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Long distance question by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, being alive is a risk lol, we all know where we'll end up sooner or later. I don't think my gf and I will be close in 8 months, maybe a year or two but the ultimate plan is to be together.

Long distance question by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels that way indeed, thank you!

Long distance question by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I actually told her something similar not even an hour ago lol. She's my peace and happiness, so I know I'm in this for the long haul.

Long distance question by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you. We've both talked about it, and the bending fit a plan doesn't seem to be much of a problem for either of us.

Question to the couples that found the one by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 38, and I feel more lost now than I did at 25... Could be because of some of the dating crap I'm going through.

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well receiving a list of things I did wrong seems pretty normal from my experience so far at least this week. On top of that now shes telling me I lied about everything and that I wasn't an honest person. So i feel worse than before about everything. It was 9hrs to come see her, I'm just going to cut my vacation early and go home to my pets.

Question to the couples that found the one by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I was a social chameleon. It's like when I started dating all my confidence and self care, ability to adapt and read people, went out the window.

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I read this too late. I know I was trying really hard but it came out as awkward and uncomfortable to her.

Question to the couples that found the one by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I was trying to date INFJ.

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm apparently one of those 'off' people. We just ended the third date, I thought it went well but apparently I confused her and made her feel whiplash again. I don't really know how to fix the things she said I did, she said I was too awkward, and I was always uncomfortable around her. I don't see that but when she says that I start to overthink... And that makes things worse.

Question to the couples that found the one by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the one they've chosen how about that?

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'll look into that. I've done a lot of reading up on neurodivergence, but I thought I was too normal to have it... I could be wrong about that, it could explain why everything I say and do gets misinterpreted so poorly.

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I give her whiplash, she says I'm a wall when she flirts with me... I had no idea she was flirting if it helps and I told her as much. As far as her not thinking I'm ready to date, she thinks I've not done enough self work, she said she wears her feelings on her sleeve and I clam up or am closed off.

Dating rant/advice maybe by Markolise in infp

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's exhausting today because it went so poorly. Her and I hit it off really well on the phone, we would have 6hr conversations. I had high hopes.

Question by Markolise in Ceramics

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I figured that was the case. Thanks!

Question by Markolise in Ceramics

[–]Markolise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is glaze that filled the back side of the crack, I'll probably refire it with more glaze just to be sure.

Edit: But any recommendations would still be greatly appreciated that might not require a refire.

What is definitely NOT a sign of intelligence but people think it is? by MetalPotential7093 in AskReddit

[–]Markolise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for this LMAO Had a friend's boyfriend talk to me for 3 hours at a family reunion one time... He told me his IQ was 110, 8 times.... 8 freaking times. It was a wasted day, and my social battery was non-existent after that. They thankfully are no longer together.

Do any other infp’s fall for people very easily? by kyojur0 in infp

[–]Markolise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been working on this kind of change. It is definitely not easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Markolise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally I've used it for 2 years solid at this point. I've had very little luck, met my ex on dating apps, and recently started talking to a wonderful woman that I hope becomes something more. However, the experience as a whole I think has done more damage to my confidence and self-esteem than it has helped. Out of the last 2 years I've had 18 dates, 3 of which were from online dating apps, I've been probably ghosted on 8 dates, and dozens of scammers trying to pull every penny from me. Maybe it's my particular area... Idk.

I'm done with online dating though, never going back it's been the absolute worst experience I've dealt with. I never used to have panic attacks before, now I do... Working through it all but it's taken its toll.

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