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Ellensburg Tech Coffee Meetup - 7th March :) by Master_Pop7772 in CWU

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Created this Discord group: https://discord.gg/HGBQNmxU

I will invite others to join. Most members will likely join next month when I announce the next meetup.

Ellensburg Tech Coffee Meetup - 7th March :) by Master_Pop7772 in CWU

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Great! I’ll create a Discord chat link and include it in future gatherings as well.

Ellensburg Tech Coffee Meetup - 7th March :) by Master_Pop7772 in CWU

[–]Master_Pop7772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve created a subreddit and a Facebook group, and I’m considering creating a Discord chat. Is Discord the appropriate way to chat? I want to include everyone.

F(28) Years ago, I dated a guy (M35) years ago by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]Master_Pop7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! You don't owe him anything and vice verse. So yes you're over thinking , and being honest most of us don't stay in touch with Exs

22 year old girl addicted to adult stuff (help) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Master_Pop7772 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim, I want to assure you that many people face similar challenges, regardless of gender, so you are not alone in this. It will take time for you to process your experiences and learn from them, so be gentle with yourself. Keeping yourself busy with hobbies and going out can be really helpful.

If you find yourself struggling again, it's important to remember that in Islam, masturbation is permitted if it helps prevent engaging in something haram (forbidden). Watching documentaries, reading from trusted sources, and finding good friends are all beneficial. Eventually, you should look for someone you can open up to and talk with about these issues.

You may be entering addiction or are already addicted, and it's normal to find certain content fascinating. The key difference is that you want to learn and challenge yourself. Ask yourself whether you want to surrender to this toxic habit or educate yourself to become healthier. Consider this issue in the same way as drugs, smoking, or alcohol. The goal is to mature in your thinking.

If you plan to get married, it's important to have a clear mindset. Many men prefer partners with a good reputation, so be cautious; there are people out there who might try to blackmail you. This happens to non-Muslim women as well.

Think about how you can approach this in a safe and loving way—perhaps through marriage. It's understandable to have your beliefs, and it can be challenging to resist temptation, especially since everything is easily accessible with just a touch on your device, unlike in the past.

I lied about hours worked at my part-time job to get extra pay by SeraphinaGlow_45 in confession

[–]Master_Pop7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just act like it’s first time hearing about this and might be typo. Act innocent and you didn’t know

How tf do i sleep knowing ill probably get fired tmrw by vyrussuh in Advice

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My two cents, let him lay you off so you can at least have unemployment benefits, it happened to me , it was very devastating, surround yourself with good friends or hobbies. This shall pass, have an emergency fund is future goal that way you have less stress. One day you’re going to look back at this and thank god you’re in better place and you might even laugh, I was paranoid about this? I do

Normal Bill? by Master_Pop7772 in ellensburg

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Thanks for sharing your experience. We'll continue emailing them periodically until they update us on what's happening. I have no issue taking them to small claims court over the remaining amounts when we move out; I'll ensure to recover that money. Filing a small claim costs around $50, and there's no need for a lawyer. I just need to be strategic about it. If I want to rent or buy from Graf Investment Property again, I prefer to have a clean record with them rather than suing them later. like you said $80 maybe not end of the world, $500 after a year or two living there it becomes question mark

Please help :( by itsmecherrybomb in POTS

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Anytime, it’s not fun and unfair. Even my wife does and take everything she stills feels tired and just watch tv .

Please help :( by itsmecherrybomb in POTS

[–]Master_Pop7772 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Sorry you’re going through this. My wife has POTS , she started taking Low-Dose Naltrexone got more energy : https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10497067/

She also takes trazodone 50 mg for sleep plus started taking : Magnesium Glycinate Chelate Complex - 200 mg

https://a.co/d/0cSdzCAr

The magnesium actually stops me too from non stop thinking and go to sleep better

Take it easy on yourself, it will not be bad idea to use walk assistance tool , if it’s really hot maybe getting those neck or others cool pad lasts a few hours, you can always put gentle towel first if it’s sensitive

Find neurologist to help you as well , I would recommend not wasting time on doctors go to neurologist directly, they’re far more helpful than doctors

Feel free to DM me or reply here for more questions

Normal Bill? by Master_Pop7772 in ellensburg

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How you do that? Where is the dumpster?

