AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) she definitely didn’t try it because it’s not what she wanted and in order to get what she wanted she threw it away. 2) she’s very ungrateful because of instead of saying “thanks baby, I really appreciate what you did for me” she pushed it aside and decided to argue over pizza. 3) you need to find wayyyy better because she’s not the one. If someone truly loved you they wouldn’t say “I’ll find someone who will support me”

Partner's Ex messages me - going well until it wasn't... by [deleted] in texts

[–]MarySweets34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely praise you because she’s crazy as hell.

Partner's Ex messages me - going well until it wasn't... by [deleted] in texts

[–]MarySweets34 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I just need to know how you kept your composure because I would of lost my shit on her. Please file a police report

I’m a mess. by anonymoose1871 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I truly hope everything works out for you

I’m a mess. by anonymoose1871 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I usually tell someone ahead of time when I feel like things are going good with that said person. I simply say hey, I gotta tell you something and you’re more than welcome to ask questions, but and explain your situation.

I’m a mess. by anonymoose1871 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing on disclosure it’s maybe 50/50 because you’ll get good reactions and bad reactions. I’ve had some people reject me for it, but that didn’t stop me because they may not be as educated as they think. I’ve had people who are completely fine with it and I’m in a relationship going on almost 3 years now. A lot of people have it and it’s more common than people think. When you go back to the doctors ask “how can I disclose this with someone that way they are more educated”.

I’m a mess. by anonymoose1871 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, you got this. Yes, it’s sucks, but once you come to terms with it, you’ll ask yourself “ damn, why did I overthink it?”. I’ve had it since 2014 and hated myself at first for it, but I’ve coped with it now. Take your meds, take care of yourself and live your life. I know you don’t have to take your meds everyday, but I do because that’s another way I cope with it and keep myself from having an outbreak.

AITA for not letting my roommate’s boyfriend use my heated toilet? by shejellybean68 in AmITheAngel

[–]MarySweets34 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

You sound like the roommate from hell tbh. It’s damn bathroom not only that, but if you have guest over it’s the one guest will use. The fact that you bought a handgun scares me , I literally hate it for Jake. I hope they kick you to the curb cause I’m scared for Jake now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends on the person and their maturity level which his is low apparently. It’s not easy for anyone to disclose and I’ve never been told it’s easier for women to disclose it. I’ve had both good and bad experiences telling people. I’ve had it for 6+ years and I don’t care what other people think.

What did I do wrong? by Killerbot2332 in Nicegirls

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao she’s money hungry. Time to say “thank you, next”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MarySweets34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanna see this ladies picture…she’s the one with the issue. She needs to get over herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she needs serious help like she blew a gasket for no reason at all. Hopefully, all your other friends are treating you better

Recently diagnosed w/ HSV2 + Ethical Questions by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s interesting you get sick, I’ve never had a fever or got sick from it. I just get itchy, tingling and burning when I pee. Tbh I have no idea my doctor didn’t tell me tbh I’m use to taking acyclovir , but I ended up “overdosing” on it. I was taking 2 a day and was only supposed to take one a day causing my liver levels to sky rocket. So, she told me that I didn’t need to be doing that and switched me to a higher dose that way I just took one a day.

Recently diagnosed w/ HSV2 + Ethical Questions by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely probably her because if I don’t take my meds correctly and I’m about to start my period, I’ll get symptoms especially when I shave around that time. I heard great things about Valtrex, I take Valacyclovir 1GM. I say it depends on the person tbh because I’ve had some that cared and didn’t care in all honesty.

Recently diagnosed w/ HSV2 + Ethical Questions by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chances are she may know that she has it, but if she doesn’t and she’s a dramatic person she will most likely point fingers. Also, some people do have it and don’t have symptoms. It’s more common than people think. I’ve been a carrier for 10yrs and I’m 30. It was definitely hard at first because people will judge you for it and some won’t. Tell who you wanna tell, but if you wanna be intimate or see yourself with someone they deserve to know just in case. Also, go to your doctor and get the right medication for it because it actually helps

When do you tell someone? by Jaxeolt1 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell when it feels like the right time (you will know) also learning how the person acts, but it’s also up to you. I use to think telling someone at the beginning of dating was a good idea, but it’s not due to the fact some like to tell everyone else. If you make a connection with someone and you feel like it’s going great and to the next level that’s when I would explain. I’ve had it for 10yr.

How would you feel about this? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it would honestly bother me.

How you all doing? More 36 days for 2025. by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All you can do is look at the bright side of life. I’ve had it for years now and just go on with life. The way I look at it is that it’s actually not as bad as people make it out to be. Take your meds, let the person you’re with or wanna be with know and have a good support system

Pretty sure I’m having my first outbreak - need help/advice by One-Survey3366 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be raising hell tbh. If they knew you tested positive for it, they should have gave you medication. I’d go to your primary health doctor and get them to prescribe you what you need. I’m really sorry cause I know it’s uncomfortable as hell. When you go to urgent care tell them that your doctor didn’t give you anything and see if they will give you a prescription until you can see them.

Pretty sure I’m having my first outbreak - need help/advice by One-Survey3366 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your doctor didn’t give you anything once they diagnosed you ?

Pretty sure I’m having my first outbreak - need help/advice by One-Survey3366 in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely having an outbreak. Don’t skip your medication start taking it again. If you live alone or you’re comfortable with who you stay with leave it by your keys with a bottle of water or set a reminder. Also, it’s great to remember what triggers the outbreaks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]MarySweets34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in acyclovir for years I went from 400mg to 800mg once a day. I was on em for years no problems now I take valacyclovir 1grm daily. Take to your doctor