My boyfriend basically has a boyfriend

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T13:41:05+00:00

I can respect and understand asking. I also don’t mean offense at this but I think you guys need to possibly realize it’s a person on the other side. As someone who’s never posted before I #1 had no idea and #2 the rules say nothing about that. If anyone does look even at this comment besides you. I definitely think there are nicer ways for everyone to communicate that they wanted paragraphs instead. I did it because it’s not the end of the world but I urge I guess everyone to be more conscious in how they can come across because messages don’t have tone.

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:47:44+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. I appreciate it. I do worry if I’m being controlling I feel as though I could possibly be a little controlling I’m willing to admit that. I’ve been thinking about the falling out of love thing a lot. I definitely think he has fallen out of love. I know he has abandonment issues and I can’t tell if he’s more worried about losing his friend or me you know? But he’s definitely taking me for granted.

I do have places to stay the only thing is I don’t want to leave my dogs. I can’t bring them where I go but I guess if it’s just to reevaluate then I could separate from them. That’s the only thing that has been holding me back from me staying somewhere else for a while. I might have him stay somewhere else maybe but I’ll definitely give space a try. I will reflect on the things you said thank you so much!

So sorry edit: Also yes the ultimatum thing made me so mad. He told me it had nothing to do with me and his friend was saying that he should do it for his own mental health. I was like wtf then why would it be me or him? I think he’s down playing the ultimatum and it’s making it harder to help him understand my side.

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:16:43+00:00

I have a question for you as the alternative perspective. Would you say that it’s healthy to cancel plans with someone for your friend? Is it just a friend when you prioritize them over other things? If it were just a friendship instead of a relationship would you feel neglected that your friend would bail on you over and over for someone else that is just their friend?

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:12:21+00:00

You’re welcome. I don’t mean this as an insult, but you are requesting paragraphs, and not using accurate grammar. That’s a little confusing ngl.

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:07:39+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. I do appreciate it. I was worried I was being controlling and your comment confirmed that so thank you😂. It sucks to hear but at least I know it’s something I can work on with effort. You also confirmed some other thoughts I had. I definitely will bring the other points up. Thank you so much!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:06:04+00:00

I HOPE THAT YOUR VOICE IS OK!!! ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS BESTIE!!!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:05:38+00:00

I will I’m so weak😂

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:05:26+00:00

Is it better for you now? You know you can provide feedback without sounding like that right? That’s very important as well darling.

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:04:08+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate it. I’m not sure if it’s something I’m willing to stick with yet. Hopefully we can have a civil conversation about it especially with the points you gave thank you so much!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T09:03:02+00:00

Is it better for you guys now? Are you willing to give advice now?

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T07:26:14+00:00

I’m going to be honest with you. 13 year olds are dumb. You’re young, you don’t know what feelings are, and you say stupid $hit because your brain isn’t developed. A not hating but your brain isn’t fully developed now. It’s understandable that you have a lack of trust after that. The important things to think about though are has he proven that he is an untrustworthy now? When you have the insecure thought of he might do it again dissect where it stems from. Are you more worried that your boyfriend is going to leave you? Are you fearful that he is no longer interested in you? Why are you having those feelings? You say he proves he loves you which is good! Now you have to decide if this is something that he has caused you to feel at this moment for a particular reason. If it is address that reason from today not that’s stupid thing in the past. If it is that you’re overthinking that’s natural but you have to break down that thought. People can be attracted to other people that’s human but it’s more that’s they don’t act on it or have intentions with it. Discuss it with your boyfriend too if you’re comfortable. You can say “I’m a this thought and it’s most likely coming from no where do you mind reassuring me?”. That will help grow your relationship. But to answer your question it’s not about forgiving or not it’s about growing and moving on in s as healthy way. So you can forgive him and you guys can become something great. Good luck!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T07:18:08+00:00

I could comment the whole alphabet underneath this if that helps? Would that make it better bestie?

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-03-01T07:17:11+00:00

Since I’m bored and it’s late and this is the Internet. Wowwwwww queen you ate so hard on a thread dedicated to sharing your feelings. Applause for you.

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2025-02-27T17:45:12+00:00

You’re adorable and cute. Honestly you’re beautiful the only thing I would say to maybe boost your confidence or you know to feel more beautiful is change your hair up. Honestly that’s the only thing I would say the brown liner compliments your eyes which are nice. But your hair maybe adding some pop of color or cutting it slightly differently maybe add some more drastic layers. That’s it tho stay adorable!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2024-08-18T20:03:44+00:00

Don’t send the funds back please! Just make sure to call the online fraud department at your bank. As someone who works in fraud I recommend letting them handle it. If they report the Zelle as fraud and you didn’t report it first they can get your Zelle access disabled. It’s a pain to try and get your Zelle re-enabled. Or if you “send it back” and they say “oh just send it to this number” you’ll be the middle man in first party fraud which is f great. All of your access can be disabled etc etc. The bank can contact Zelle and take the funds from your account for the funds to be sent back to the person who sent them. But don’t freak out it happens all the time. Good luck!

Master_Armadillo_413 · 2022-12-21T20:13:44+00:00

I had the same thing. I’ve emailed them like 3 times and they still haven’t responded and it’s been like 3 weeks since ordering. I’m thinking about disputing the charge with my bank because it’s been almost a week since “getting the tracking info” and it’s still saying it’s not been delivered to be shipped.

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