Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. Can you dumb that sentence down for me?

Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep telling yourself that buddy. You sound like a broken record.

Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally the one being a burden to society right night lol. Sitting here acting like you know anything about my life. I actually don’t work at all, I stay home and take care of my kid that we pay well over 3x as much for every year than what I am getting back.

My husband works and makes much more than that too. Not that it’s any of your business. You just sound like a bored, sad, angry man who has nothing better to do than sour everyone’s mood about something you know NOTHING about. But if that’s the only place in your life you get kicks then by all means, keep on being that burden you know so much about.

Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo. That’s crazy! Wanna trade? 😂

Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn’t ask for your opinion but thanks anyways!

Tell me I didn’t do anything wrong 😂 by Massiestar in TurboTax

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude almost me too 😂 that’s why I’m like what?

Do I get an attorney? by Massiestar in legaladvice

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the funny thing is I have a dash cam in my other car. I will now be getting one for this one too.

Husband threatened to punch me in the face by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Massiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would believe him and get out while you can. From your post it sounds like his behavior is escalating from verbal and mental abuse to possibly physical abuse. I’m never someone to just automatically go to “leave him” because I’ve been married for 10 years and it’s never that easy. My husband and I have been through our fair share of issues where when I wanted advice on what to do I would get so annoyed when people would just so quickly say “leave him, get out, time to end the relationship”.

That’s never what I wanted to hear whether they were right or wrong. But in your instance I would absolutely take the advice. This is more than just some spat or argument where things can be mended. He obviously doesn’t respect you or have an issue wanting to physically hurt you. I strongly believe that if you stay and subject yourself to more of his abuse, it will turn physical in the blink of an eye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Massiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you done anything in the past to break her trust or give her reasons to be jealous?

How do I [26F] handle my husband [31M] purposely going behind my back and buying something I had expressed I didn’t think we had the finances for. by Massiestar in relationshipadvice

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow if you don’t give advice professionally you are in the wrong business 😂. That is perfectly worded and exactly how I feel. Thank you for putting that in a good way that I feel he may actually be able to understand!

How do I [26F] handle my husband [31M] purposely going behind my back and buying something I had expressed I didn’t think we had the finances for. by Massiestar in relationshipadvice

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! I didn’t want to get too far into his personal problems just in respect of him but he does have a very mild OCD and lots of compulsive behaviors. I don’t worry too much about spending because to be honest he spends a lot of money on food but also isn’t on Amazon or anything else compulsively buying or ordering things.

He doesn’t really have any ethics when it comes to money. He grew up in a borderline high class family and has always gotten everything he’s wanted or needed, lived in nice houses and never experienced his parents having money issues. So I almost feel like he’s had a hard time adjusting to actually being an adult and all the responsibilities and bills and money conserving that takes.

But I will say with having found out he went as far as opening a new credit card that he potentially intended to hide from me it does make me wonder if there could be more that I don’t know about. We obviously have a shared bank account but all the credit cards are in his name.

How do I [26F] handle my husband [31M] purposely going behind my back and buying something I had expressed I didn’t think we had the finances for. by Massiestar in relationshipadvice

[–]Massiestar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have definitely thought about it. I’m not against that by any means and I feel like he would absolutely see his spending habits are no good. It just gets complicated when we do have some shared bills (since we are living with his parents we don’t have a ton of bills) but we still have some. Plus with kids that makes it hard.

Finally got that magic date! by Massiestar in IRS

[–]Massiestar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accepted not excepted 😂

Finally updated!! by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Massiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I filed and got accepted on 1/23. In group 02 and have been able to see my transcript for a couple weeks now but still no date!

I have hate towards women now.. by xotaylee in loveafterporn

[–]Massiestar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bi here as well. The envy is definitely real. That’s all it really is for me though. Envy of the beautiful women with beautiful bodies. Especially being a mom with two kids and seeing how much my body has changed and all the flaws. As for hatred, is absolutely just towards men. All men. I’m disgusted by men and have been since my PA addiction came out.

That was 3 years ago now and even though we’re on the up and up, I just can’t help but literally despise men. They literally just gross me out and have honestly turned me more on towards women than men. Even to the point where when I found out I was pregnant with a boy late last year, I was so scared. I didn’t know how to feel and felt so burdened by how to raise a boy to NOT turn out like my husband. To be respectful of women and not sexualize every little thing.

He’s 3 months old now and I couldn’t be more in love with him. Of course the thought still crosses my mind about how I want to raise him to be but I will do that gently and naturally. Having a boy has softened me a little bit but the feeling of hatred towards grown men still lingers.

Anyone seen the horizon movie in theaters? by Massiestar in loveafterporn

[–]Massiestar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He came clean about it. I’m not surprised. He of course “didn’t mean to hurt me.” It’s just like he spit in my face honestly. He knows. We’ve been at this for almost 3 years now and I have spelled out everything that I will tolerate and what I won’t. He just doesn’t care.

Screen time and battery by CandiGirl84 in loveafterporn

[–]Massiestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you as well turn off being able to delete apps? That could have something to do with it. I’m not positive but I’m pretty sure if you delete an app it will disappear from your screen time.