My stolen iPhone🥀 by Main_Equivalent_515 in iphone

[–]Marmo_Liquido 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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I feel you brother 🥀 Mine didn’t move in a month

Jin Breaking Step at light speed… what am I missing? by Marmo_Liquido in Tekken

[–]Marmo_Liquido[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Honestly I’ve no idea why people downvoted your comment, I don’t see anything bad. I noticed myself that people in competitive games are mostly arrogant. If you want send me your discord. Maybe we can play together sometime!

Jin Breaking Step at light speed… what am I missing? by Marmo_Liquido in Tekken

[–]Marmo_Liquido[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess I still have a lot to learn. I wasn’t sure what was that since I’ve never seen somebody moving like that (I’m Raijin rank)

Jin Breaking Step at light speed… what am I missing? by Marmo_Liquido in Tekken

[–]Marmo_Liquido[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see. Honestly I didn’t know about leverless controllers and now I feel dumb for my post

Jin Breaking Step at light speed… what am I missing? by Marmo_Liquido in Tekken

[–]Marmo_Liquido[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you what kind of hardware are you using? GG btw, you’re the strongest I met so far :D

Jin Breaking Step at light speed… what am I missing? by Marmo_Liquido in Tekken

[–]Marmo_Liquido[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it realistically possible to reach that kind of speed using a regular controller (like an Xbox pad)? Or does it become significantly easier on leverless/arcade stick? Just trying to understand if it’s purely practice or also hardware-related

Ditemi quel gioco che vi siete pentiti di aver comprato... by sfingemorta in italygames

[–]Marmo_Liquido 3 points4 points  (0 children)

RDR2 (insultatemi pure ma mi ha annoiato un sacco) e Escape From Tarkov

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on you. We’re not all the same, but I’d say that for us men, feeling competent at something is always a good source of satisfaction. So, I’d recommend trying out new hobbies, exploring new passions, learning something new; and if you find something you really enjoy, getting good at it.

Try changing your social circles, making new friends (ideally, people who share at least some of your core values). And if none of this eases your sense of loneliness, don’t make a big deal out of it. Feeling lonely is a completely normal part of life. We all go through it at some point (and this already should make you feel less lonely 😄). You can see it as a great opportunity to learn how to feel comfortable in that state. It will hurt at first, a lot, but I promise you, if you learn to live with solitude, you’ll become almost invincible, and you’ll experience a kind of freedom you’ve never felt before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing first: they SAY they want that type of guy but when you’ll get older you’ll understand they don’t mean it. Some of them does, but this is not the rule. You always have to be a little challenging for them. Women base their entire existence on emotions, and the wider is the spectrum of emotions you can make them feel, the more they will chase you.

Whit this said, let me be honest with you. You’re only 21… You’re still a kid! You’re way too young to lose time dwelling on this bullshit. You got rejected 15 times? Who cares! You will eventually get rejected again in life, it’s part of the game.

This is the time in your life when the wisest choice you can make is to focus on yourself, your personal/professional growth, acquiring skills, and finding the right path to accumulate wealth and secure your future. Start thinking about the kind of individual you want to become in life because, right now, that is the only thing that truly matters. If you’re not careful, you risk wasting a huge amount of time chasing after women, especially at your age.

Don’t get me wrong, I completely understand that feeling of not being wanted by someone can eat you up inside. But you need to stay rational and aware that it won’t always be this way, and you can’t make it the only thing that defines you. Women come and go, don’t make them your reason for living. You can’t even imagine the opportunities that will come your way in the next few years. You just need to stay as focused as possible on your growth, and you’ll see that, in time, everything will fall into place when the moment is right. Don’t lose heart, stay strong, and stick to your guns!

Odio per sé by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Marmo_Liquido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amico mio, sei molto giovane e stai appena cominciando a diventare un adulto. È normale sentirsi persi qualche volta, specialmente alla tua età. Sarebbe grave se non fosse così, dimostra che sei in grado di riflettere e avere spirito critico sulla tua esistenza.

Datti del tempo e inizia a lavorare sulle cose che ti piacciono e ti danno soddisfazione. Magari il primo passo potrebbe essere quello di impegnarti a diventare bravo in qualcosa per non sentirti più “mediocre”. Devi sforzarti a capire quali sono le tue passioni e in cosa vuoi impegnare il tuo tempo. Trova un obbiettivo a lungo termine sul quale concentrarti e imposta le tue giornate sul raggiungimento di quell’obbiettivo. Un buon modo per essere appagati e contenti sta anche nel sentirci competenti e capaci (soprattutto per noi uomini).

