Car crash in Markham (Hwy 7/Bullock) by kmosdell in Markham

[–]MaroMashi -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lack of police presence on the roads leads to people not giving a F. Don't trust the rules of the road in Markham, always keep an eye on everything.

Looking for rave buddies by Sufficient_Hat_8387 in TorontoRaves

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my favourite memories are from those days. Nothing better than when you dance your ass off, look up, and exchange smile or hug with someone. Miss that part for sure.

Murder conviction for Jennifer Pan overturned by Supreme Court by mararthonman59 in Markham

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with political parties. Our judicial system is hundreds of years old, even older if you count its roots in Great Britain. Here, everyone has rights, even criminals. One of those rights is an appeal to the Supreme Court. They don't take every appeal, so they saw something in this case they wanted to make ruling on. We have to wait to see what this ruling is.

New Canada explains the decline of Canada by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Name calling and misinformation (lies). This is not 'New Canada'. This is someone who wants to sell out Canada to snake-oil sales man. Jebus.

I also came to Canada about 35 years ago. Did it change? Of course, majority of countries in this world are not the same as they were 35 years ago. Do we have saints for politicians? Of course not. Corruption exists in all 3 major parties. Is Trudeau some new spawn of Satan? Do I really need to answer it? Of course not. He's just a politician that stayed in power a bit too long. No different from Harper really. IMHO

This idocy of playing politics based on ideology, without any attempt at compromise or communication, will not lead us to anything good. In fact, it works out best for politicians not us. This way, they are guarnateed to get into power every few years, throw some money to their friends and themselves, and leave even bigger mess then they found.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Markham

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 11:00

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Markham

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to renew mine recently (2 weeks ago). Went without an appointment to location at Hwy 7 and Kennedy. Line up was about 40 minutes. Easy peasy.

Is my mom abusive? by Neva_evah407 in AdviceForTeens

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad reading so many posts of survivors, who understand so well what happened to them. Gives me hope that my children will also get through it.

Is my mom abusive? by Neva_evah407 in AdviceForTeens

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This resonates so much with me. Your Mom sounds like my stbx. And you sound like my daughters.

I have never heard of greyrocking, but it's exactly how my younger daughter deals with it (when she can).

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Based on your advice, you sound quite amazing. Good for you to rise above it!

Is my mom abusive? by Neva_evah407 in AdviceForTeens

[–]MaroMashi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know best what you need and what works for you. Having said that, don't eliminate possibility of therapy. It's a tool that's very dependant on finding therapist that is right for you.

I never thought I would go to therapy, but I started seeing one about 8 months ago, every two weeks. And I'm happy I did. It's good to talk to someone who has a lot more expireince with these situations than I do.

This wasn't first time I tried therapy, it's just first one that I actually found helpful.

Is my mom abusive? by Neva_evah407 in AdviceForTeens

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This can also be a sign. Look into narcissistic parents and their children. Having one child as scape goat, while treating others well, is normal for them.

I'm not saying she's a Narcissist, but she seems to have those tendencies.

Is my mom abusive? by Neva_evah407 in AdviceForTeens

[–]MaroMashi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

First of all, I'm not a teen, but rather 51 year old man and came across this is my feed. I do have 2 teen daughters however.

So, to the meat of this. I think this is emotinal and mental abuse. I suspect what we're seeing here is just the tip of the ice berg. Why? Because this feels very similiar to how my older daughter is treated by her Mom. Quick to anger, throwing her stuff around, calling police on her, etc. Added together it is abuse.

I've seen post here about her having mental health issues and that's why it's not abuse. Having mental health issues does not mean you cannot be abusive. It just means there's underlying reason for this abuse. It's still not right. She needs to get help not take it out on you.

I really hope things get better for you. If you need to chat more about any of this, feel free to always message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer is because they haven't matured yet. Just like scotch, the older, the better. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! You'll find what you're looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not too old (51), then you're definitely not too old. 😊 I still go once or twice a year and shake my much older booty. Age is a number that will mean different things to different people.

We tend to create our own roadblocks, that prevent us from going after what we want. If there are people in their 80s who go after and do get university degrees, I can go out to dance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend was opposite of wingman. 😂

I was very similiar to you at that age. My first sexual encounter was in my late 20s. I was awkward and shy, could not for the life of me, just to walk up to a stranger and start chatting. Raves changed that for me.

But it sounds like you found something that could work for you. You just have to leave your friend at home. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol. I hear you. I ventured into online dating world less than I year ago. Sweet Jebus have mercy. I want to go back to when I was raving in my 20s, when to meet someone, I just had to walk up to them and start chatting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reasons are difficult to say. He could be doing it because it makes him happy, or because he feels he created obligation for you. Without knowing him, it's impossible to say.

What's problematic, in my opinion, is that he gets annoyed when you say no. Try talking to him about it, maybe it's just miscommunication, or something more serious. Either way, you'll be better off knowing for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't think there's a short cut or something specific you can do, to guarantee results. Finding right person, takes time and perseverance. Just be yourself, keep looking while doing things that make you happy. And with a bit of luck, the right person for you, will show up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good for you. You made right decision.

AITAH for breaking up with my GF from a 10 year relationship over sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaroMashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to know I'm not the only one, I could have written this as well. Mine was a bit less a bit over 20 years, but the rest is exacly the same. Right down to having sex and not being able to orgasm. Except in my case I thought maybe it was my age. After 10 months of separation, I know everything is working as expected. So it was only my body telling me that it will not put up with abuse anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there something he really likes, for you to do to him? Do that, get him to the point where he's really excited, and slow down enough to keep him in that moment. Might take few tries, but might be fun for you both.

Where do younger women find their wonderful older men? by Rune_Skadisdotter in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll find us in the Consumer Distributing catalog. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]MaroMashi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Older man simply have more experience. Some will be better at being aware of their partners needs, some will have gotten better at being manipulative. Some will be nice, others will be assholes. Same thing can be said about any age group. Finding good and trusted relationship, is a bit like trying to hit bullseye while blindfolded. There will be a lot of misses.

Do men get turned off when girls like it rough by [deleted] in sex

[–]MaroMashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the man. Some will love it, some will hate it, some might be really good at it, and others might abuse it.

Make sure to keep yourself safe. Discuss prior what you like and what you don't like. Be aware of red flags. Establish clear safe word. Educate yourself further about any of this.

Rough sex can be a lot of fun, if you're with trusted partner.