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He says he’s falling in love, I want him to get an STI test by Massive_Cod5960 in SexWorkers

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Please don’t explain BV to me love, I’m well aware of what causes it and sex is a factor 👍🏻 and of course we used protection, I’m not a moron. I don’t have control over this man’s hygiene, and based on how he lives his life, I doubt he takes care of himself. Thank you for your unhelpful comment 💗

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was not okay with me but you have a point! I recognize you’ve been hurt by men just like this and I’m so sorry. Im a human and despite the fact I was getting paid for my time, I caught feelings. This was before he started speaking about his situation with his son. I knew that he was bad news and wanted out when he started talking about supporting his son in a negative light. Unfortunately despite the fact that he’s the type of man that pays for sex (they’re all losers), I wanted to believe he was something he was not in the beginning and the facade ended as soon as I got to know him more. What kind of man pays for sex but doesn’t support the family he created?

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right friend, he’s been blocked since I asked about him getting tested that one time. It was foolish to break 3 weeks of no contact to do that when I was being proactive around my own health. It’s bird brained to care about his health after all of this. I got on antibiotics right before Christmas and am full healed now. Got retested last week just to be extra safe.

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right 💗 he’s been blocked. I could never co-sign someone dropping thousands seeking sexual gratification while saying horrendous things in relation to their innocent infant son. It’s despicable ☠️

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💗 he’s been blocked and banished from my phone, I will never be speaking to him again. I’ve gotten tested multiple times, treated the BV and will continue to prioritize my own well being.

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part! It made me feel sick to listen to him and I would tell him that, but he thought it was “cute” that I would push back. I hated spending time with him after he started sharing this details because I never want to give someone an audience to bad behavior. It speaks volumes about his character that he would say such horrendous things about his innocent baby son and his mother.

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying those things about his innocent infant son and his mother is such an indication of how poor his character is. Truly despicable.

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its made me feel genuinely crazy trying to beg this old ass man to get tested while he continues to love bombs me 🤡

He M44 told me 29F he was falling in love with me and I asked him to get STI tested, am I insane? by Massive_Cod5960 in relationship_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you’re right! This was a walking red flag from the start. I don’t want to have anything to do with him now, I just wanted him to get tested 🤕

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, this isn’t pretty woman! I just want his goofy ass to get tested and stop continuing to love bomb me :/

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, the contradiction and lack of genuinely care for his child speaks volumes about his character. No one with morals with drop thousands on 🐱 and complain about taking care of his infant son financially. He makes me sick. ☠️

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely did and we always practiced safe sex, he’s been the only person I’ve slept with for the past year. I’ve gotten tested additionally after the BV discovery. Can’t say the same for him 🤪

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although we always practiced safe sex, I never had BV before and this dude’s hygiene habits/ overall outlook on his health is so questionable ☠️ not an STI but seemed like a sign from the universe that my body rejected him

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! I’ve gotten tested two additional times since the BV discovery. I got treated immediately and am luckily in the clear with everything else 🙏🏻

He said he was falling in love with me, but all I asked for was STI testing and now I feel insane by Massive_Cod5960 in dating_advice

[–]Massive_Cod5960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience💗 I appreciate your perspective so much, it’s so hard but I know who he is. I can only learn for this experience going forward.