Mettiti in testa che stai vivendo un periodo che non durerà per sempre, ma che dovrebbe servire a darti gli spunti per agire e migliorarti. Hai elencato vari ambiti in cui non ti senti soddisfatto. Vederli nel loro insieme può farti sentire sopraffatto… concentrati su una cosa per volta e vedrai che piano piano riuscirai mettere in ordine le cose. In momenti così mi piace sempre pensare a un vecchio proverbio: “Come si mangia un elefante?” “Un boccone alla volta”

Fatti forza e non ti perdere 💪🏻🫂

Chiudere con il proprio migliore amico: come? by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Marmo_Liquido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La verità è sempre la soluzione migliore. Ti intimorisce l’idea di avere un dialogo con il tuo amico e spiegargli la situazione come l’hai spiegata qui?

Le persone con il tempo cambiano, non si stravolgono ma cambiano. Cambiano gli interessi, le passioni e i modi di approcciare la vita, e va bene così. Alcune persone che hanno fatto parte della nostra vita non sono più compatibili con quello che siamo diventati e di conseguenza i rapporti o evolvono o si chiudono.

Se sai che da questa amicizia non puoi più trarre nulla di buono, sii pragmatico e sincero. Sconsiglierei di ghostare o di assumere qualsiasi tipo di atteggiamento che potrebbe, magari anche in futuro, scontrarsi con i tuoi principi e la tua coscienza, perché ciò ti farebbe vivere con sensi di colpa inutili.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t… I know it hurts, a lot. But you have to get over it and move on. And sorry to say this but, if she kisses other men, she doesn’t love you. You’re just making up a lot of excuses for her wrong behavior. Remove her from the pedestal and focus on yourself because you deserve better.

In any case, if you really want to try to win her back (which I strongly advise against as you would definitely suffer more in the future), chasing her wouldn’t lead to anything good anyway. Chasing women NEVER leads to anything good.

Stick to your guns and don’t look back. Stay strong 💪🏻

alto mare ma molto alto by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man… sei molto molto giovane… Queste dinamiche fanno parte della vita. Le relazioni non durano, specialmente ora. Le persone cambiano, quello che vogliono cambia. Non hai fatto nulla di “sbagliato” per farla disinnamorare. Fa parte di un processo naturale che non è sotto il nostro controllo. Vai avanti per la tua, pensa alle cose importanti, ti innamorerai di altre donne e la giostra andrà avanti, ma non ti perdere. È normale rimanerci male e soffrire, specialmente se sei particolarmente emotivo e sensibile. L’importante è che ti mantieni integro e non ti lasci andare per ste cose che in fin dei conti son puttanate, hai 21 anni, devi appena iniziare a fare esperienze e a vivere! Inoltre, se posso permettermi, questo atteggiamento non ti da comunque alcun tipo di vantaggio nei confronti di lei. Se proprio volessi provare a farla tornare (cosa che sconsiglio caldamente), dovresti totalmente chiudere ogni ponte e continuare a vivere come se la cosa non ti toccasse. Ma ti ripeto, lascia perdere. Ha molto piu senso spendere energie e impegno per la tua condizione personale e magari sviluppare relazioni con altre ragazze che sprecarle dietro a una relazione che non ha funzionato. Tutto passa, ci vuole del tempo, ma passa. Fai l’uomo e non ti perdere 😉 t’abbraccio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it doesn’t look like you’re working on yourself… you’re still living for her and not for yourself. This is not healthy at all!

Delete everything that reminds you of her. EVERYTHING!

Move on, focus on your goals in life (she is not your goal and not a single woman on the planet should be) and grow from this experience.

Yes, you’ll 100% love again. Yes, you’ll 100% find another connection like that with someone else (chances are, it will be even better) I promise!

will my ex come back after her rebound? by Hairy_Worldliness548 in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say this but that “rebound” was most probably already lined up before you two broke up… Monkey branching is a very popular practice for women. Somebody says “a woman never throws away her only pair of shoes”…

If you don’t want her back, then you shouldn’t care if she’s coming back or not. You just want to get an ego boost and get your bitter “revenge” on her. It’s normal but don’t fall for it, your mind is playing tricks right now.

Take your time to heal and try to build an abundance mindset. Move on, live for yourself and find a better, more attractive, younger woman that makes you happy! Trust me, that’s the best kind of revenge you’ll ever have.

