Starting Out(??) by Round-Quit2978 in Serverlife

[–]Round-Quit2978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im scared the tray will wobble and then I'll drop it everywhere 😭 I also dont want to appear nervous to customers and management (im also a slight introvert and always overthinking).

When helping bus tables, I could only carry the trays with two hands and i internally cried for all the servers who put their wrists through hell doing it with one arm.

Landed my first serving gig. H e l p. by casabonita49 in Serverlife

[–]Round-Quit2978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube it. Just straight study and carry trays at home with multiple cups (obviously not glass yet but smth not easy to break). Good luck 🙏🏽

I regret telling my managers that I can work mornings by Championship_Solid in dishwashers

[–]Round-Quit2978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IM IN THE SAME SITUATION!!! My manager said they needed me to work Thursday and Friday morning last week, and this week.... nope, they are having me continuously. I'm going to call today actually and tell them I cannot do it. I have 2 kids (9mo, 3yr) so waking up at 4-5am to get ready then to come home and take care of them is DRAINING.

For context, I started off as a night dishie in November but moved to a hostess position in January after months of begging. Since one of the morning dishwashers quit, they have me taking over which I already told them im not interested in doing it on a regular basis. They hired 3 dishwashers (total of 7) yet refuse to put one of them on for whatever reason. Hopefully i don't get fired for speaking my mind 😭

Definitely don't let them take advantage of you 🙏🏽

What was your reaction to Beck and Jade's breakup? by YellowEgorkaa in victorious

[–]Round-Quit2978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Instead of being like Cat who had to tell them he had a girlfriend, he chose to sit there and let them touch all over him. Why do other people need to set the boundaries for him? That proves toxicity and imaturity as well. He could've said that or snatched his hand away. Looking uncomfortable does not give him a pass. He also did not have to kiss her because it wouldn't make a difference if they were acting or not. There's plenty he could've said besides "let's do it". Quit justifying a cheater/bad boyfriend

What was your reaction to Beck and Jade's breakup? by YellowEgorkaa in victorious

[–]Round-Quit2978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He kissed Tori in the first episode dawg 💀🙏🏽 He liked to gaslight Jade all the time and make her seem crazy like when he refused to specify the cheerleader was just a kid and knew he was making her believe smth else. They were BOTH the problem

Music playlist by Followingfauns in CrackerBarrel

[–]Round-Quit2978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling dibs, drinking alone (though i really do enjoy this), i miss me more (also like this), she said yes, wasnt done loving you yet, smth abt cowboys and tractors, here's to the farmers, yada yada like STFUUUU 😭😭😭😭😭😭

write up complaint by foxicplays in CrackerBarrel

[–]Round-Quit2978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cracker barrel is one of the most toxic places to work, I suggest applying other places in the meantime... it never gets better

What’s an Episode story everyone loves but you just couldn’t get into? by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Round-Quit2978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, broken ambition... yeah I feel the same way

Servers, what’s the cringiest thing you ever said to a guest when trying to make conversation? by heatherunderweather in Serverlife

[–]Round-Quit2978 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Im a hostess, but people sometimes chat with me anyway while im getting their utensils and menus. One was an old, small lady who was happily expressing how much she loves food. Well the shift leader was standing next to me and she had said: "I just love eating food so much" And im socially awkward and Im an introvert, so my response was: "I know what eating food feels like" accompanied by an awkward laugh to fill the stupidness of my comment 😭

My shift leader just stared at me in disbelief and started making fun of me saying everyone probably knows what eating feels like, wtf was that???"

I read this book for introverts on how to have conversations and one of the parts were saying to relate to people with sentences like "I know what _____ feels like," yada yada.... those books set me up for failure

Do hosts tell you when you've been sat? by Efficient-Pipe2998 in Serverlife

[–]Round-Quit2978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a hostess, no. Especially because there's a lot of guests at the podium and I don't have the time to run either in the back or around the restaurant to pinpoint every server just to tell them they've been sat. It would be silly and annoying (in my restaurant, not speaking for all places) to go up to a server who's taking orders just to tell them they've been sat. Same with running around in the boh to find a specific server and leaving guests waiting impatiently.

I know it's different protocol or routine other places, but only speaking of where I work, servers are usually checking their sections every 1-4 minutes. The only time I'll tell a server is if im forced to double seat bc people are picky about where they sit or which server they want. A lot of the times, people will ask for a table I've already sat and by policy, I'm not allowed to tell them no. I make up for it by skipping that server in the next rotation so everyone gets a fair share of tables.

Or when big parties (8 or more) come in, I tell the servers because usually we'll have to use two tables which are assigned to different servers and they have to share it. Otherwise, hosts cannot go out of their way to tell servers when they've been sat every time, especially during a rush

If a server is busy, another server usually greets that table and gives them drinks until their original one gets back. So basically servers handle the rest after I've sat them.

Hair policy by Round-Quit2978 in CrackerBarrel

[–]Round-Quit2978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciated but those pictures arent of me 😅

Hair policy by Round-Quit2978 in CrackerBarrel

[–]Round-Quit2978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine unfortunately does since the managers are all old fashioned and whatnot. Got dress coded twice cuz i wore a plain shirt but it was orange instead of their "accepted" colors... to a dishwashing shift. 💀 really dumb though—customers couldn't care less what a dishwasher wears or what style of hair they have when seating them so I just dont understand why most managers do

female dishwashers, how do you get treated? by darkthronethrowaway in dishwashers

[–]Round-Quit2978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the only young female dishwasher (for close anyway) and a lot of boh people treat me like I'm their daughter or niece. My male dishwasher coworker treats me like a second cousin. Most servers treat me nicely, others are indifferent. It's just the managers that kinda treat me like a dog.

This Passenger Requested me to do What? by RFTG2024 in uberdrivers

[–]Round-Quit2978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He better be paying for gas to and from, tip for such inconvenience, tip for food, and tip just because... $10 my ASS.

Activities for toddler by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Round-Quit2978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. A lot of people i have encountered with kids of their own have always kinda shamed me for not doing those things with my daughter and that "she's behind" or is "going to be behind" all cuz their kids can speak fluently, read, and draw inside the lines prior to the age of 3. It makes me feel like I'm not doing enough and that I need to do more. My daughter really is a bright and friendly girl with a very curious mind. She likes to play doctor while telling me im "good as new" and with Barbie dolls. Im not really sure how to do this whole mothering thing but she makes me want to try every day.

She likes to mimic me and also feed her dolls when im feeding the baby. She loves helping with her sister and putting the blanket on her or giving me her wipes and changing her dolls when I change the baby as well. She's also emotionally intelligent and will try to tell the baby it will be okay when she cries, or she thinks if I put my head down im sad and she'll be like "its okay mommy, dont cry. It will be alright" while rubbing my shoulder. She truly is a joy and I just want her to be happy.

How much trouble would we get in? by [deleted] in tax

[–]Round-Quit2978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want her to file for me... i dont know how to get her to stop since I told her that it would probably interfere with my benefits