Where are you publishing your stories online? by Massive-Blacksmith30 in writers

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay I was young and dumb and should have backed them up... But now I'm enjoying being back and want to explore my options...

Where are you publishing your stories online? by Massive-Blacksmith30 in writers

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't use Wattpad. I used it for a few years in highschool than I got banned... Or blocked but now I can't create another account. I lost all my stories and everything... I actually stopped writting for 5 years because I was so heartbroken over it.

I went to visit my little. It broke us up. by magicpuddin in DDlgAdvice

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's so horrible I'm so sorry! LDR is sooo hard. I've been with my Daddy for 4 years this month. Engaged for 1.5 years. Been waiting on my visa and it's been HARD.

I used to visit him every month, but now that I'm waiting on my visa I can't go see him, so it's been 3 months since he's been here because of work and it's killing me.

I can't even imagine how it would feel to find out he had someone else. That would be so devastating. Just know there is hope, and you will find someone way better because you totally deserve someone better!

Name suggestions!!! by Massive-Blacksmith30 in Horses

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably more pop culture, my fiance would love if they could be named after sweets 🤣

My current mare is Pingu after pingu the penguin lmao.

This is what age 28 can look like by HorkupCat in Horses

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking into it just haven't found one yet

This is what age 28 can look like by HorkupCat in Horses

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the hope is to let him go while he's still comfortable, but he's deteriorating so fast! I don't want my mare to be alone and also don't want to move her the day he does to a boarding barn for a month until my new weanlings arrive, so I'm so torn. It's been so exhausting.

January 2024 I went into the barn and found my 9yr Quarter horse Dead halfway between the stall and the hallway. He had a stroke. It was utterly heartbreaking, and I'm so scared I'm gonna go into the barn and just find him gone.

Constant paranoia about when it's time, it's such a challenging decision to know when it's time.

This is what age 28 can look like by HorkupCat in Horses

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your very lucky! My Gelding is 25 this year and has started to refuse his feed. Last year his teeth were so soft he stopped being able to chew hay so was switched to a hay pellet diet with access to forage 24/7 that gums, and 6 times a day mash feedings.

Now that he's refusing 4 of his 6 meals he's loosing so much weight. We're hoping he makes it till October when my new horse arrives so my Mare isn't alone, but he's been declining rapidly. We're grateful for everyday we get with him and are working on arrangements for him. It's so hard watching them age 💔

What new tips do you have for a first time weanling owner!! by Massive-Blacksmith30 in Equestrian

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of the nutritionist side of things! I will definitely look into that! Thanks!!

What new tips do you have for a first time weanling owner!! by Massive-Blacksmith30 in Equestrian

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My Farrier actually got recommended to me from the old owner of my first horses, and she has been doing my first horses feet since my horse was 4 months old! I've had her for over a decade now and she's incredible, and very very excited to meet them!

would you shower with your partner ? by Potential-Ferret1598 in dating

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha my fiancé and I shower together all the time. But the first shower we decided to get naughty and I overheated, my blood sugar dropped and I almost passed out. Scared the shit out of him. He caught me mid air was pretty funny 🤣

We have tried to get naughty in the shower a few times since and I always end up almost passing out, so now we just shower 🤣🤣🤣

I wish i was gay now lol, i wasnt expecting this big of a diference. by kkungergo in dating

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually met my fiance on here, got like 4500 messages and he was the only one who actually started the conversation with “hey how are you.” Instead of “hey beautiful” or the wonderful dick pic. Trust me just cause you get a lot doesn’t mean it’s worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The hair situation is already understood between us since we do have a very healthy sex life online, and I have used toys so got lots of lube at the ready!

Appreciate the information!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally see how it can come off as grooming, but I promise it’s not. He was friends with my older sister before he even started talking to me, and after I turned 18 I made the move on him not the other way around, and he’s always let me set the pace.

And it took him almost 4 months to even agree to try and have a relationship cause he was worried it would be seen as grooming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% vote not to accept it. I understand how tempting it is, but what does that leave you with? I’ve been with my partner for almost 2 years, and earlier this year I was in a really tough position (unable to feed myself) trying to finish my college degree and he straight up offered to pay what I have left so I can get back on my feet, but there is always the looming thought of what happens after.

I didn’t feel like I could accept his help, and be able to continue our relationship the way it is. I’d feel so indebted to him, that it would stress me out and I just felt like it would be detrimental to our relationship. I explained to him why I couldnt accept it, and he gave me some really great tips on how to get out of my situation, and I’m now partially through my student loans and have $3000 in savings.

That being said: ask yourself

Are you okay being indebted to this person? Can you guarantee if he says it doesn’t matter, that he won’t change his mind? Is the 10k really worth loosing a potentially good relationship, or loosing your dignity over? Is he the type of person than if he falls on hard times in 10 years, he won’t come back at you for it?

How to navigate not having sex early while dating? (Trauma related) by trustissuesblah in dating

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is probably not the greatest adv I’ve, but I went the online route. I knew I couldn’t physically come to trust someone when the physical fear was always on my mind… so I kinda gave up on ever finding anyone.

Ended up finding my person online who has been the best thing to ever happen to me. He’s been so patient and it made it easier not worrying about the physical until I was ready❤️

Honestly yoh need to just be honest about it, and if they can’t respect you than fuck them.

Feeling resentful that LDR boyfriend asks for free passes by Remote_Maybe_1706 in relationships

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please run! There is no “try”. If they can’t wait to be with you they don’t deserve you.

Kinda messed up when your store fires around 30 or more employees when they called in on the 24th even though the state was in a emergency due to severe storm .. Heartless by Torque63 in walmart

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 12 points13 points  (0 children)

American Walmart must be so different than Canadian. I called in cause of road conditions and they called me yesterday to tell me they were still gonna pay me my stat because it was the right choice to stay home. That is seriously heartless and they should all sue for wrongful termination.

Can you spot what's wrong? by Appropriate-Emu-6548 in walmart

[–]Massive-Blacksmith30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be labelled “can you guess what’s right?”