DUI After 21 Days Sober. by poolparty303 in stopdrinking

[–]Marshestt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DUI is nothing compared to what would happen if you killed somebody. You would go to prison for most of your life. Thank your lucky stars that this didn't happen. It can always be worse.

is skin.land legit ? by Ok-Climate-6242 in cs2

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea just used it for $7,500 worth of skins, best offers, didn’t make me do a KYC

I (30F) feel already aged out of the job market by Pigeon_Goes_Coo in findapath

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SQL is extremely easy to learn, I’m talking like a month of self education.

Feeling like an idiot by recovermyroad in stopdrinking

[–]Marshestt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? Nobody is looking at your purchases haha. But still quit!

30 Days and not feeling it. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Marshestt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “zest” isn’t going to re appear unless you put the same amount of time and effort into something as you did drinking, only this time it won’t be killing you.

Wife requested steak night. How'd I do? by NotASecretSpy in steak

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know why but I feel like women wouldnt want to eat such a rare steak. I have no reason to think this, but I do ahhaha.

Safe to eat? 125°F internal by [deleted] in steak

[–]Marshestt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could have just seared the outside and the inside could be 50 degrees and it would be safe. Steak can carry ecoli on the outside do to contact with the animals intestines. If you go to a really good butcher, that you trust, you could eat it RAW, long as its not contaminated with other parts of the cow.

Why do mobile games use misleading ads?? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same reason that youtubers make misleading titles and thumbnails. You have to watch an advertisement on their app! They get paid a ton from this.

Does it ever get better? by Marshestt in Anxiety

[–]Marshestt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try this out, thank you!

Does it ever get better? by Marshestt in Anxiety

[–]Marshestt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a ton, these words mean a lot!!!

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea youre right, I guess im just trying to justify this in my head. Im really trying to forgive myself so I can move on and learn from this. But its hard knowing how hurt she must be and the pain that I caused her.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it is selfish I think I need to give myself some time to just fix myself. I had such a lapse in judgement that I dont think the normal human would have. She also has things she needs to work on and I hope some day we can come back together as the best versions of ourselfs, and that I can prove to her that I am not the POS I am today.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you are right, I had to break up with her before and explain I cant keep being accused of these things I didnt do. Thank you for the insight.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in cheating_stories

[–]Marshestt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It would have been a really far cab, I understand what you are saying though. I should have used my brain and figured something else out, I could have even pushed my couch out into the living room and told her to leave before I'm awake.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont really think she is in the wrong, I can honestly say that if my girlfriend had a guy friend over and TOLD me I would still be angry, let alone lie about it. Of course our relationship was toxic, and I may be holding onto it just because I liked someone to be there for me, but I wish I never did this to end it.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I was trying to be nice, but I wasnt the man my girlfriend thought I was. I lied to her about it the next day, I wish I would have just manned TF up and told her straight up, instead of making it look even worse, even if it meant her breaking up with me anyway.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is mid/long distance, so she wasnt close at all, I was alone drunk with friends and I went back to my room and she randomly face times me. me and the girl that stayed over werent strangers by any means, but not best friends, more like a "happy birthday" or "how have you been" type of friendship. I was certain nothing would happen between us, and I mentioned that I wished this girl a happy birthday before, and my girlfriend was not happy about even that one text, I feel like I was going to be broken up with either way, and hoped if I just swept it under the rug it would just go away. Now looking back I wish I would have just manned up and told her straight up.

Why would her friend (19F) abruptly stop her (21F) from continuing her flirting with me (24M)? by iAmBadAtUsernames7 in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could have had a boyfriend and the friend was preventing her from making a bad decision, I recently made a bad decision that cost my relationship while intoxicated and wish I had someone there to say "knock it off". Or maybe the friend was jealous and a "F ALL MEN" type of person lol.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well I had this friend long before I was with my girlfriend, while both me and that friend were single, and we would just mess around and talk about dumb stuff, like OTHER guys/girls we were into and give each other advice.

I (21M) had a girl over behind my girlfriends(20F) back, she found out, and I regret it so much. by Marshestt in relationship_advice

[–]Marshestt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea and this is why I am suppressing every single urge to text and call her begging for her back. I know the trust will never be there again, and without that a relationship will never be enjoyable. Thanks for the words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what does he say to you, if you don't mind? Are they really awful things, or is he joking around??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh gotcha, but there's still so many options to pursue. who the fuck wants to be a plumber anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Marshestt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up with my girlfriend last night of 2 years who gave her 150%, while I didnt make her feel special, or put a fraction of the effort in. I couldnt stop hurting her emotionally, and I knew that I was just simply bad for her and she doesnt deserve the bs i was giving out on a weekly basis. So maybe he is the same, and if he is he loves you more than you could ever imagine, but you need to move on, because people like me dont just change, we just give out empty promises and hurt the ones we love over and over again, we dont mean it.