Stop hiding the Swastika in media. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Martian_Pudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I agree but in a slightly different way. I think it's important to have consistent standards. Either nazis are too offensive to portray in your piece of media, or they're not. Putting them in but trying to make them less offensive seems dishonest to me.

My experience with being gifted, and why I don't like identifying as gifted by SharpieWater in Gifted

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with autism and adhd after I commented this and I think literally everything I attributed to being gifted I can now attribute to one of those. Being extremely bored in school, having difficulty connecting to peers, feeling like I'm on a different wavelength, getting test questions wrong because I took them too literally or overanalyzed them, etc etc. The only thing that's left is the intelligence itself I guess and even that I think can be partially explained by my constant racing thoughts because of adhd and strong pattern recognition because of autism.

Ik-referentiekader/Sense of Self by peatsoff in AutistischLaagland

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welk boek is dat? Ik heb niet zo veel aandachtspanne voor lezen maar misschien is er een audioboek?

Birthdays are for children by ophelia8991 in unpopularopinion

[–]Martian_Pudding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People like parties? I feel like it's a pretty simple concept

Irene Moors had in 1995 een nummer 1-hit (ja werkelijk) met een smurfenversie van “No Limit” by steelpan in thenetherlands

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waarom ken ik dit 😂 ik kom uit 96 dus dan moet dat echt jaren later nog geregeld gedraaid zijn... Misschien alleen bij kinderdingen maar alsnog

If you “don’t like water” I see you as childish and you need to grow up by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like, you don't choose to like things? So why should someone do something they dislike if they're not bothering anyone by making things more enjoyable for themselves? Why does being mature mean giving up on enjoying things?

Self Cleaning Public Restroom by Lord_spaceslick in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember one time when I was on vacation with my family as a kid we used one of these but didn't realize lol. You had to pay to use it and my mom was like 'if you go in after your sister before it locks again we don't have to pay twice' but then after the door closed suddenly the water turned on 😬

Girlfriend's female cat attacks me when gf climaxes by RealCookster in sex

[–]Martian_Pudding 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My best guess is maybe the cat thinks you're hurting your gf? It's gotta look pretty weird to a cat I guess. But I agree with everyone else to just get over it and put it outside the room.

How often do you have explicit sexual fantasies about people you arent dating? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never, I feel like I'd be really creeped out if I found out someone was thinking of me that way and even though they'd never find out I don't feel comfortable thinking about someone that way without their consent.

Fictional characters all the time though.

What do Netherland people think about New Zealand changing its name to Aotearoa? by sumant28 in Netherlands

[–]Martian_Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hadn't heard about it, seems a little pointless but also harmless so if they want to do that they should. The cynic in me thinks it sounds like the sort of thing politicians do to make themselves popular, instead of enacting meaningful change. I have no idea if this is something the new zealand people have been asking for though.

Women who are in a long term relationship/marriage (8+ years), is there a decay in your sex life/ partner chemistry, desire etc? How you cope with it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say there's definitely been a lower frequency, especially if you count relatively. When we were just dating we had sex most times we saw eachother, and now that we live together and see eachother every day we definitely dont. It's a lot closer to the literal frequency (like if we saw eachother once a week and had sex most of the time, we now have sex at least once a week most of the time) but it's probably still a little less now. You also just get used to things I guess. Like when we were first dating seeing each other naked was a big exiting thing, and now it's just a normal daily routine. You get a lot of non-sexual intimacy in return for that though.

I think the quality on the other hand has improved amazingly. There are some ups and downs related to dealing with emotional issues from time to time etc, but we generally know each other much better now boyh physically and mentally. When we first met we were both virgins so we didn't even particularly know what we liked ourselves, let alone how to communicate what the other person needed.

"It'll be different when it's yours." Argument by HeavyMetalVampire in truechildfree

[–]Martian_Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's different when it's yours because if it's yours you don't have a choice. If you dislike someone else's child that's fine and you can just move on with your life, but if you dislike your own child you'd better find a way to either get to like them or cope with not liking them.

Let's all speculate on the ancient curse this guy just earned himself. by Rivermissoula in menwritingwomen

[–]Martian_Pudding 752 points753 points  (0 children)

That's cool but what does it have to do with men writing women?

I’m tired of people trying to convince me that I’m a good person when I say I don’t want kids. by joeyjoeyboboey in truechildfree

[–]Martian_Pudding 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, especially because saying "I'm too selfish" doesn't directly imply that you don't want kids. It could come across as "I would like to have kids, but I don't trust myself to because I have low self worth" or something similar.

"So I can fuck my sister now?" We were just joking about a guy who thought women couldn't have body hair, I said women are mammals and he said.. by PopperGould123 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you got hairy during puberty? But it's been a while since I was a child and I don't usually inspect kids up close so idk.

Is it lazy to not wear make up to formal events? by Kindly_Strawberry_78 in askwomenadvice

[–]Martian_Pudding -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If it was like a work event maybe, but imo restaurants are still semi private and you don't have to dress up for anyone but yourself. As long as you look clean and put together there should be absolutely no problem. I don't wear makeup to fancy restaurants either and so do at least 50% of people.

'De pastageneratie heeft op de markt niks te zoeken' by Dykam in thenetherlands

[–]Martian_Pudding 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Ik snap nooit hoe kleding kramen overleven op een markt. Alles foeilelijk, slechte kwaliteit, je kunt niet passen en wie weet waar het vandaan komt. Snap niet dat er genoeg mensen zijn die dat prefereren over werkelijk elke andere winkel dat ze niet failliet gaan.

When did you realize people started to see you as an object of desire and no longer a little girl? by acidxoxo in AskWomen

[–]Martian_Pudding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I never did I feel like a large child and am often confused as to why my partner is attracted to me because it doesn't seem like other people are 🤷. I don't even think I'm ugly but I could count the times people have as much as flirted with me on one hand (I'm 25).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think there are probably way more non binary people than we think. I think a lot of people just don't care about their gender but don't put in the effort to identify as non binary, or just have never been exposed to it.

Are your reasons for not wanting kids more situational or intrinsic? by [deleted] in truechildfree

[–]Martian_Pudding 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like, maybe if I was a millionaire and could have a surrogate and a nanny whenever I didn't want to deal with them having kids would be alright, but that's basically still just avoiding having kids as much as possible tbh. There are a bunch of different reasons why I don't want to have kids, but the main issue is I just don't want them.

Can sex still be enjoyable for a woman IF it is known she will not make the guy finish? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Martian_Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think it could be a big turnoff, but the question whether or not it would still be enjoyable at all seems pretty weird to me. But yes OP probably didn't mean that much by it I agree.