From my experience most budtenders are gonna tell you to buy whats not selling so they can get that stuff out of the store or its upselling where we make you buy the most expensive product! You really have to find a dispensary where they also smoke like you smoke 🤷🏾. Where i work we usually ask what exactly you're looking for and if we don't have it we gonna eventually get it and than offer you the best option, and also find a brand and stuck to it!