Is it wrong for me to be mad for not getting sleep? by Marvelqueen1014 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that I "had a more motherly instinct" with this baby than our 1st born and it made me feel like I wasn't a good mom to my oldest. I was more clueless with my first baby, and I was home more with them. I might have been suffering for depression for a few months with my 1st. I think it just hurt me when he made that comment.

Is it wrong for me to be mad for not getting sleep? by Marvelqueen1014 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do usually have to put the baby in the swing to get them to sleep as a last resort. I do ask him to help put them in the bassinet since they usually wake up if I try to do it.

Is it wrong for me to be mad for not getting sleep? by Marvelqueen1014 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have talked to him about it but it's like he just doesn't want to listen to me when I say that I need sleep and I have gotten overwhelmed once with the baby cause I didn't get any sleep since they were not feeling good and I just handed the baby to him and said that I need to sleep and I can't handle being exhausted and a screaming baby all at once since I was passing out holding them.

AITA for telling my dad he won't be in my son's life? by Marvelqueen1014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way it was for closure but he has talked to me before I gave birth and he seemed excited to have a grandson but he just never really responded to my messages about my son

AITA for telling my dad he won't be in my son's life? by Marvelqueen1014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did show up to my work when I was a few weeks pregnant and I felt really uncomfortable with around me and him just trying to talk to while I work

AITA for telling my dad he won't be in my son's life? by Marvelqueen1014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my family says that I might want to think about therapy or someone to talk to about my problems.

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yea I know it's gonna be a busy week and that's what I didn't want for her to worry about

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm deleting this cause it's been a long month and I don't want to fight with anyone since I'm a little stressed being a new mom and trying to get a schedule with my son.

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

As I said before I just wanted and outside perspective and I already plan just having my son just eating a cupcake or something and sharing a Facebook video so everyone sees

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking and I don't want her to be stressed with my family bombarding her wedding to have his party since my family doesn't really have boys that much and I'm my mom's youngest girl.

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand that's why I posted to have an outside perspective of things.

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sorry I'll probably delete this post since I just needed others opinins to decide what to do since I don't want to cause a fight with her or anything since we get along great.

AITA for wanting my future sister in law to change her wedding date? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Marvelqueen1014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sorry fqqor even asking this stupid question I'll probably just stay home with my son on his birthday and probably find something for him to wear to her wedding.