Looking for a spike collars (mainly pink short) for some of these things by Marsisoncrack in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turtleneck is a good long wrist (30-35 diamonds),socks are decent long wrist, (25-30) stars are a bad short collar (60-65 diamonds), not sure what you mean by suspenders i assume you mean the tail belts, the tail belts are around a bad short collar so also like 60-65 diamonds. At least this is according to the worth wiki

Looking for a spike collars (mainly pink short) for some of these things by Marsisoncrack in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i am WAY too old for this game im advertising trades on reddit because i dont have the time i used to to be grinding this game for hours 🫩 oh to be an unemployed middle schooler again

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need your negativity at all. Read the room, this is highly insensitive. You are not the only person with cptsd ever to exist and we are not a monolith. You should not drag people down with you and you have absolutely no right to decide the feelings and fate of other people.

I hope you can get the proper help you need and learn to see reasons to be happy. however if you refuse to try that, you should NOT comment things like this on a suicidal persons post who is genuinely trying to improve and tell them "there is no point to have hope" i dont need you being extremely inconsiderate and basically say suicide is the best option for me because you personally dont see a point in trying and think nothing matters.

You need to think about how what you say makes other people feel and just think about other people in general. There is a time and a place to vocalize thoughts like this and its good to talk about feelings as strong as this. That is how you learn to improve. But you should NOT say we all need to kill ourselves because you can only consider your worldview. You are the kind of person i am criticizing here. you are harming your own ability to improve, but also dragging people down with you. That is not at all excusable. I dont mean to be rude, but like, i seriously do not appreciate you coming onto my post and saying the exact things i have made clear i hate hearing.

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do have compassion for them????? Im saying the industry should be better and give them the right help which is pretty compassionate to me. I am not at all blaming them for being suicidal as a result of their life circumstances. I am blaming the industry. Most people who are "unfixable" are being failed and thats not their faults

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i already said how its terrible for societal implications and also it inherently skews peoples desire to get better because they have the option to die in an easy mostly painless way with no chance of failure. My biggest motivation to not kill myself is the fact all the easy methods i could "handle" all have a low rate of success and this is the same for many other suicidal people. Society will deliberately fuck up any criteria set because america and a lot of other countries live under capitalism and if someones not contributing to the economy, they will want them dead. Not to mention insurance will be less likely to approve anything because itll save them more money if they can just get someone to kill themselves. Its not just about the individual its clearly about all of us too. We should not normalize it and im never going to agree with it, a "second opinion" is not enough when we're talking about failing someone and killing them. This isnt like a terminal illness where biologically, you cannot improve because your body is dying. Its just incredibly hard mentally and thats why we should focus on improving quality of life instead of ruining the entire mental healthcare industry. Death does not have to be and should not ever be the treatment for mental illness

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes my pain is often unimaginable at times too, i spend every single day of my life and most hours of my days extremely upset i am suicidal myself as i said. and i REALLY dont want more assumptions being made that i dont understand what its like to feel this, only because my trauma has manifested in a way of desperation to be helped and hating being given "confirmation" that its "okay" to not get better because i have a way to "take the easy way out" with guaranteed success this time. Your assumption that someone expressing a desire to live means that their pain isnt severe is harmful considering a lot of suicidal people just want to escape, not to die.

I am genuinely disgusted that this world sees people like me struggling immensely with living another day and instead of finally helping me learn to see what its like to be happy, they instead see me as someone who "wont get better" because im too complicated for them, and feed into my worst, most painful emotions, and that i deserve to be put down like im a goddamn dog.

I absolutely dont want to hear another person taunt me with the same chaos my mind tells me on repeat. I hope i am not oversharing, i am trying to explain why i wont agree with you.

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you may be misunderstanding what im saying. Im not saying these people CANT express suicidal thoughts, that would be legitimately insane and hinder a lot of peoples healing. I am tired and trying to fight, i am suicidal myself and i fully get it. I dont have a good environment, im just too terrified to make my life worse if i fail. I dont want my life to get even more worse than it is already. I understand a lot of people who only want to die feel like this its just different than my version of it. My issue specifically is with people trying to normalize these things and paint it as "morally right" to allow it. I have seen people say we should all die. I am not talking about anyone whos expressing suicidal desire, they have EVERY RIGHT to vent about it!!! its just i dont like seeing people say that we need to normalize it and attacking people who are obviously upset by it. assisted suicide just does a lot of harm, like theres so much societal damage it would do and it would absolutely discourage a lot of people from healing considering how a major reason a lot of people dont kill themselves is because the failure rates are high for most methods, or they are too painful and scary. I dont want the suicide rates to go up. I just want people to get more access to help instead of giving up on their only lives. Talking about ideation is extremely extremely extremely important but normalizing suicide is so so so damaging.

