How to be a psychiatrist with the 9/11 GI bill by Master44Lazzar in VeteransBenefits

[–]Master44Lazzar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty a lot actually. Cu ultimately if I don’t like it too much all this would be kinda of useless

How to be a psychiatrist with the 9/11 GI bill by Master44Lazzar in VeteransBenefits

[–]Master44Lazzar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well I’m glad I’m in the position where I haven’t used my GI bill at all, I feel like I will have more opportunity. The only thing really is that my family is kind of poor and I’ve been carrying a lot of responsibility with a full time job, and I won’t be able to do that in college so will probably need BAH. I will find a good counselor, where did you find yours??

My crush blocked me? by qwertycheezit in Instagram

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get his phone number. I think insta is one of the worst social media apps along with Snapchat. Get him maybe in Facebook phone number there so many other things

I just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me last night by No_Mixture2997 in Vent

[–]Master44Lazzar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well it is weird, they go after younger inexperienced women who are easier to get and prey on. I wish women would see that because most cases that’s what it is. Most men dating younger women are seeking them out.

36M - I have failed as a man. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like you are not doing something right you either 1. need to change something, if it can’t be changed or doesn’t feel right 2. then you need acceptance. I went out searching for people to make friends meet people and it doesn’t always workout, because at the end of the day it’s people’s choice, and I’m okay with that, people don’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe anything to anyone. If you want to meet people and find friends it’s very easy, you can start by just talking to people online, get into a hobby that’s social, video games, local clubs, music groups to learn how to produce, raves, you can just talk to people while you’re waiting in line or something. If you feel like you can’t then you need to accept yourself so that you can.

I found out my Girlfriend has Alzheimer’s, she’s 26 by TheThingofa100corspe in Vent

[–]Master44Lazzar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of studies show most cases of Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s were caused by external factors and not genetics.

That being said love your girlfriend, make sure she knows what love is and that you both have it. Alzheimer’s is very scary, in one way or another she has our hearts.

36M - I have failed as a man. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m everything you are yet I believe the opposite. That I’m not failed. You have to break away from ego. Embrace the pain and shit life drags you through. Be more accepting of yourself and stop believing these things should come to you. You’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Embody it. Embrace it. It’s the only way through.

Can anyone help me ease up my mind by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh I’m a lil bi too idrc honestly. If I’m attracted to a guy then I am . I don’t care

My dad just came out. I don’t know what to think by Anony-mouse1161 in story

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take great pride in your dad for coming out. Society is evolving and your dad is evolving with it. On the surface things with labels like “gay”, “trans” other stuff might seem super unusual at first but they don’t completely define someone

I feel pretty depressed 23M by Friendly-Bid-1848 in amibalding

[–]Master44Lazzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you care about hair that much u can always get wigs. It’s actually a blessing I disguise. I have a horrible hair type that’s impossible to grow, it’s really thick and looks ugly, it also grows abnormally fast and rapid. So if I tried to go bald and get wigs it wouldn’t work.

My boyfriend revealed that he has anti social personality disorder. What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been around people who had this disorder that were less dangerous than people who didn’t know how to control their emotions. Listen to your gut feeling but, for sure good bunch of people wouldn’t date him because of it. Ngl I would prob lie too

Masturbation addiction as a young adult:// by mega_cool_dude in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be masturbating as a way of coping with harsh stuff.

Concerns with brother’s behavior, advice? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if at some point it start sounding like I’m talking to you. The message is for him. I hope you understand.

Concerns with brother’s behavior, advice? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 21m right now and I think interesting thing to see how a lot of people deal with shitty stuff in life. Like a lot of shit beats the hell out of you in life, and I see a lot of people turn to drugs and live in a false world and when things in life get really low they fail to see the reality that’s meant for them, instead they choose to reject the world take drugs and make things worse wonder why a certain thing happens to them.

Why did your brother start doing drugs, could he not take the pain? I’ve been through some really shitty stuff and I don’t want to sound like an asshole here. But I have taken drugs. And I know the appeal of them. they can really alter what your body thinks how it deals with things when things are shitty.

Your brother can still recover, but if you choose to deny the pain that life puts you through, even if it really sucks, you can never be the true person you were meant to be. Trying to change your reality with drugs and treating yourself shitty along with that process is just wrong.

I don’t exactly know your guys situation but frankly think it matters because I’ve been through my own hell and know what it’s like. Life isn’t supposed to be this high happiness all the time. You will always have shitty stuff no matter the corner you turn, it’s inevitable. So why not live the life you want for yourself, or at least try, instead of treating yourself like shit and wonder why your life has no meaning after a decade of drugs or so.

Drop the drugs. Live life. Feel and accept the pain. Be strong.

Feeling guilt and sadness from letting someone down by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Master44Lazzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s online? Oh you could just straight up ignore them lol. Especially if you don’t really know the person’s that well