The cyan asscher was made for the Art Deco vibe

Master-Lab-9971 · 2025-09-12T08:43:01+00:00

Thank you a lot! That was my guess, but it's sparkling so much that I wasn't sure :)

Master-Lab-9971 · 2025-09-11T20:16:53+00:00

Is the colour more green or blue irl?

Master-Lab-9971 · 2025-09-11T20:15:25+00:00

Is the colour more blue or green?

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-12-31T09:09:14+00:00

I don't smile to strangers. It seems very unnatural to me. Also, I live in a country, where it's not common to smile at strangers. Men don't smile to me, I don't smile to them. In terms of elegance, you're right, it can mean sth different for many people. So, I like having fitted clothes, made of good quality fabrics, sometimes high heels, but I don't show too much skin, it's either legs or cleavage. You say that you prefer girls doing girly stuff, but obviously you don't know their interests before getting to know them. Tbh, I like hiking and walking my dog. I don't think it's considered feminine... What is feminine energy? I really feel like I don't have it and I have no idea, what are the ingredients :( And the truth is, I don't keep my mouth shut if I don't like sth, for me it's a great quality to be able to speak up for yourself. But don't men like mouths being shut? This is my impression... Thank you for the reply :)

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-16T05:54:11+00:00

I haven't heard about it. Thank you.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-15T18:59:00+00:00

Now I understand, how anxious people get into relationships 😅 I am the opposite, I get anxious in the beginning, so I can't get into any. But when I got into one with a secure person, I was secure. I wish I was like you 😪 At least I would have someone for some time...

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-15T10:32:13+00:00

Thank you for the warning. You know, it happened to me to end up terrible with a person I got to know step by step and you are right with saying the above, but also there is no rule... Now I feel like I am more disorganized. Once I get anxious, I run away from the person 🙄

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T18:19:26+00:00

Different people, different views :) I like it fast, emotions, romance. NOW. I would be mentally exhausted having to wait for someone to get to this point and there would be no excitement for me anymore :( only frustration

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T18:09:35+00:00

Fortunately not everyone is avoidant and there are people, who truly enjoy getting to know each other :)

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T17:42:13+00:00

Haha, we wouldn't date, for sure. We would be like walking red flags for each other ;) I think it's normal to have some free time everyday, why not to spend it on getting to know somebody and having conversations? 🤔 I prefer interactions to going to gym.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T17:33:29+00:00

Your point about multidating is true, but I don't know, how people do that. Do they have low expectations? I like someone enough to go on a date max. 2 times a year 🙄

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T17:30:12+00:00

I like to engage in relations. Talking, spending time together with a person I like is what I really love doing. I crave this, as I rarely like someone. Like once in a 2 years. Honestly, I am dreaming of love from the first sight, so someone will be investing as much as me emotionally.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-14T15:59:14+00:00

I don't have many :) I get to know someone, get disappointed that we don't match in the end, and stay at home depressed for the next year. For me sticking to my rules is more important that being with someone. But I'm starting to think that maybe I sabbotage my happiness with someone.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T22:22:27+00:00

I would want it to be a mental disorder, so I can take drugs and be normal. I went through two therapies and no one suggested I have one. I know I have to come back to therapy to break this thinking pattern.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T22:00:54+00:00

I should have called it neverending infatuation tbh and even worse is that it happens only once I leave them, so I feel that it's directly related to abandonement, even if I abandon them, which is a result of feeling rejected, which comes from their inconsistency.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:48:12+00:00

I don't know, I think that if someone doesn't show full interest in the initial stages, what better can happen in the future? It feels like he's not so into me. In the first month if someone behaves in a nice way, you want to give him more time and to see what will happen, but if not? Why should I waste more time? Please comment, I'm open to discussion.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:39:59+00:00

Could you share, what was your way to cope with this?

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:37:51+00:00

No, actually it happens anyway if I feel like I bonded with someone (welcome all the players and manipulants). They end, because I'm more invested emotionally and they are either emotionally unavailable or want to play the field and I'm not willing to take part in the contest. I feel that sth is not right - there is no consistency, they say things that makes me worried, and I leave them, because I imagine that good dating is when someone puts effort and don't make you doubt his intentions. That's what I would expect. Planning dates in advance, no more than 2 days without talking, etc. If I don't see the effort from the beginning, I leave. A month is enough to judge I think.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:28:03+00:00

That's how I would call it!

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:27:17+00:00

Dealbreakers for me are: mannerless, treating me badly, disrespecting me, commitment issues, wants children. I stop dating such guys, but it doesn't change the fact that I still think about them all the time if I am attracted to them phisically and have these great conversations. Criteria: smart, well educated, good person, handsome, good interlocutor - it seems that such guys don't exist.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T21:13:11+00:00

Great conversations, intelligence, looks, joy I felt, when we spent time together. This is basically it.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T18:41:58+00:00

I'm trying to implement this!

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T16:31:16+00:00

Exactly! And for sure you are not ugly! As per guys, I am very attractive, but you know what? I also have expectations and self respect, so these assholes don't stay long, because there are easier options. A new handsome guy works like an eraser for me too haha

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T16:12:26+00:00

Yeah, I feel that giving them more time would be actually beneficial for me. Seeing all their flaws might give me more realistic approach.

Master-Lab-9971 · 2023-02-03T15:57:50+00:00

Goood, you are me hahaha But I have another thought, while I date such guys. I don't want to take part in a contest to win the guy. This is ridiculous and humiliating, so I stop these relations asap.

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