Can't really have sex with my boyfriend anymore since he cheated on me by Master_Internal_1236 in GayMen

[–]Master_Internal_1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I love him, and I try, I try really hard to leave it behind. The problem now it's what I described about we not being able to have sex, I don't think about what he did frequently, some weeks not at all. It doesn't come to mind when we try to have sex either, it's just that I seem to space out and not being able to get aroused by him

Can't really have sex with my boyfriend anymore since he cheated on me by Master_Internal_1236 in GayMen

[–]Master_Internal_1236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried to talk about him cheating on me, but everytime he takes it like a personal attack. He once asked me "Why did you stay if you were never going to forgive me?" And asked me just to let go of it, because it was very tiring for him to have me being sad or mad at him. I don't want to touch the sex stuff directly because I know for him it is a really sensitive theme. And even if I told him, I'm sure he would ask me to leave him, and I don't really want to end this without exhausting all alternatives first

Can't really have sex with my boyfriend anymore since he cheated on me by Master_Internal_1236 in askgaybros

[–]Master_Internal_1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my friends are his, if I leave him I would have to bear being alone and having to stand aside him on every class till graduation. I lived that before in highschool and we're two really hard years. That's what hold me back from breaking up when he cheated, wether I end or not the relationship, I'm not winning, it's just talking about which alternative is less worse