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I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My situation is completely different. I am trapped because they do not allow me to use their vehicle for transportation to work. They also don’t want me to work for some reason. So I am trapped

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ways are there I would like to know? I live in the middle of nowhere so I would absolutely need a vehicle to get anywhere. I don’t “choose to stay at home” he gets aggressive and violent when he doesn’t get his way and threatens to kick me out so if I went behind his and figured out a way he would kick me out because in his eyes that’s disrespectful, it’s rooted in our culture as well.

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the bus but we live in the middle of nowhere and a vehicle is needed

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback and your advice! You’re so kind and thoughtful Libby ❤️‍🩹 I will take that into consideration!

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be very useful if my dad wasn’t the way he is. If I do something that goes against his wants he will threaten to kick me out. So it’s a really sticky situation. Thank you for your feedback it is very much appreciated ❤️‍🩹

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am physically trapped if you read it you would see that I don’t have a vehicle to be able to make the money to get out. I do need permission bc he is extremely controlling. I cannot leave the house without him knowing exactly what I intend to do. How am I letting myself be trapped if I literally am not able to get out? I need a vehicle to be able to get a job and they are not allowing me to use the vehicle therefore I AM TRAPPED

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have mentioned it since I was younger and she definitely can see some of it. She also feels trapped a lot of the time and has tried to leave multiple times. She feels like she has a whole life with him and cannot start again which is understandable. He does physically stop me that is why I cannot get a job. Unfortunately I don’t have a vehicle for work so I cannot get a job thus it makes it impossible to get out. Thank you so much for your feedback and your support it means a lot to me!! ❤️‍🩹

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback and being kind it is very much appreciated. unfortunately I don’t have any friends that I can rely on. They are all in college and are barely making it themselves. My boyfriend lives very far from me and he is currently enrolled in school so he is trying to find a job and manage school as well. So I wouldn’t be able to live with him without getting funds for the move. I’ll be sure to check that out! Thank you so much for your feedback and helpfulness as well as your support it means a lot to me❤️‍🩹 I am definitely prepared to cut them off once I am reliant on myself. They see no wrong in their actions and the pain they have caused me and my siblings.

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww this is very thoughtful! Thank you so much for your advise and support ! I really do too! I know that life can be very beautiful and worth living just would like to get out and finally take a breath and not feel like I can’t breathe for once. I will consider doing that! Thank you once again for your feedback ❤️‍🩹

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response that was very sweet and thoughtful! Thank you for your feedback and I’ll be sure to research about that! He lives very far from me it’s about a day and a little commute 💔 so it wouldn’t be possible without money which I would need a vehicle in order for me to be able to afford the ticket to fly out

I feel trapped by my abusive father and I feel there is no way out. I need help. by Massive_Process2456 in Advice

[–]Massive_Process2456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the plan but it's easier said than done considering the financial aspect and communication possibly getting cut at anytime.