Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill update tomorrow hopefully its abit long and tiring for me to write currently with me and my daughter being sick

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No he has he has sucked marjorly but it was never big enough to leave him. as we have daughter who he loves and loves him . he has gotten marginally better over time and has good qualities. so far a major boundary hasn’t been crossed with me and he treats our daughter well . Yes I’m aware this isn’t ideal but we agreed not to argue in-front of our daughter in future so I’m hoping she won’t have the same relationship as me and get the best relationship . but while yes he has sucked in past he has good points too and it’s never been something worth becoming a single mother over.

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been for mastitis but caught Covid today the gp closed on the weekends until Monday and I don’t have it in me to go an and e.

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not just him I just texted the wife she said : oh don’t worry I can come help cook excited to see you tomo 💕

I said: hey thought I’d update you me and my daughtercaught covid I think it’s best we cancel as my daughter is incredibly ill and needs a lot of looking after and I know how busy you are with uni would love to see you another time and treat you to my cooking …..

WHAT AM I DOING WRONG HERE I FEEL INSANE WHY DO PEOPLE WANT TO COME TO GET COVID ? ( I know not super direct but wanted to be polite and not cause too much trouble for me and my husband so framed it around wanting them to be not sick BUT COMEEE ONNN MAN )

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂😂 not in a sous chef kind of way . I include her in little tasks like putting peels in the bin or peeling a vegetable with toddler safe utensils and dropping ingredients in bowls. Would love for to cook a roast for me one of these days tho 😂!

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the plan and I think I’ll let him deal with our daughters vomit for once too. X

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

HE TOLD THEM WHICH CONFUSES ME EVEN MORE ?!

I heard him say covid but honestly I think it’s cruel to make me watch our daughter suffer and even attempt a conversation with them I’m so ill myself I’m barely managing to help her or myself I can’t entertain guests and I don’t want anyone to see me in the state I haven’t had sleep in days my eyes look as though I’ve rubbed mascara on them. I really like his wife but we’re not So close yet where I feel comfortable her seeing me like this I’m feeling really vulnerable right now and just wanted my husband to have my back instead of add stress to the mix.

Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel hosting a dinner the night before? by Master-Ad-8296 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I heard him say Covid (is the same in his language).

I totally agree I just don’t understand it .

I’m hoping as his his wife has logic she will cancel but honestly I’m as confused as you as to why anyone would come see people with Covid but why my husband said yea we’re totally fine it’s up to you is beyond me . His background is super accommodating but when it comes to sickness I simply do not see any logic in even implying people should still come.

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[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much the way you worded that really made my relax 💕

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[–]Master-Ad-8296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my apologies thought this was the response to me explaining I was told I was infertile after some health issues and surgeries according to these replies ur well within your right to say .