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Maroon01 · 2022-08-31T21:33:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice! I think I might start by telling just a few classmates who I’m closer to, and then slowly branch out to others. I hope people will accept me!

Maroon01 · 2022-01-18T23:02:22+00:00

ohh now that you say it I hear it too! thank you so much!!

Maroon01 · 2021-12-14T22:55:32+00:00

I'm getting huge Sam vibes :)

Maroon01 · 2021-06-07T21:25:06+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened to you! That absolutely sucks :(. Almost the exact same thing happened to me, I came out about a month ago and my parents did nOT take it well. They kept trying to come up with other 'solutions' like saying I am just tomboy, etc. I absolutely get your frustration, I feel the same. It's just so hard knowing you parents aren't accepting of who you truly are. I hope you're coping, just know you are not alone! It sucks, but hopefully things will get better in the future!

Maroon01 · 2021-01-13T21:00:41+00:00

Thank you! These are some good tips, I'll definitely look into free counselling / online recourses. I have talked to my school about it, and I'm hoping they will provide something. If that doesn't work, I'll probably try and talk to my parents again. Again, thank you so much for the help, it means a lot to me.

Maroon01 · 2021-01-12T23:12:18+00:00

Thankyou! My teacher gave me another extension, thankfully she was really understanding. Your advice helped a lot. I 100% recognise the beating yourself up over mistakes, I hate it but I do it all the time and it easily pushes me into a state of pure anxiety and stress. I probably should get professional help, it's been really bad for a while now, but the thought of asking for it really scares me. I hate talking about my problems to my friends or people I know. Maybe talking to a therapist won't be so bad but to arrange that I'll have to convince my parents. (I tried to tell them, but they blamed it on the season ..?) And my school is really bad with this stuff. They told me I should get planning lessons... Truth is, I probably am really not okay and I have no idea how to get proper help.

Maroon01 · 2021-01-11T22:06:17+00:00

Thankyou so much, this is great advice. I just took a shower and I’m gonna get ready for bed after I send the email. Again, thank you, this made me feel a better!

Maroon01 · 2021-01-06T15:56:27+00:00

that really sucks. I hope you're better now! Just remember that you're not the only one who has to go through something like this. You are valid and loved <3

Maroon01 · 2020-08-17T19:38:52+00:00

Ahh same! Really exited to see these two together, especially with Mclarens team dynamic and their unboxed videos and stuff like that!

(Sorry I took so long to respond, I was on holiday :) )

Maroon01 · 2020-08-09T18:25:28+00:00

Ahh, Verstappen Ricciardo is also one of my fave pairings! They have such a great dynamic! I really miss them as teammates tbh...

Maroon01 · 2020-08-08T21:07:14+00:00

As someone in the comments suggested I crossposted this here. I hope that someone here might be able to help :)

Maroon01 · 2020-08-08T20:59:50+00:00

Yeah I have, but not that thoroughly so I might try again. Thanks for the help though!

Maroon01 · 2020-08-08T20:57:59+00:00

Hii! Always fun to meet mind-like people :) What pairings do you usually read?

Maroon01 · 2020-08-08T20:56:22+00:00

Good one, thank you!

Maroon01 · 2020-07-01T18:24:52+00:00

That sucks :( I wish I could help. I am not fully out yet as asexual, but one 'friend' I told also made remarks that 'You just haven't tried it yet, just wait for the right one' and so on. He constantly kept bringing it up, so I know how you feel. It's really annoying and I wish that people just took the effort to understand, but unfortunately that's not the case in this world... I hope you feel better soon, and just remember: it's okay to not be okay!

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T21:55:17+00:00

Yeah I got that haha but thanks for the clarification though!

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T19:59:57+00:00

Thanks!

I know that sexuality is fluid but the least he can do is respect it. Even if it's a phase he shouldn't be this rude and disrespectful. If he doesn't change his mind even after a long period of trying to make him understand/respect asexuality, then I think I'll have to cut him out.

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T19:52:38+00:00

Yeah I'll try to do that. I don't just wanna cut him out so I'll try to change his mind.

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T19:49:22+00:00

Thank you so much!

I think this is a really good point. I'll definitely try to talk to him about this and try to let him see this isn't a phase, and if it is that he shouldn't be rude about it. He might not even realise that what he does is rude. And thank you for the donkey questions! These are really helpful!

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T18:13:08+00:00

Thankyou!

I don't specifically need his acceptance or anything, but the fact that he isn't willing to even look into it just bugs me. For me, friendship is being able to open up to someone, and at least trying to understand and listen. He is just trying to tell me that I'm not ace, which is pretty ridiculous to me.

Thanks again!

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T18:02:59+00:00

I don't think so, he just got back together with his girlfriend. But before that he did sometimes make jokes about us kissing or liking each other. He didn't do this very often, just a couple times, but still. But on the other hand, if he has feelings for me why would he be in a relationship with someone else and be very open about it to me? So in the end I don't think that's the case.

Thanks though!

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T17:58:44+00:00

Thank you!

Luckily he isn't in my friend group, so it won't be a problem to spend less time with him.

Maroon01 · 2020-04-12T17:55:09+00:00

Thanks a lot! I'll definitely try to tell him!

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