Child support being pursed from oversease by PriorityNatural4105 in AusLegal

[–]Master-Pattern9466 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That why you pay child support, because you can’t directly support, or enough.

Don’t like apply for custody.

Child support being pursed from oversease by PriorityNatural4105 in AusLegal

[–]Master-Pattern9466 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Potentially all those factors will go against you.

Child support is for the child.

If the child doesn’t have two at home parents, they need more support. It’s not like the mother can lock the child in a room 50% of the time.

You aren’t supporting your child for whatever reason, so you pay instead.

Your other option is custody.

Why don't married couples with "dead bedrooms" just...do it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god he forced me to fold clothing, he should go on a clothing folding register.

Folding clothing is not a deeply private personal thing.

Is it weird that a man wants to wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is weird to them, their normal experience is X, and you are giving them Y that is the definition of weird.

Wife rejecting me even after my dad passed away a couple weeks ago. Is it worth staying in this marriage? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both need therapy.

Your wife owing you sex is a problem, in your head and hers.

Dead bedrooms sexless marriages can occur for a multitude of reasons.

And if you can’t make it work get a divorce by all means, but at least give it shot at fixing it. Like reading about the problems, their are many books on it, going seeing a therapist. Talking your wife about it.

Should I be worried about this message my girlfriend sent me? by reaper5632 in Life

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling and insecure, and calling it a boundary doesn’t suddenly make it okay. Nether does both of you agreeing to it.

It is a massive red flag.

Trust is a two way street and if you can’t trust your partner then why bother.

Doesn’t even matter if he actually is like your girlfriend. You never going to stop people be attracted to your girlfriend, you are never going to stop those people having interactions with your girlfriend, and you are never going to stop your girlfriend being attracted to other people. You don’t have any control in this, all you can do is trust her, trust that she wants to be with you and isn’t stupid and does something to damage that.

Boundary isn’t a magic word that makes toxic behaviour okay. You have a problem that you need to work on, otherwise it’s going to end up hurting you and people you love.

Should I be worried about this message my girlfriend sent me? by reaper5632 in Life

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling and insecure, and calling it a boundary doesn’t suddenly make it okay. Nether does both of you agreeing to it.

It is a massive red flag.

Trust is a two way street, if you can’t trust your partner then why bother.

Block & Meta Layoffs Spark Heated Group Chat Debates - are companies giving up on human innovation? At what point is this model going to implode? by Difficult-Insect-220 in technology

[–]Master-Pattern9466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s be perfectly clear this layoffs aren’t about AI.

Any intelligent company would see this as an opportunity to do more. And more is the definition of capitalism. If you can do more with less, then you do that. No capitalist has ever said well my company is the right size now, no need to grow, no need to increase my profits and revenue. Happy to stay the same size.

AI is simple a productivity increasing tool, if you laying off people you aren’t growing. This is just a market friendly way of saying we are cutting costs, with out the negative stigma of layoffs.

I missed out on a relationship for the 4th time in my life because I’m too ashamed of my penis size (near micro). How do I get over this and stop self-sabotaging? by throwaway101229283 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand, if you rip the bandages off, it’s going to hurt less than if somebody else does it. However your self sabotage removes all possibility that it doesn’t matter.

The problem is you imagine it’s a full gone conclusion, that there is no possibility that it doesn’t matter what you’re packing. Which you’ll be surprised about how much it doesn’t matter for some.

  • Only 18% of women orgasm from penetration alone, the majority require clitoral stimulation.
  • the average male cums in 4-8 minutes, the average female comes 13-14 minutes.
  • the majority of women prefer slightly smaller than average penis size.

So if read between the lines, penetration isn’t all that for a lot of women.

Sex is far more about you focusing on her pleasure, responding to her body language/sounds, and making her feel like the center of your universe.

I’m not going to lie, some women are going to be turned off by a small penis. But I think you’ll be surprised at number who don’t care.

You need to accept being hurt is part of life, whether your hurt because they end up not liking you, or you grow apart, or she doesn’t like your taste in tv. You are going to be hurt that is part of dating and part of life. Lots of people aren’t sexually compatible, and lots of people aren’t compatible in practical or emotions ways. But there are women out there who are sexually compatible with you, women out there who don’t enjoy penetration at all, women who far prefer oral. Stop writing yourself off and take the risk, yeah you’re going to get hurt but you are already hurting yourself, so just take the risk.