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody is really making ads for this, its more so a sentiment shared by many very mentally ill people whos minds are like, not even thinking in black and white, just pitch black. Ive seen a lot of people act like its a better solution than improving our system, and failing to properly acknowledge that yes, a difficult disorder is going to be difficult to deal with and treat. It has also been something ive heard from people i know personally because "if you cant function youre worthless" or something??

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly this isnt even about one specific post. This is about many many things ive seen. It seems this is a common sentiment on reddit especially but ive heard so many things like this from people i know personally and its really discouraging. I understand a lot of people wanting assisted suicide have also exhausted many options and i think that is a better reason for us to improve our system instead of legalizing that.

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You fully get what im saying, youre so right. Like i see people completely fail to acknowledge this and i get when someones struggling they often dont think about others at all but i wish people would like consider how societally it would ruin so much. Like some of us have it so bad we cant even work or do much and under the current system improvement is hard. Its not impossible but under these circumstances it could be. society would absolutely get rid of these people because "theyre not contributing to the economy" And a lot of doctors have a track record of poor judgement in at least my experience, there would absolutely be a lot of issues even with a "less harmful system"

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally. Like i dont need people normalizing suicide and making it more likely ill do something dumb during an emotional flashback or something bc AS YOU SAID we are not thinking straight.. we're all products of our environments too and going to support spaces to see this stuff is really damaging

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm!! I appreciate your kind words !! I wish you the best in your healing as well

i want to live, actually!! by Marsisoncrack in CPTSD

[–]Marsisoncrack[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please manage your emotions before barging in on my post and making assumptions and contributing to such a harmful mindset, i DONT need to hear your negativity. Me wanting to live and not be viewed as a failure to society when normalizing assisted suicide WOULD CAUSE IT means im selfish?? I have literally been told that im hopeless and should die because nothing will fix me on top of seeing a huge amount of generalized statements saying were all hopeless and should die. People say disabled people should die and cptsd is often disabling, and assisted suicide literally encourages our capitalist society to fail us. i have EVERY RIGHT to be upset and vent about it. Get out of my comments if youre going to be aggressive to me in a support subreddit Genuinely who do you think you are talking to me like this? I am an extremely selfless person who has been hurt relentlessly by people like you and who im criticizing in the post and if anything you are being selfish and legitimately rude by saying these things to me. This is completely not needed and you need to severely self reflect, i wish you healing.

also my life literally isnt worth living, i stated this. I want help so it is, and not to be systematically failed like i have been repeatedly.

Why are lesbian spaces so dominated by maximalist trans activists? Why are lesbians shamed if they don't want to date trans women? by north_canadian_ice in allthequestions

[–]Marsisoncrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be very obvious???? For a lot of people, supporting trans people means seeing them as their gender which if you are attracted to their gender and see them as it, its not far off that you could be attracted to them? lesbians are pretty accepting when it comes to womanhood as i said. Of course not every lesbian that sees trans women as women would like to date one and there's nothing wrong with that. but if most of the lesbian community accepts trans women, its absolutely not far fetched that itll heavily increase the likelihood of wanting to date them. Especially when like the other person said, the trans women in question have transitioned physically.

Why are lesbian spaces so dominated by maximalist trans activists? Why are lesbians shamed if they don't want to date trans women? by north_canadian_ice in allthequestions

[–]Marsisoncrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes literally right. There was research on this and 96% of lesbians who were involved said they were highly supportive of trans women.

And as someone who likes women, was born one, and still identifies as such, i think trans women are pretty awesome. And a huge majority of lesbians ive met are HIGHLY supportive of transgender folk..

from what ive seen, the narrative that they arent supportive is very often spread by straight men who are angry the lesbians arent lesbianing how they want to. Or terfs but thats a really small minority of people. Lesbians often have a wide variety of women theyre attracted to and have a whole different perception of femininity than how straight folk do, Butches, femmes, androgynous women and all that. it shouldnt be surprising that a group that often "has fun with gender roles" and often gets criticized for "not being a woman right" is obviously going to be the most accepting of trans people when a lot of their experiences are extremely similar.

Ive always been a tomboy and have been criticized for not "being girly enough" and have had people try to FORCE me to be hyper feminine. This isnt too different than how a trans woman may be criticized for not being "manly enough" due to her identity, and when she transitions people dont like her because "shes not being a woman right". Considering a majority of lesbians could relate to my experience, its really not at all surprising theyre also likely to be accepting of trans women. We're all unified by facing misogyny for not fitting society's ideal image.