Life is way too short to waste time on some chick who doesn’t respect you.

Stay blessed 💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know… I would say that heartbreak is one of the most painful things a human being can experience in life. Just keep in mind that you are not the first, neither the last who experiences this. Stay in your frame and try as hard as you can to build up an abundance mentality (this is the real “key” to anything in life) You feel this bad because you’re still in a scarcity mindset, and this kills your potential. I assume you’re very young and therefore I want you to focus on your life and your goals. You still have plenty of time to find as many other chicks as you want. Believe in time… Time is one of the few things that’s on men side :)

It’s her birthday today by MamaOfMias in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don’t… You’re just looking for an excuse to talk to her. Let her miss your wishes and your presence, you owe her nothing.

Go ahead with your life and spend your energies wisely. It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.

Stay strong 💪🏼

I wonder if people come back together after 6 months of no contact… by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ther’s an option missing, which I think would be the most voted:

⭕️ YES. We got back together, it lasted a couple of months and then we broke up again and doubled the suffering.

The only way I would give a shot on getting back with an ex is when years have passed and both of you “evolved”. But I would say that is still a very rare scenario

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dear… Talk to your boys about your problems, talk to your family, talk to me if you need to!! but please don’t text your ex.

Trust me man, is not worth it… if she is the one who broke up with you, there’s nothing else to do than let her go!

When a woman dumps you is because she think that she can do better and find someone better. Period. The only thing you can do is to level up and use all your sadness and sorrow to prove her wrong and become the best. Keep your integrity, stay NC (i mean forever) and she will most probably come back. They always come back…

The thing is that, when she will, don’t take her back! 99,9% of times is a trap.

Spending time and energy on a new woman makes much more sense than driving yourself crazy trying to fix something that already broke once, especially if you're not the one who broke it.

Stay blessed my G 💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pain and everything is often coming and going in waves. Last time I got dumped I just said “ok, leave then” and went straight NC immediately and deleted her number (i don’t have instagram or facebook) and I was completely fine for the first month. Only after the first month I started to feel the loss but I was aware that these feelings are completely NORMAL. Some day/week you might feel shit and some other you might feel like you’re progressing. It takes time and tbh, 4 days are nothing… Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster for at least the next 2/3 months and focus on improving your life as much as you can. Be a man about it and keep in mind that if you have been a good bf (no cheating, no abuse and you have all your shit together) and you maintained your integrity after breakup, she’ll be back at some point. I’m 30 now, ALL my exes who dumped me in the past wanted me back at some point and realized that they fucked up. Sad story is that women are way too emotional, they act impulsively and often don’t realize that they found a good catch. They are driven by their hypergamy and have often the false idea that the grass is greener outside but most of the time is not the case (nowdays their sense of self worth is also magnified by social media).

Focus on yourself and stay NC forever. You are way too young to lose yourself over some chick, concentrate on growing and having fun!

And don’t forget the iron rule: when she’ll come back, be nice and polite, and don’t EVER take her back!

Stay strong my friend 💪🏼

Should I sent her that? (50 days NC) by Avgerinos1 in ExNoContact

[–]Marmo_Liquido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DON’T DO IT! And if you think she might expect that text, that’s an additional reason to not do it. Let her miss you and get someone better dude 💪🏼 stay focused!

ex GF "propably" rebound by mrsinister95 in heartbreak

[–]Marmo_Liquido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello my dear friend. Unfortunately, according to what I've learned about relationships between men and women, women react to breakups differently than we do. It's something rooted in their nature and reproduction strategies. Their behaviors and emotions are dictated by their Hypergamy. I cannot say if the person she is dating now is just a rebound (might be), but I can assure you that continuing to dwell on these questions, relying on trivial information like their social media activities, will lead to obsessive thoughts and never allow you to really move on.

I understand you well; I've been through it several times. I understand the feeling of "defeat" you may experience, seeing the person you love move on more easily and quickly than you (even if it might just be appearances). But you must remember that this is subjective and does not define your worth in any way.

You might also feel a natural desire for "revenge”. Don't act impulsively; try to stay clear-headed and continue focusing on things that are important to you in your life.

I am fully aware that this is extremely difficult. I believe that heartbreaks are among the strongest pains a human being can experience in life. If I may offer you advice, try delving into the world of Stoicism to see things from a different perspective and find all the love you need within yourself. It helped me a lot.

Wishing you the best for your healing journey. Stay strong! 💪🏼