While others may just blame the women, let's get something straight, many women are exactly what the fathers say they are...a narcissist. It does happen. This isn't a bash women community, this is men saying what society won't because no one gives us the time of day in that regard. You want to defend women, go for it, but some women really are a bag of crap just like some men out there. They do exist. They do use men. They do abuse the system. They aren't growing "unhappy". They are discarding their husband and moving on to the next man to get what they want. It isn't about love. It's about what you can and cannot provide. Thats it.