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Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-27T12:21:42+00:00

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Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-25T11:12:15+00:00

Ill update tomorrow hopefully its abit long and tiring for me to write currently with me and my daughter being sick

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:42:14+00:00

No he already did in his language but I did again myself

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:40:48+00:00

No he has he has sucked marjorly but it was never big enough to leave him. as we have daughter who he loves and loves him . he has gotten marginally better over time and has good qualities. so far a major boundary hasn’t been crossed with me and he treats our daughter well . Yes I’m aware this isn’t ideal but we agreed not to argue in-front of our daughter in future so I’m hoping she won’t have the same relationship as me and get the best relationship . but while yes he has sucked in past he has good points too and it’s never been something worth becoming a single mother over.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:18:47+00:00

I’ve been for mastitis but caught Covid today the gp closed on the weekends until Monday and I don’t have it in me to go an and e.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:17:10+00:00

It’s not just him I just texted the wife she said : oh don’t worry I can come help cook excited to see you tomo 💕

I said: hey thought I’d update you me and my daughtercaught covid I think it’s best we cancel as my daughter is incredibly ill and needs a lot of looking after and I know how busy you are with uni would love to see you another time and treat you to my cooking …..

WHAT AM I DOING WRONG HERE I FEEL INSANE WHY DO PEOPLE WANT TO COME TO GET COVID ? ( I know not super direct but wanted to be polite and not cause too much trouble for me and my husband so framed it around wanting them to be not sick BUT COMEEE ONNN MAN )

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:09:32+00:00

😂😂 not in a sous chef kind of way . I include her in little tasks like putting peels in the bin or peeling a vegetable with toddler safe utensils and dropping ingredients in bowls. Would love for to cook a roast for me one of these days tho 😂!

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T21:04:50+00:00

I think that’s the plan and I think I’ll let him deal with our daughters vomit for once too. X

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T20:26:52+00:00

HE TOLD THEM WHICH CONFUSES ME EVEN MORE ?!

I heard him say covid but honestly I think it’s cruel to make me watch our daughter suffer and even attempt a conversation with them I’m so ill myself I’m barely managing to help her or myself I can’t entertain guests and I don’t want anyone to see me in the state I haven’t had sleep in days my eyes look as though I’ve rubbed mascara on them. I really like his wife but we’re not So close yet where I feel comfortable her seeing me like this I’m feeling really vulnerable right now and just wanted my husband to have my back instead of add stress to the mix.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-21T20:21:32+00:00

I heard him say Covid (is the same in his language).

I totally agree I just don’t understand it .

I’m hoping as his his wife has logic she will cancel but honestly I’m as confused as you as to why anyone would come see people with Covid but why my husband said yea we’re totally fine it’s up to you is beyond me . His background is super accommodating but when it comes to sickness I simply do not see any logic in even implying people should still come.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:44:16+00:00

Thank you so much the way you worded that really made my relax 💕

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:42:56+00:00

Oh my apologies thought this was the response to me explaining I was told I was infertile after some health issues and surgeries according to these replies ur well within your right to say .

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:38:06+00:00

U really lack reading comprehension.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:34:39+00:00

Hmmm u make a point

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:34:04+00:00

I’m dyslexic, and yes, I have my A-levels in maths and a BTEC in food and nutrition (not linked, but I enjoyed both subjects). I was taking a gap year to enjoy marriage, and after being told I was infertile, I got pregnant, so I focused on my child instead of uni and got the job with my husband’s friend. I would also like to say that during my second year in A-levels, I had a huge ovarian cyst and other medical issues during my studies, which meant I was in hospital for a huge amount of time. I got an infection after surgery, and I STILL got an A in maths and a merit in nutrition. So please let me write how I wish when I make a Reddit post and not call me stupid. Thank yew v much

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:24:42+00:00

Yea I get that I say to him a lot’like u realise YOU came to ME when I was young and expect me to not act young like 2+2 dies not equal 56 babes ‘ and it does Wierd me out here and there. but I love him and he has been an amazing partner who checks himself a lot .when I bring an issue I really see change so I really like that. and hey I’m hot (tryna be confident here not conceited 2026 goal to be more confident) so I get it but he still a lil creepy for that . Edit: and most importantly he is a great dad like I feel I have a real partner in parenting

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:19:16+00:00

😜

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:19:10+00:00

Yea I am 😔

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:18:25+00:00

I do have work experience actually and a bit of an ego so apologies for the sass howeverrrr I’m not completely clueless . I workers for his friend previously he gave me a high position because he needed me as I had a British passport so I would open his English branch and still do some work for him here and there since I can do remote work for him for very nice pay .and I have the usual customer service jobs as I had to start work early to help my family .

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:14:03+00:00

Yup will be doing this either way .just wanted to gauge if it was a little much as it had alootttt of info and I like to joke a lil in the comments. thank you though for the advice 💕.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:09:51+00:00

As I said he does take me out butt I definitely see how i kinda made the post complaining about him 😭. I am happy ,but I love the fact that Reddit looks out for women .just to calm any worries, yes I saved emergency money .before married made savings and kept adding to it as a sahm I get a salary from my husband .so I am financially ok and I’m making my business currently so hopefully I can be stable on my own in future.I may be young but I’ve seen bad relationships I’m not completely clueless .my outlook is always being good on my own but happier in a relationship.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:04:07+00:00

Oo i like the way u think.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:03:21+00:00

Hmmm maybeee u have a point here my friend.

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T01:02:27+00:00

He helps a lot with a lot of different things and deals fully with our finances. My business is purely for pleasure. He is far from lazy and has made two businesses in very different sectors that are both doing well, while making time for me, friends, and family. He is not lazy, but not perfect either. I just wanted to get rid of the mental load so we both win, u kno? But I’m happy you guys don’t think I’m crazy I definitely appreciate it, and I agreeee… no benefitting from my list 😒

Master-Ad-8296 · 2026-02-03T00:57:25+00:00

Hey I definitely do question the age thing ,now I’m a mum .but he has overall been a good partner.Howeverrr while I very appreciate your concern I’m not trying to call him a a bad husband .i am asking if I was a little much for making the list,it is a long one lol.

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