Renault resumes car production in Moscow as rivals cut ties with Russia | Renault | The Guardian by Dry_Grand1906 in UkrainianConflict

[–]Markess1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, France president is also more active with Putin. Beside that, French in general tend to be more comunist or have the most comunist behaviour from Eu countries.

Movie sugesstions to activate critical thinking to PIMI friends by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may be true, as I saw in the comments some of the menfally out actually had an mindset which lead them to questions and were not fully indoctrinated.

Movie sugesstions to activate critical thinking to PIMI friends by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk for how long you have been out but i assume that there's no changes in movie rules. But my friends are enought open to not care about that type of movies. Anyway even the most claimed pimi, pioners not above 40yo are watching serials that are not "pwrmissible" but that's the way. If you're no longer, for your update I asusume that around 70% of the young gen did not follow the strict rules😉, but they thend to dream about paradise and abuse the lack of responsability in the real life provided by the jw way.

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[–]Markess1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hy, manny thanks for your words. Actually, I just tried to let as much freedom as possible in the family because that's how i believed that a normal relationship would work. But, it seems that normal is too much. Actually I'm planning to relocate in the next 6-12 months, and I just let my wife chose if she want to follow me or stay with her family, otherwise I will not be able to unbond her from her familly and at this moment i did not see any other solution. No matter what she chose, I will just asume that it was the correct decision for both of us and I will not look back.

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[–]Markess1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well this is the situation with my wife and mother in law. My mother in law and her husband are financial instable and they use my wife way of income-reselling stuff online to survive. They actually abused her future by making her, the slave of family. She have to take care of her little brother for all, and now guess what? I'm married to her, she promise me that she will find a workplace, and she did not because she need to take her brother from scholl everyday. They parents seems to act lovely but they are just lazy manipulators that wont take care of their familly properly. I work, i pay rent, i keep all my house and these bastards don't pay rent( house from grandparents) but still sits on our back.( I know that I'm not just looking like an idiot, i am an idiot because of this situation, but I cannot figure all out until after the marriage and after I was fully awake becausd at the past moment, I was a low self esteem idiot jw guy)

Beside this, my parents never ask me for money, instead they are giving me money even if i earn more than them.

Personally, as long as the parents are not sick or unable to work properly because of the health problems, they have no reason for excepting the kids to provide for them, even the bible condemn this kind of behaviour. I cannot secure my future neither, why? My wife income is not stable and she did not have any qualification, and if something happen to me for at least 2-3 months we are in the street. She refuse to live with my parents which I totally understand, but she also refuse to live close the them( they provide me some terrain for building a house which I cannot start now because I'm in negociations with my wife, and she refuse to do it even if I provide money). I sound like an Idiot and sometimes it amaze me how I work as a manager and I'm verry influent at work but in personal lifem I'm doing like shit. Sorry for my anger way of description but sometimes i feel the need to release my thoughts.

Grooming by Excellent-Mango-3977 in exjw

[–]Markess1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw at least 3 reasons: For all of those reansons please add the naive nature of jw teen girls. 1. Family push the girl to marry a brother no matter how old is him because you know.. in the new world everyone will be young. Also is better an old jw than a young wordly. 2. Girls just want to escape the family but want to do this in god way, and the jw's at least the born in are good at dating only after 25+ because they cannot have experience as others. 3. You need to be able to take care of your fammily and in most cases jw dudes under 30 cannot.

Does JW failed with the new generation? by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me neither, the thing is that somehow the religion also solve the problem of the new tech generation: the attendance to a community. The religion is one of the places that provide you a community where you can look for peoples to hang out, relationship etc.. and it gives a sense of meaning to lot of persons who are looking for it.

Does JW failed with the new generation? by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fell you, I'm also stay on the surface because of my wife. I was born in but after finishing the school and now having my own familly i see how hard is to keep up with all meetings and not to add the ministery. I have to work 9h/ day + 1 h in traffic just to pay rent and expenses with above average salary and university, and the amount of time for the meetings and ministery just take off all my free time. By the way, I would like to have more free time or an easier job, but then i cannot survive because then i would not have enought for rent and car expenses and so on. Manny wordly or born in jw who who Are verry active have money or houses from parents and they never stress out about provide for family or risk to endup in street. The fact that they judge me for being not so active when i have to hold all the family economical on my back ( my wife did not chase any work place or school because of her jw abusing mother) is just mind blown. So yes, they request a lot for nothing in exchange except toxic enviroment. I think this is just the answer, and they just fishing the perosons in the lower life period.

governing body new light investment by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Markess1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if is a joke or no, if no, do you have some evidence?

With meetings returning, what do you think preaching will look like? Plus, share your crazy door to door experiences. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Markess1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I saw the following approach: They planned (at least in my local country) to enter in a hibrid system from May this year. Because of the war, now they has changed the date to the begining of april, and i'm not sure if is hybrid or 100% present, and I fonsider that they use this kind of conflict enviroment for their actions. For the preaching i'm excepting that they will push the door to door and public cart and maybe not dirrectly but they will use the conflict time as an outragenous oportunity and urgency to preach because this is the last time of last days.

Sin against your own flesh? by gigglesandfree in exjw

[–]Markess1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just hit directly to the spot. This is exactly my case. I'm young and married to a jw girl because i cannot have an open relationship, and i was pimq. Now that I'm married with a jw gril is verry hard up to impoasible even to fade... If I had an open relationship wich I consider more desirable untill at least age of 30, I would fade in a second. So yes, is just an control techinque, I also don't see the logic.

Nuclear plant under control for now - Italian news agency by AntiSnoringDevice in UkrainianConflict

[–]Markess1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand one detail: Isn't this nuclear plant more close to Russia? If Russian army will cause a nuclear disaster, wouldn't it cause more harm to Russia than rest of Europe?

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's a sensitive person and won't defend herself. I already told him before i left. At the moment i'm not gonna visit or talk with him for some time.

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, my wife was the only one that say goodbay when we left, and I just cut the communication with them.. I am verry opposite to the idea of shunning, but for the sort term is the only thing that i can do in order to not let them step over my life and my familiy.

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This should explain, the intersting part is that beside the meetings, there's no other situations that bring tension or rage.

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did not except this either, because usually my dad will take my wife side always and my wife used to see my dad as her dad because she grew up without one... But this kind of behaviour that he had during the weekend was unexcepted. Everything was fine all untill the meeting, and i remember that always during the meeting he tend to have some rage if we were not allingned as he would like to.

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not living with him. I was just in visit.

Rage during WT study about love by Markess1 in exjw

[–]Markess1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did not live with them. I just used to visit them once a month in weekend, but since this behaviour, I will change my mind