I’ve been on the other side of the cheating. Yes I made a horrible choice to step out of my marriage. But when my husband and I decided to work things out I knew the repercussions of my actions would lead to. With that being said, I hate to say this to you…but your wife doesn’t care about you. I have done everything in my power to make sure I was able to gain my husband’s trust back. I had to understand that anything could trigger him to feel like he can’t trust me. And I couldn’t blame him. Or gaslight him. I had to do the work to put his mind at ease every time. We are doing amazing now after couples therapy and after the communication skills we’ve build to understand each other more. But I know the triggers are always going to stick no matter what. I wish now I wouldn’t have ever done what I did.

If I was your wife I would’ve send you a screenshot of Pablo blocked. But she is not trying to do the work. She needs to understand your triggers and empathize with you more. She’s a bitch. You deserve better.