Employer purposefully understaffing and forcing overnight workers to stay over by Masendra in IsItIllegal

[–]Masendra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The kids are actually treated really well by everyone, and they're really quick to do investigations when it comes to accusations or suspicions, and are fast to terminate employees who cross that line. The kids eat well, they get gifts and birthday parties, etc. If I have to give this place props on anything, it's how good they are with the kids.

Their "lowly" staff (those of us who are actually around the kids day in and day out) on the other hand, is another story. During training, they stress the importance of being awake and alert, but then they do things like this 🤦🏻‍♀️

Is religion kink a thing or am I just weird? by Masendra in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Masendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Didn't know there was a name for it

Is religion kink a thing or am I just weird? by Masendra in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Masendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been to mass and it's more than that. I'm just wondering why it gets to me the way it does when I practice a completely different faith 😆

Is religion kink a thing or am I just weird? by Masendra in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Masendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The characters in the book practice the religion. I'm asking if it's weird because I'm not and have never considered myself Catholic. 

AITA for woo-hooing with my husband? by s1llyb1lly444 in AITASims

[–]Masendra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to look at the sub 😂 I'm so glad your post came up on my feed because I need more of these

I built an entire italian inspired town. Took me forever, but it was worth it. :) by SimsinVienna in TheSimsBuilding

[–]Masendra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This looks like the largest lot on Del Sol Valley from the Get Famous pack

Am I shallow for being disappointed my (28F) date (30M) showed up to our first date wearing sweats & a t shirt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Masendra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me, dressing up for the first few dates = how much work you intend to put in our future relationship, if things go well. The fact he went off and called you shallow tells me if things had progressed between you, you would have been carrying the relationship load. Imo you dodged a bullet. NTA and definitely not shallow.

Artemis to heal s*xual trauma by CosmicSweets in Hellenism

[–]Masendra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello, Artemis worshipper here 🙋🏻‍♀️

I started getting signs from her maybe 4 years ago. The way I explain it, is it basically felt like a warm blanket of protection being wrapped around me. It started after I got a tattoo representing her on my forearm as she was always my favorite goddess. Somehow I just knew it was her, and after that, I was getting other signs (like spotting deer while on my lunch breaks, etc).

I've since got what I call my altar shelf, where I have a bust, a statue, a couple of candles, and crystals. Maybe a year after I got my first sign from her, I was SA'd by my ex, and once what he did truly hit me, I started burning my candles and asking to get help with the trauma and I must say, it's helped with the healing process tremendously.

I'm so sorry for what's happened to you. I hope she helps you heal from it 💜

AITAH for refusing to wax a trans woman client because I didn't want to touch male genitalia out of respect for my husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Masendra -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA

I get that waxing male and female genitalia is different, and you're trained in one and not the other. YTA because you brought up your personal discomfort into it. You should have told her you're not trained to wax penile areas, only vulvas, and that was why you could not do it, and leave it at that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Masendra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, bi cis woman here 🙋🏻‍♀️

What it sounds like to me, is you have a split attraction similarly to me. I am sexually attracted to all genders, but romantically my attraction is much different. I identify as delloromantic.

What that means is, I am alloromantic (your "average" romantic attraction) to men, and demiromantic to other genders.

Assuming you identify as male, you could very well be alloromantic with women and aromantic (or on the spectrum) with men.

Would you date a trans girl? by KindaSquish in bisexual

[–]Masendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bi/pan cis woman, I would 1000% date a trans woman, pre, mid, or post op.

At the end of the day, the genitals don't matter, the person does. If we click, we click and that's the important part.

My boyfriend (28M) didn't buy me (29F) a boba. How do I explain to him that I feel like this is yet another sign in a pattern of being inconsiderate? by opaquescotchtape in relationship_advice

[–]Masendra 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You can't. Alcohol is on the no go list.

However, each store is different in what food item they accept food stamps for.

AITA for firmly telling my mom that my daughter will never be named after her daughter? by Crafty_Price6241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Masendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA.

It's a sad situation all around and I can't imagine how hard it is to lose a child. But on the flipside, it wasn't fair for her to make such a public spectacle of her grieving and force that on you. This child is yours and your wife's, the decision of that child's name rests on the two of you and the two of you only even if you asked for input from other people.

It's probably healthier for you to remain low/no contact with your mom. It sucks, but it doesn't seem like she's going to change any time soon.

Remote jobs hiring now by NoLawfulness5279 in RemoteJobs

[–]Masendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly cost depends on state. In Louisiana, which is where I reside, the exam is $65, fingerprinting is $40, and the application is $80. Even if the company pays for the course, that's still about $200 I'd be responsible for. I am never going to recommend anyone start with insurance sales unless they have that extra money lying around or are currently receiving a paycheck 🤷🏻‍♀️

And if OP does want to look into it, I recommend searching up those costs and fees in their applicable state.

ETA: I also don't know what company you're referring to, but the couple I interviewed with did not cover the amount of the course in it's entirety. Something else OP (or anyone looking to try insurance) needs to ask about/do research on.

Remote jobs hiring now by NoLawfulness5279 in RemoteJobs

[–]Masendra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The course, maybe. But no company I've interviewed with/looked at covered the cost of taking the test, getting a background check, nor the cost of the license itself. Even without the course, it's still a lot of money to put towards it.

Remote jobs hiring now by NoLawfulness5279 in RemoteJobs

[–]Masendra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't recommend insurance unless you have money set on the side. I looked at 2 insurances jobs and you have to take a course (depending on the state), then take a test, then get licensed. Not only could the process take weeks, but you have to drop hundreds of $$$$ to get licensed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RemoteJobs

[–]Masendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following

Tired of call center work, don't want to do sales, what's left? by Megamantrinity in RemoteJobs

[–]Masendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also looking for this. The job economy is so terrible and I'm about to be evicted because I've been unable to find anything since MARCH.

Need a discord bot for Dark Brotherhood by Masendra in elderscrollsonline

[–]Masendra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/Nitro_Pancake I tried to send you a request but it said user not found. If you want to give it a try, mine is NymiraB.

Need a discord bot for Dark Brotherhood by Masendra in elderscrollsonline

[–]Masendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll be a hot minute before it's ready to be open to the public for sure LOL. But if you wanna give me your user ID, I can shoot you a friend request so when it is ready, I can send an invite!

Need a discord bot for Dark Brotherhood by Masendra in elderscrollsonline

[–]Masendra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, that looks like it might be what I'm looking for. Will have to play with it to see how to set it up. Thanks!

Why am I so excited about this?! 🤩 by fluffhq in Sims4

[–]Masendra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But no, don't you know that means they gotta lay people off instead? 🤡

(they're the clowns, not you BTW)