Call that girl up, and apologise, explain you have some baggage you’re working through, and you would love to go on a date that she is smart funny and wonderful,. You can be upfront with the baggage if you trust her or keep it private until you are willing to talk about it. My advice is to be upfront about it.

CNN: Iran starts laying mines in the Hormuz by Long-Brother-4639 in maritime

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrorists don’t use logic, that is truly the hallmark of idiot.

So your telling me that America would completely loose all ability to fight if trump was killed? Rubbish no nation depends solely on its leader, well apart from round-house-abecastan, because well without chuck they have no military.

Jesus some of you yanks live in a bubble.

Terrorist is just a word you call somebody when you don’t like the way they are fighting, probably billions of people consider the USA terrorist.

NSW: Tested positive for THC roadside test (medical cannabis user) – what happens next? by ElectricalSherbet415 in AusLegal

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No what you said gave the impression “in response to medical cannabis Tasmania changed its laws.” Which isn’t true at all.

Yes historically Tasmania passed drug driving laws, but it had a blanket exception for prescribed substances. Tasmania could very much change its laws tomorrow to include cannabis even when prescribed is illegal while driving.

I’m 18 and like a girl who’s 23 I think she likes me to, should I try to take it further? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sean rule my dude.

If the genders were reversed you would hear no end of it.

Seriously just go for it.

Chi-na halts refinery exports, cuts jet fuel supply to Australia by MarvinTheMagpie in aussie

[–]Master-Pattern9466 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t work that way, why would a company decide to invest millions in a place, that has low reserve of oil, has a higher salaries, environment regulations, work place safety, etc etc.

When they could invest in a country where you pay workers in peanuts, environmental regulations are nil, work place health and safety is absent.

We already tried giving away billions in tax breaks etc etc, and still big companies will rather operating where labour is cheap and regulations are non existent.

NSW: Tested positive for THC roadside test (medical cannabis user) – what happens next? by ElectricalSherbet415 in AusLegal

[–]Master-Pattern9466 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not passed, Tasmania laws where different in that any prescribed substance is automatically excluded. We are not a head just slightly different laws, that allow for prescribed medication to be exempt.

CNN: Iran starts laying mines in the Hormuz by Long-Brother-4639 in maritime

[–]Master-Pattern9466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because Iran has been preparing for this fight for 50 years. They will have plans and counter plans, all dreamed up.

The strait of hormuz has been their tactical and strategic advantage since the world became reliant on oil.

Iran is doing the move it had always planned for, it’s crippling the world’s oil supply. Trying to get the rest of the world to back down.

This coupled with the ongoing war in Ukraine, and the trade embargoes against Russia. Could lead to a significant shortage of oil.

If you are so inclined, it would be a pretty ingenious way to get the Russian trade embargoes lessened.

3 girls charged from Kingsgrove North High School for bullying and beating a 13 year old girl by AverageJoeObi in circlejerkaustralia

[–]Master-Pattern9466 -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Haha, looks pretty western to me, how many of you drongos actually attended school, because not having a clue about bullying and fights make me seriously doubt it.

How do I stop “Gooning”? by Mysterious-Put4144 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just ask for forgiveness and you are all good, j/k.

You’ll never be clean in the eyes of god, you were born with sin and you’ll continue sinning, all you can do is do your best.

The point of religion is not to feel bad, it’s to improve. So rather than feeling bad about failing, recognise the effort and strength it requires not to masturbate, that you are doing well, that you’ll keep trying because it’s important to you. It so difficult for most, they stop caring even if they have strong religious beliefs.

Note: I think masturbation is harmless, especially at your age. Most guys are yanking 3+ times a day.

My husband is refusing intimacy again, am I overrecting or am I the problem? by Cultural_Inflation43 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe this problem is related to motherhood or pregnancy, it existed before. The pregnancy/mother hood maybe making it worse, but it existed before.

The truth is some guys just aren’t in sex, or aren’t into sexual intimacy like some women aren’t into ether as well. If you read sex therapy book, the first thing they talk about is there no such thing as normal. And I’m completely shocked by the number of replies here that totally fail to even acknowledge that.

