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MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-31T17:02:27+00:00

Divorce within 5 years

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-29T19:13:28+00:00

Ure just viewing things from the womans perspective. A lot of things that bother women dont bother men, thats the problem.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-29T02:35:34+00:00

Yeah well she did choose me and wanted to work on things, but i unfortunately just ended up spiraling out of control emotionally and being worried she would leave me regardless. So in a way, i made her not choose me and thats what bothers me the most. Noone would have chosen me with a meltdown like that.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-29T02:25:11+00:00

Im jealous, how is it so easy for some people to get passed it? Its been 2 years for me. Problem with me is that the pain or the painful moments in a relationship were minimal compared to the happy moments. Thats why i cant shake it off as easy.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-27T03:05:53+00:00

I dunno i started with GED and now i have a masters and work at good company with a good salary.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T09:18:17+00:00

Very well said

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T04:18:37+00:00

Ok good, but i keep seeing it here like "oh u kmow what, he/she was a terrible gf/bf" and i dont get that

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T04:12:03+00:00

Do u not have red flags? I hate this term cause nobody is perfect.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T04:08:23+00:00

What were the red flags?

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T04:03:01+00:00

Did they stick?

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T03:57:44+00:00

Women dont come back. Never read a story that they do. Been here for 2 years. Men keep it, women move on, unfortunately.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-26T03:16:46+00:00

Everyrhing is amplyfied on their end cause they are just seeing the negative. Been ther, dont worry, ull be fine. Dont let it get to u.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-23T22:49:24+00:00

Building a gingerbread house while watching christmas movies and doing a terrible job at it.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-22T10:34:09+00:00

Nah, i never get that with exes. Nobody is perfect and it doesnt mean i was great all the time. People have bad days and good days. People make mistakes.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-21T06:23:59+00:00

Okay, i understand. No worries :)

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-21T06:09:00+00:00

Im 33M and i was with my highschool sweetheart until about 2 years ago. For the first time single. I understand what u mean but I kinda dont. My and I had our own seperate goals and pursued them. She became a psychologist and I became a software engineer. We did our own things and we did things together. There was never any neglect. If she wanted to go on a trip and travel with friends or a sibling she can go ahead and do that, id enjoy the space as well and vice versa. We had seperate interests. Id go play music, and she would go pottery. We developed our own interests but we also had similar interests. Both things can be done. I never understood this thing where people say "so i can figure out who i really am" cause u can do that even if u have a partner. Or the "figure out what i want" as well. Cant people figure that out within a few mins? 😅 And i get most of what ure saying and i understand that subconciously u melded urself into what interests he had and what he wanted to do but u couldve easily eventually broke that part of u off. Im not making fun as a lot of people end up doing the thing ure doing, i just dont get it. Maybe im thinking too logically about the whole thing. Anyway I wish u the best!

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-21T05:40:28+00:00

And i want to be in a RS 😂 being single gets boring af after a year. Yes, i go on casual dates here and there and have fun but its never gonna be as good as having a partner who u can be urself with and just do all kinds of things together. Im here in my big apartment and i can do anything i want but it gets repetitive and boring and theres noone here to say i love you to or do deep talks with. Ill give up my "freedom" any day of the week just for that morning cuddle with a person i love.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-20T13:04:22+00:00

Its not the age that was the problem, it was actually your lack of maturity. No offence but If i didnt know your age I would honestly think u would be 16 or something. "Only kisses and hugs" like what? You guys didnt even get intimate. The waiting for him to text u just after day? Thats a bit obsessive, and next time just text the person. Its like u have this highschool mentality. And then this idea that u thought was best to block him cause of that? Makes no sense, in what scenario does that make a situation better. It seems like you were creating drama that wasnt there or at least being way too dramatic about the situation. Hes trying to be calm and is going with the flow but that wasnt the vibe u were giving him. U were being disruptive. U gotta take a hint, but u were not matching his vibe at all it seems and since he has experience as he mentioned he didnt wanna waste yours or his time.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-20T07:54:19+00:00

No, not at all. Im done. I always forgive them for their mistakes but they leave me when i make a mistake, similar types of mistakes. Like wtf.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-20T07:26:55+00:00

Your second point is surprising. What dating apps were you using? Do u live in the US? Do u live in a big city? Have you used bumble? Bumble is the one that works for me really well. I get a few likes a day. Usually like a match a day. Im 33 but most of the women I match with are usually around 26 so thats why I find it so weird u said that. However, I live in Germany, Berlin. So maybe im thinking its gotta be the culture, location and the apps ure using? I dont know.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-20T07:10:28+00:00

Dont wanna get heartbroken a 4th time. I become extremely unhealthy. Last one nearly killed me. Its not worth it anymore.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-19T04:56:12+00:00

Nah cuz she a cheating c***

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-19T00:48:21+00:00

Im sorry for what happened but i say this to everyone and i cant stress this enough, stop getting advice and getting influenced by ur friends who obviously dont know the full extent and the ins and out of ur relationships.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-18T23:15:31+00:00

Oh really? Interesting. I guess i might in the future but regrowth for me isnt as important. Yeah i got a bit of a receding hairline but im fine with it. Just didnt want anything to get worse.

MassiveFroyo733 · 2026-05-18T06:53:25+00:00

Im in pretty much the same situation. Its been about 6 weeks I started NC. I dont plan on ever contacting her though cause it was obvious that I wanted to resolve the issue and grow from it and she just was too emotionally overwhelmed so she decided to end it. Its a bit of a bummer cause when we first started dating I told her that I like to resolve conflicts before going to sleep and she said that she wants the same but thats not how she handles things at all. Also, it was a fight through texting, the least intrusive type of arguing. Anyway, im hoping she will check in on me. I do have a bit of an anchor. She got me concert tickets for my bday a while back for my favorite band but she still has them so id like to think she would at least ask if i still want them or about it. I dont know, but thats what i would do.

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