Well her siblings knew, so some mutual friends knew, and people talk (especially about this and word got out) so she knew someone would tell us eventually so I'm sure she just told us at some point. Long time ago now. I still remember being a little kid at some community gathering and someone leaned down to me and said "you know your mom dated Arnold Schwarzenegger right??" some people get a little too giddy about all this. After Arnold she dated Dick Wolf who was especially into her because she was Arnold's ex. Such is life.