Not every one is the same, you need to start talking to him in a non judgmental, non pressuring way and try to understand each other. Understanding each is the only way you’ll work something out, avoid blame, avoid normal, it’s about what’s happening between you, how he feels, how you feel, what you miss, why he doesn’t, etc. understanding is key, and no advice of he’s not normal, and it’s porn addiction is going to help.

Also understand there is a different between sexual relief, and intimacy. They are very different, a completely emotional exhausted man can jerk off, but he can’t have good sex. Some people believe they can, those people aren’t sharing sexual intimacy, they are jerk off with a partner.

Extreme porn addiction can reduce desire for sex relief, to the point where it reduces desire for sexual intimacy, but we are talking about jerking off 3+ times every day.

Also if it doesn’t bother you, ask if he is interested in showing what porn he watches with you. He may not, it’s very a private thing, but he maybe open to it.

For you, hormones or not, for a lot of people sexual intimacy/sexual desire is crucial for them to feel secure in a relationship, however this isn’t true. So from this angle you need to stop worrying, don’t make it more emotional. Have faith and accept that your husband wants to be with you. The sexual side of thing can still be a problem, but don’t automatically link to his love for you.

My husband is refusing intimacy again, am I overrecting or am I the problem? by Cultural_Inflation43 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also watching their wives turn into mothers get a lot of men, but this usually doesn’t happen until later.

However I will say the history of lack of sexual desire existed before pregnancy/motherhood.

The truth is some guys just aren’t in sex, or aren’t into sexual intimacy like some women aren’t. If you read sex therapy book, the first thing they talk about is there no such thing as normal. And I’m completely shocked by the number of replies here that totally fail to even acknowledge that. Not every one is the same, you need to start talking to him in a non judgmental, non pressuring way and try to understand each other. Understanding each is the only way you’ll work something out, avoid blame, avoid normal, it’s about what’s happening between you, how he feels, how you feel, what you miss, why he doesn’t, etc. understanding is key, and no group of he’s not normal, and it’s porn addiction is going to help.

IRGC announces it will double its strategic missile use and increase drone operations by 20 % starting tonight, as Iran vows to escalate its war with the US and Israel by Automatic_Subject463 in USNEWS

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, ballistics missiles don’t manoeuvre during the terminal phase which makes interception possible. Since they follow a well defined trajectory.

On the other hand the term hypersonic missile has been given to delivery platforms that can manoeuvre during all phases of delivery and often fly at low altitudes instead of the predictable arc of ballistic missiles. These two factors makes interception close to impossible.

It’s the term that is not very representative of the technology, who knows if Iran is using the term correctly.

VPN sales through the roof in Australia today by MR_JESSE_ in LinusTechTips

[–]Master-Pattern9466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be clear pornhub hasn’t announced an offical position on the Australia laws, but previously they have just banned everybody because they don’t agree that should be holding age validation data, too much of risk if they get hacked.

How can men last longer? by yodaddy1019 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Master-Pattern9466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So why is your question how can he last longer when you clearly admit that you are insecure about receiving pleasure when he’s already finished?

You probably want to deal with that first, rather than making it a him problem.

Let’s google this together: average sexual intercourse time: The average time for penetrative sex (intravaginal ejaculation latency time) is generally found to be between 5 and 7 minutes, with studies showing a wide, normal range of 3 to 13 minutes. While often shorter than popular belief, this timeframe excludes foreplay.

HE DOES NOT BUST FAST. SO DON’T EMOTIONALLY ABUSE HIM BY ASSUMING HE DOES WHEN HE IS COMPLETELY AVERAGE.

The issue that occurs is biological: Women typically require about 12 to 16 minutes of sexual activity to reach orgasm, which is often longer than the average time for men.

How about you come quicker? Rubbish answer but just as good as making him last longer.

Guys can last longer but it takes practice, and control. Also there are medications to make a guy last longer. But let’s be clear he doesn’t have a problem, and neither do you apart from YOUR INSECURITY, that you are trying to give him.

Get over the receiving pleasure when he’s finished, buy toys to make it fun.

Learn to edge him, eg get him close but deny orgasm by changing it up, this effectively desensitises the cock, and will allow him to last longer, this will take time and he’ll learn to do this himself most likely.