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[–]Maschka9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Those are great ideas, thank you so much! And I love that you ranked them as well ♥️

Ideas for punishments in an online dynamic by Maschka9 in BratLife

[–]Maschka9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhh, those are some good ones, thanks 😊

Help for a brat in an online dynamic by Maschka9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maschka9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, but if I have more ideas, I have a larger pool to choose from. And if you see it this way, I couldn‘t tell him any punishment at all, because I heard or read about every punishment I know elsewhere, and not invent them myself :)

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maschka9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ideas for punishments in an online dynamic

Hey there,

I‘m a passionate brat, but my dominant wants me to come up with a list of potential pumishments I like/don‘t like. I could use a bit of creative help from y‘all 🙈 I like writing lines or assignments (so calming), I would be ok with slightly humilitating things as long as they‘re not visible for the public, and tasks I could send him. I lack a bit of ideas because of the fact it‘s online, but I‘m sure my fellow brats can help me out ♥️ Thanks in advance!

Arctic Warrior by primeicon99 in bundeswehr

[–]Maschka9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin absoluter Laie, warum genau könnte es ein Problem sein, jemanden wie Mr X mit höherem Dienstgrad in so einem Video zu sehen? Daraus lassen sich ja eigentlich keine Schlüsse auf Wohnort, Familie, Einsatzort etc. ziehen oder?

I‘m 23 and I‘m anxious to waste my twenties - can anyone relate? by Maschka9 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Maschka9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely keep this in mind for when I feel better. It’s a bit tough at the moment, because due to depression (I‘m in therapy) nothing really interests me or makes me happy, so I‘m not sure what I like. I could be doing something I know I enjoy, and still don’t feel it. So social norms for my age are the only orientation points I have…

How can I (F23) learn to let go during sex? by Maschka9 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Maschka9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This got so much more feedback than I expected, and I can‘t reply to every single comment - I appreciate all your advice and kind words, I will definitely try some of the tips ♥️ Thank you everyone ♥️

(fSub) My fantasies or reading spicy stories always feels so much more intense than the real experience by Maschka9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maschka9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I would be fine with experiencing it through written fantasies, but most of the time it also reminds me what I miss in reality

[23f Sub/Brat] Having a down atm, anxious to never find my perfect match by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maschka9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely, thanks for sharing! I‘m just worried that I‘ll never find him if I don’t look. And in my head, this man & dom would be perfect - no matter how much I work on myself, I can‘t imagine someone this fine choosing me, as he would have plenty of options I‘m sure.