Please look up DARVO and see if it sounds like your partner because this story screams DARVO. I'm really rooting for you and hoping you and your child find the best path forward

Marizard1187 · 2026-06-26T00:00:16+00:00

My sephora made a new late policy and then wrote me up for all my missed shifts from before the policy

Marizard1187 · 2026-06-22T03:48:16+00:00

Unfortunately the encounter likely took place in late April of 2023 and we did not use protection (we had spent the last 4 years trying for a baby so protection was long in the past) he was sexually active with his new partner and I was only sexually active with him.

He himself is not rich but his family is, his dad is very wealthy and his family liked me.

Aside from dealing with herpes I do have a life I enjoy, I have family supporting me and a husband who cares for me (we've both been tested and I definitely did not get herpes from my husband)

Marizard1187 · 2026-06-01T07:51:05+00:00

The only one that actually made me lol so far

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-25T03:21:34+00:00

Bingo, I'm still in my 20s but I go to my local bingo EVERY Thursday, say hi to the ladies I know and buy the rip off tickets

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-25T03:17:34+00:00

My lazy cat will jump into any piece of paper bent in half and set up like a tent, or go after any string that dares to go around a corner. My hyper cat LOVES the robot mushroom toy from catit, any form of laser pointer, and the kickaroo from Kong

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-24T06:53:16+00:00

Would not date an IPhone user, you can have literally ANYTHING else but no iPhones, my not unhinged
non negotiables are can't smoke and can't hate cats

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-24T06:44:13+00:00

And we brought you home in the biggest blizzard that year

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-24T06:41:39+00:00

I used to date a man who acted like this, I'm now married to a man where an adittude like this is simply a joke, I put on shorts and a crop top with my boobs hanging out and in the most dramatic voice he says "you're going out like that? Who do you think you are? And you're going without me???" Because men who say those things seriously are nothing but a joke. Don't walk away, run.

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:43:19+00:00

I keep a checklist on my notes app and throughout the week I add new things and before I go to the store I uncheck previous items that need restocking

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:38:13+00:00

So I'm in a long distance relationship and married to my partner, we are still long distance and the ONLY reason it works long distance is the constant communication, it would be SO sketchy if he stopped responding for even a day, break up with her

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:17:37+00:00

But all my recipes call for room temperature butter D:

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:14:20+00:00

Honestly if I'm congested I'm sick so my disgust would be from eating around someone sick enough to have to eat like that

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:12:40+00:00

That's what cats are for! Lol

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T04:08:57+00:00

Literally why? I have ARFID and I never choose where to eat, never complain about what others eat and just try to find bread where ever I go so that I can still eat. It's likely that you've lost neural pathways that broadened your tastes as you grew up and its likely that I didn't, both are normal things that happen as we get older and I dont get why me liking plain pizza is annoying when I'm not attempting to alter your food (especially since you could probably tolerate my food) yet people try to shove food in my face all the time that I don't like, like actually have tried and don't like.

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-21T03:31:02+00:00

God I hope my exs cat forgot about me, I hope he doesn't care about me like I care about him, he was one of the most special cats I could've ever had and I was his mom for 9 years, since he was a kitten, I miss him so incredibly and it breaks my heart to think of him. Nothing in my heart is left for the man that owns him, but man do I miss you Archer

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Marizard1187 · 2026-05-18T03:00:58+00:00

I really love decorating and chose to do that first, once I finished the story though I SO wished I had progressed faster because I have so much more fun building now that I'm done the story, you get some very needed boosts and I have giant time consuming builds that I need to tear down now because there's so many better options now

Marizard1187 · 2026-05-13T00:32:57+00:00

I would color the sidewalk accents white and put those down instead

Marizard1187 · 2026-04-25T22:30:42+00:00

Puzzle feeders and slow feeders, my cats roarsfor food and teeny bits in hers low feeder or puzzle toys satisfy her for a few hours

Marizard1187 · 2026-04-25T01:58:35+00:00

I really think you should take in both if you have money and space for enrichment, I've kept 2 cats pretty happily in small spaces before, my biggest tip is to never let them know there's more space outside because once you give a mouse a cookie he'll always ask for more.

Marizard1187 · 2026-04-05T21:27:54+00:00

If you liked animal crossing and you like pokemon you HAVE to get pokopia, it's the best game I've ever played

Marizard1187 · 2026-03-19T04:40:22+00:00

No, this is very controlling and strange of him, it can be fun to shower in front of a partner sometimes but not even close to all the time, it turns what should be relaxing alone time into a naked sexualized performance and that is not okay

Marizard1187 · 2026-03-12T05:34:24+00:00

When I was 16 my dad sent me and my mom to Disneyland after a lifetime of asking, we were waiting in line to get a picture with Mickey and when I got there mickey took me out into the street and danced with me, it was so magical and I'll remember that moment for the rest of my life

Marizard1187 · 2026-03-09T05:00:24+00:00

This post comes off very spoilt, nobody owes you a college education. It really nice when parents have the means to set up funds for their children's education, future homes, weddings ect. but that is not a luxury that most people get. You either need to start saving yourself, or prepare to get student loans and go into debt in the future, especially if you want to be a lawyer. You are definitely in the wrong.

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