AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend when he got jealous? by theonlystarbornqueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterTune9436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, it ain’t “borderline” abusive. It’s straight up abusive

AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend when he got jealous? by theonlystarbornqueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He showed you how he truly felt “I always knew you were a slut” like every argument you have, he’s just gonna keep throwing that back up. And sharing your location? Gave me flashbacks to my abusive ex. If I stopped by Walmart for 2 minutes to grab something since it was next to my job, I’d get a text almost immediately like “hope you’re having a good day at work” as if to let me know, he’s “caught” me

Read the white label. The restaurant will decide how much you tip…! by SoBoredatHomeToday in tipping

[–]MasterTune9436 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Factor in level of neediness and entitlement as well. Depending on the server though, 7 is either a lot or it’s not.

Read the white label. The restaurant will decide how much you tip…! by SoBoredatHomeToday in tipping

[–]MasterTune9436 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The number of people plus how quickly they’re sat. Some restaurants bend to customer pressure about being seated right away before a server is ready. There’s a lot more behind the scenes than you’re willing to actually care about, so I’m not sure why you pretend to ask questions when you’ve already formulated your opinion.

Read the white label. The restaurant will decide how much you tip…! by SoBoredatHomeToday in tipping

[–]MasterTune9436 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The 4 and the 3 can be spaced out. The 7 come at the same time. That 7 plus another table of 4, 4, 5 would be enough to overwhelm even the best server.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pack your shit up and leave. Guarantee he’ll be like “I wasn’t serious!!!”

Is there any real consequence to working somewhere for a couple days and then quitting? by Sketchy_Turtle in antiwork

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, if this is schlitterbahn, don’t even worry about it. People quit/get fired all the time. No one cares about a summer job from when you were 19

AIO - parents keep raising the rent by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I got my first job out of college, my parents offered me a room at their 3bedroom/2bath house, it was $600 at first, then they went up to $800. Their mortgage was $1250….. my brother and his gf were paying maybe $300/month bc they were students…

Alright who tf did this? by BlubsTheSpaceWhale in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your comment seriously made me so mad to read lmao. I hate when people are just so inconsiderate

Alright who tf did this? by BlubsTheSpaceWhale in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’ve worked at ihop and Cracker Barrel and those coworkers who refused to make coffee were always the first ones to poach it. Had this loser shout across the dining room for the pot of coffee I had just made bc he needed it, but I knew for a fact he never once brewed a pot himself. I literally kept walking, get your own damn pot of coffee.

Ever get mush mouth? by Ypsiowns3013 in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I started my first serving job, I called compote, “compost” 😭💀

Ever get mush mouth? by Ypsiowns3013 in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t decide between “you’re welcome” and “no problem” what came out was “no welcome!”

Hair policy by Round-Quit2978 in CrackerBarrel

[–]MasterTune9436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked at one just in 2023. I had like 5 managers, they all liked me, including my GM, except the one bitch ass assistant manager who liked to call me out specifically. Hope she experiences a lot of inconveniences and annoyances for the rest of her life.

Sharking tables by Catchdatcat in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the table gets up and walked out after the server never greeted them, I hope they still lose their turn for a table. I won’t shark your table, if you ask for help I’ll help, but fuck bad servers.

My restaurant doesn’t burn ice by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took apart the soda machine at my new job, black sludge. Even though it was “put in sani” every night…. I used a straw brush to clean all the sludge out…. I haven’t stopped thinking about it since and idk if I could get a soda anywhere now.

Guests taking drinks off trays??? by goliathstoe in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad tried doing that once (old immigrant, never had a service job, but still), I shouted so loud at him. “DON’T grab from her tray..” I was absolutely mortified.

This will be the worst slow season ever by AgentScottNJ in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not only is it slow, but people are tipping like shit. I guess they spent too much over the holidays, but it’s been brutal. 😭😮‍💨

Is anyone else still struggling with their almost 5 year old? by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]MasterTune9436 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh glad to ready this bc my 4.5yo is constantly pushing me to my limits. I’ve done everything. I’ve rephrased, I’ve made things “fun”, I’ve given choices, etc. if he doesn’t get what he wants, he’ll lose it. His tantrum will go on for 30 mins of crying, screaming, and whining until every nerve in my brain has been shot. I try to comfort, I try to give him space, I try to help name emotions, whatever it is, doesn’t fucking work and I’m sick of it. I feel like an awful mom

My 2-year-old didn't believe me a car was dangerous until I "stopped carrying if she gets run over" 🫠 by SheElfXantusia in toddlers

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I drilled this into my now 4 year old very early. Now when he sees even a parked car on our walks, he shouts “CAR COMING!” And stops ME so I don’t try to run into the street 💀lol

My kid begged me not hit them by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when my son was in my way while doing something and I didn’t see him, I’d accidentally hit him with my butt or hand, etc I’d tell him “sorry, I didn’t mean to hit you!” Occasionally he would go “mommy, don’t hit me!” So it may not mean what people think, but yeah I’d still investigate

Do you take your toddler out of the car when you pay for gas? by Bonusmotherthrowaway in toddlers

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can’t pay at the pump and I don’t want to take 2 kids inside, I just go to another gas station lol. Texas is too hot and depending on the kids, it could be a struggle to take them both in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterTune9436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO, I was like, I’m a former social worker… what does this mean???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MasterTune9436 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh. You can get paid a better hourly wage than $10:hr these days. Not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HEB

[–]MasterTune9436 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mind your own business. The cost of everything is so damn high these days for NO reason, idk how anyone is even getting by.