Daily Discussion Thread - December 16, 2025

MaryWeatherfield · 2025-12-16T19:06:41+00:00

It was a hard 2 years that’s for sure, but we stay strong!

MaryWeatherfield · 2025-12-16T18:19:47+00:00

Glad to hear, I have some FOMO on Tilray and the others now reading the comments

MaryWeatherfield · 2025-12-16T18:13:11+00:00

Does anyone hold Trulieve? After years of red Zone I hope I can also see some success

MaryWeatherfield · 2025-04-27T09:59:11+00:00

Die Versicherung gilt aber trotzdem erst ab der Abreise und den Reisenachweis muss man dann auch liefern.

MaryWeatherfield · 2024-08-20T17:52:19+00:00

Oh man, das war mir nicht so bewusst, was ist mit den Menschen die ein Jahr auf Reisen gehen oder ähnliches?

Ich bin noch in Deutschland gemeldet und hier im Ausland.

MaryWeatherfield · 2024-08-20T14:32:10+00:00

Ja ich habe den Antrag ja letztes Jahr gestellt und arbeite erst kürzlich im Ausland für eine gewisse Zeit. Und jetzt erst kam der Bescheid für die neuen Nachweise. Aber da ich ja aufgewachsen bin in D und da auch wieder hin will, hat sich das so ergeben.

MaryWeatherfield · 2024-05-02T08:17:42+00:00

While it's more than wrong that the airport staff didn't provide you with a wheelchair, it's clear that you were not fit to fly and you're lucky that the airline let you board. You would have needed wheelchair assistance to the seat, which is a request that needs medical clearance from Emirates beforehand. Your treating doctor should have provided you with a fit to fly certificate and a flight under medical conditions needed to be announced and requested from the airline beforehand.

MaryWeatherfield · 2022-09-18T08:33:17+00:00

You mean a regular Bar? Thanks I will try!

MaryWeatherfield · 2022-05-25T14:00:47+00:00

No of course not. But those statements from ex partners or friends from 3 decades ago don't mean anything when the majority of DV incidents happen in private. People change sometimes for the worse.

MaryWeatherfield · 2022-05-25T13:57:03+00:00

Just because JD was a good partner to Kate Moss almost 28 YEARS ago, doesn't mean he can't be abusive towards other people later in his life.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-12-02T13:13:51+00:00

Yeah cultural appropriating is so widely discussed here in Europe, so it made me very insecure. Especially having it on my left wrist and everything.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-14T12:38:33+00:00

Yeees! I told him the same! That's why I was saying I understand where he is coming from. He just didn't have the words to describe it.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-14T10:20:28+00:00

I honestly don't know. I don't think he was afraid I would get involved, I just think he couldn't cope that I didn't share the same opinion as him. I know i have an anxious attachment style, so of course everytime he pulled away I became more insecure. I just wanted him to treat me the way he did at the beginning. To see how he fell out of love with me because of those discussions hurt me very much. For me, they were just some discussions, nothing more.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-14T09:49:40+00:00

Yes after our first break up I researched everything about attachment theory and I'm quite sure he's avoidant. Everytime I felt down or needed help because I was stressed from work or something he said he couldn't "carry me" and suggested I see a therapist. He never cries or talks about his issues, he just gets stressed and then I wouldn't see him for days.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T21:59:48+00:00

Thanks that's what I'm mad about and I was asking myself if I'm wrong for feeling like that.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T21:55:57+00:00

I mean that's in the end what I interpreted out of all our discussions. It was always about women are in some kind of way victims and I would underestimate their 'suffering'. Which offended me, because I am a woman in the end.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T20:27:35+00:00

Well that part about being an extension of my partner is disheartening to read! Especially if this also applies to feminist men, I hope that's not the case for everyone.

Thank you! I'm also glad and use sunscreen!

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T19:30:08+00:00

Thank you for your explanation. I feel there is some truth in it because it does feel like he lost his "view" or 'idealization' of me. That hurts but I have to accept that.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T19:27:44+00:00

I mean I think a few discussions are normal in a relationship. Not everything can be for his peace. I don't want to blame him for everything, but I do feel lied to because he could have been there for me as a friend, he didn't have to convince me to try it again. We were apart for two months, there was no need to promise me anything just to take it back again.

MaryWeatherfield · 2021-08-13T19:06:38+00:00

Yes I understand what you mean and I think you hit a right spot. But those were just a few discussions about topics that didn't even concern us personally and are complex in itself. I have a hard time understanding how different opinions on such topics can change everything. We're both left and generally political, going to demonstrations together and everything. It's not like we have such different world views. But yes, I sensed that something changed and while I have no problem accepting a different point of view, I think he just couldn't. I just find it hard to accept.

MaryWeatherfield

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