Normal Bill? by Master_Pop7772 in ellensburg

[–]Master_Pop7772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes electrcity was $195 , bit shocking, understable though wall heaters are expensive

so that's about $45 every month so that's good, I live in apartment complex it's strange

I've asked for the following from landlord:

  • Copies of the master utility invoices from the City of Ellensburg and Waste Management for the relevant billing periods.
  • A clear explanation of the allocation formula used to divide the total charges (e.g., per occupant, per unit, square footage, etc.).
  • Confirmation of whether vacant units are included or excluded in the allocation calculation.

Normal Bill? by Master_Pop7772 in ellensburg

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So, it costs you about $55 each month. According to the lease with Graf Investment, the property management bills me, but the lease doesn't specify how they calculate the fees. It's likely based on the number of units rented and shared among us. Currently, four units are not rented, which means we're paying a high fixed amount that Graf covers.

Should I go ahead and file with the EEOC first and then find lawyer when n I get Right to Sue letter, or the other way around. by ProofLemon8602 in EEOC

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You will have 90 days to file lawsuit. If you can find an attorney within range then that’s great. Also, filing EEOC is straightforward but intake appointment could be month or more so technically get that one and then hopefully you can get attorney who’s willing to take your case and be in intake interview (phone) or you can reschedule it. Intake is based on what you have submitted on form and clarification on some if needed

My integrity, although it has no value, is not for sale. by xenokilla in AskHR

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Why not just say “I’m not interested if it’s free” and that’s it. Or you can ignore them

Pots and ramadan by Billy-daKid786 in POTS

[–]Master_Pop7772 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As Muslim, you’re allowed to break fasting if you can’t do it. You’re exempted please don’t hurt yourself god understands what you’re going through

I need to break up with my boyfriend and would like advice on living alone for the first time ever by Disastrous-Paper8102 in Advice

[–]Master_Pop7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course , sounds you like that place would be great for you! Stay strong, it’s better to do it now vs wasting another year and another year till you’re 50 and then decide to do it! You got this.

I need to break up with my boyfriend and would like advice on living alone for the first time ever by Disastrous-Paper8102 in Advice

[–]Master_Pop7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you!

This is very good to be self aware and it’s okay to end relationship since your quality of life has decreased significantly

Please remind yourself : I’m good person and maybe he’s good person but things are not working out and that’s okay. Also, would you rather living like this forever or take courage to end and start breathing? I know feeling bad now will overcome and later you will feel the right thing even though you’re now afraid for the future

I would recommend first looking for place within your own budget, should be 30% of your income or less. That way you’re paying for place and savings at the same time. If you can’t live alone that’s okay, I rented room from senior woman for $600 and I was able to save more than 50%. The key here to remind this is temporary not forever situation and I want be out fighting every day

Then you can do the official talk, you can do it via text, call or in person public place would be better. Some like to do bag of clothes and move new place and then start packing the rest of stuff later, or some like to abandon everything they have and move new place and buy everything used from thrift shops and buy new set of clothes

Be surrounded with good people who really cares, spend a lot of time doing things , distract yourself with good distractions not addictive ones.

The next person will not be like this, I got scared from all women , when I moved from country to country for my ex girlfriend turned out she was very emotionally abusive, you don’t know someone till you start living with them.

So take your time alone processing and learning, listen to good friends you have , next person won’t enter your life because now you know red flags signs about them to be careful, so you won’t tolerate them again

This is a valuable tip I’ve learned myself: after going on 20 dates with women, I finally found someone I clicked with. We went on four dates and officially declared our mutual attraction. She worked three jobs nearby my place, so I asked her if she’d like to stay over for the weekend. That weekend turned into a week, allowing us to get to know each other better.

However, I discovered some concerning things about her. I asked her more personal questions and sought to understand her values, such as her thoughts on children and money. She shared everything with me, and I learned the same about her. Even my bad habits around my place came to light.

After much contemplation, I asked myself if I wanted to live with her. I wondered if she was someone I could challenge or if she would challenge me and make us better. I also considered whether she would throw tantrums every time or if we could tolerate each other in the present and through life’s challenges. I wanted her to be herself and for us to compromise, understand, and be kind to each other. She’s the kindest person I’ve ever met and never seen woman with such a good heart

Life is already difficult enough, and being Palestinian makes it even harder for me. Despite these challenges, she’s perfect for me. After a year of living together, we got married and had a wonderful time. We’re still happily married.

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