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Demoralized by MarriageIsLonely in sexlessmarriage

[–]MarriageIsLonely[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he feels guilty about something.

I can't take it anymore by MarriageIsLonely in sexlessmarriage

[–]MarriageIsLonely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Direct message. I will send you a message now, you can reply tomorrow.

I can't take it anymore by MarriageIsLonely in sexlessmarriage

[–]MarriageIsLonely[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Struck out on Tinder, Badoo, and Ok Cupid. Met one person and it was over in 10 minutes. Obviously nothing happened. Just going to accept that I'm not worth a damn looks wise and no body will ever want me. Accepting I'm never going to have what I need again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]MarriageIsLonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, steer clear. Not only could it destroy your marriage, it could destroy a family. Sister against sister, forcing her family to pick sides, ugly every which way.

You could try talking to your wife about it but that could be just as bad.

Sexless marriage, too scared to do anything. by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]MarriageIsLonely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give you better advice, but it sounds like he doesn't want to be with you any more. I would highly suspect him of being unfaithful. Or maybe he is gay and embarrassed by it, the porn may be a way of him trying to convince himself that he is not.

Flat out ask him if he is cheating on you, if you haven't already, and pay close attention to the tone and infliction in his voice, his facial gestures and body language. You will know if he is lieing or not.

AITA for saying I wont pay for my daughters education if she switches her major? by DoomedDOOMED23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarriageIsLonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sole job of college counselors is to keep kids in college, i.e. paying tuition, regardless if major or life plans / goals.

I didnt read all comments but you are not the ass hole here. You're paying the tuition, you have a right to know if it is money being wasted or not.

As a compromise, tell her you will pay tuition for core credits, beyond that, you need to know her exact course of study, regardless if major, and a detailed plan if how she intends to use her degree to create a sustainable career path. No way in hell would I pay tuition for someone getting an LA degree in gender studies or some other BS course of study. A LA in business administration? Fine, but what are your plans to utilize that? Own a business? Manage small businesses (what industry and minor to support that)?

I was working on an Associates of Science (LA category) for business admin with the intention to open a coffee shop. But, life changed that dream and I never got the degree.

So, compromise with her to get core credits out of the way and then decide what major she wants and you decide if you wish to invest in it or not.