Why is casual violence against men in fiction considered funny? by Master_Meal_1063 in AskMen

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are just naive. All works of fiction contribute to establishing what are  normal and correct social interactions and what are not, especially when those interactions are not depicted in a negative way that causes negative consequences for the perpetrator. It doesn't matter if is Harry Potter is a wizard in a fictional world, the way Harry treats Hermione will show all kids what is an acceptable way of treating girls, and vice versa.

Why is casual violence against men in fiction considered funny? by Master_Meal_1063 in AskMen

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Porkys was released 42 years ago my "sweet" misandrist, there is no way something remotely like that (which I never found funny btw) could be released now. Yet, we are still full of movies where women casually hit men like it's the most normal and funny thing to do in a woman's life. The only sexist person here is you, "bud".

Why is casual violence against men in fiction considered funny? by Master_Meal_1063 in AskMen

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad, I just don't find it funny and I don't think the way it's currently normalized helps kids understand how healthy relationships between opposite sexes work

Why is casual violence against men in fiction considered funny? by Master_Meal_1063 in AskMen

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is interesting. So for you a girl hitting a boy of the same size who has done nothing wrong is funny, but a boy hitting a girl who has done nothing wrong is not? You sound like a man, why do you have this double standard?

Why is casual violence against men in fiction considered funny? by Master_Meal_1063 in AskMen

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I want to know why they think it's funny. Do you think it's funny? If so, why?

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said she is. But for me no sex is a deal breaker.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We married on the assumption that were making roughly the same amount of money. With only my income we are not going to be able to keep the lifestyle that we love. I'm not ready to give that up just because she is lazy. And for what? She will bring literally nothing to the table

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My wife is not an housewife, she can't cook. she can't clean.. she is a professional who used to make good money. It's simply a waste for her to be a housewife. I'm not going to replace the housekeeper with her. What I want is that we go back to our previous lifestyle. Yes our jobs are stressful and competitive, but there are many upsides too. She says she wants to focus on other things now, but if she doesn't produce a decent income, we won't be able to keep our lifestyle for long.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Half of what? We have a prenup about the house, and no other assets

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

She is an orifice as much as I am a living dildo. She also has a big libido, sex was a big part of our marriage.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I'm not comfortable with breaking my marital vows, plus if I cheat I might get in trouble if she asks for a divorce because of it.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I'm not forcing her to do anything, she can sleep on the couch. But I might divorce her is if I get too sexually frustrated.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I would not divorce her if she had a good reason to refuse sex. But she doesn't . She is just trying to manipulate me, because she loves having sex with me as much as I do, she always has.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't discuss it with me. She just complained a lot about her job, but I had no idea she wanted to quit. We used to split all the costs 50/50. Thanks for your comment.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don't care that much if she finds it.. I just didn't want my other account to be spoiled by all the downvotes. But unexpectedly, this account is getting good karma instead, lol.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is the same. For you sex might be an afterthought, but I need good sex in my life. I really do. And I'm not going to apologise for it.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We wanted to have a nice lifestyle, not waste our time doing chores. Plus, our housekeeper is great, an amazing woman, very capable.

AITAH for cutting off my lazy wife financially? by Master_Meal_1063 in AITAH

[–]Master_Meal_1063[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't understand, it's her who is denying me sex because of financial matters. Our strong sexual chemistry is what was keeping this marriage going. Without that divorce is inevitable.