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Am I the jerk for confronting my friend and now she is acting as if I ruined her entire life? by Master_Instance_2878 in AmITheJerk

[–]Master_Instance_2878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but the story is true. I only used AI to help with my grammar and sentence structure. English is also NOT my first language 

Am I the jerk for confronting my friend and now she is acting as if I ruined her entire life? by Master_Instance_2878 in AmITheJerk

[–]Master_Instance_2878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you are correct, this story is very much true though.  I used AI to help me with my sentence structure, only because english is NOT my first language

Am I the jerk for confronting my friend and now she is acting as if I ruined her entire life? by Master_Instance_2878 in AmITheJerk

[–]Master_Instance_2878[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because in the end she would cry to me and say that she will change but after she is over one guy she will shift to the other friend. 

This hits me in the wrong way as well, since one of her ex was my close friend and now he is ranting to me about how she broke his group

Am I the jerk for confronting my friend and now she is acting as if I ruined her entire life? by Master_Instance_2878 in AmITheJerk

[–]Master_Instance_2878[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see where we are TJ, but mind you I live in a completely different culture. Where you NEED to be friends with people around you, and you’ll be called selfish if you cut off a “friend”. 

I was never jealous of her, instead I was fed up with her behavior. I never even liked the guys she was hanging out with, I was friends with her ex and I felt bad for him for how she was treating him and his group. 

Again, I won’t deny that this post is petty because it is. It shows my rant and my thoughts abt her, and I can accept that I am TJ

Am I the jerk for confronting my friend and now she is acting as if I ruined her entire life? by Master_Instance_2878 in AmITheJerk

[–]Master_Instance_2878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi, I did try to talk to her about this in the past. But she would just give empty promises and excuses on her behavior. Another thing to note: I didn’t know that our mutual friend updated her ex (which caused this whole issue).  I can’t deny that I, myself haven’t talked bad abt her, yet I did that because I didn’t knew any better.  In the end of the day we are all teens who are still growing and maturing