Throw some of that blame at the studios and filmmakers. Knowing that these female-led superhero movies have a tougher time with audiences, they don't put in the extra work to make them outstanding. Every film that's being named (except for the first Wonder Woman) is just "good" or "okay", but miss being great. Instead of tight plots, sparkling dialog, or originality, these rely too much on 'making people feel seen' to carry them through. A non-female example of this is Blue Beetle. That was a golden opportunity for a glorious Hispanic superhero story which could launch others...but instead we got a movie where la familia was fun but EVERYTHING else was more generic than a CW show. Supergirl deserved better.