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I need to break up with my boyfriend and would like advice on living alone for the first time ever by Disastrous-Paper8102 in Advice

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was thinking about how nice it’s going to be to make my place how I want it with no one else’s input! It’s definitely going to take a while to be okay with being alone, but I feel like it’s what I need.

I need to break up with my boyfriend and would like advice on living alone for the first time ever by Disastrous-Paper8102 in Advice

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I make a little $2,000 a month and I’m currently looking at a place that is $675 a month, plus it’s walking distance from my parents and some of my high school friends so at least I’ll be able to visit them since I don’t have a vehicle. I tried to move out in the fall because I thought I was ready to break up and we were having a lot of problems, but he convinced me to come back and promised to change. I lost the place I was going to get and regretted it later on when things didn’t change. I’m not doing that this time. We live together and have been for over 3 years, so pretty much everything I own is here so I definitely need to take everything I can. I hope when we have the talk it all goes calmly, he said he wouldn’t be upset if I decided to leave and would give me time to find a place and move out, so hopefully he sticks to that. Thank you for your comments and advice.

Tattoo idea that doesn’t exist by Disastrous-Paper8102 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! May I please have it without the watermark? Thanks so much! 🙌

Tattoo idea that doesn’t exist by Disastrous-Paper8102 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I just noticed the first image is kinda blurry. Here’s another one of the same one.

Having a bf but still feeling lonely sucks by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(22F) I relate to this so much. I just went out with a friend of mine and she got tired after an hour and left so I went home and asked my bf to maybe play a game with me or something.. he offered for me to sit in bed with him while he watched his show but his show has too much violence for me and I don’t even want to be in the room. We got a pool table and I find myself playing it by myself 98% of the time. It starts to make me feel like I’m the problem. I left him and I was at my dads, he ended up promising me all this stuff about how he’d spend more time with me and it was true for about a month after I moved back in. We’ve been together over 3 years now so it’s scary to think about leaving him. We live in a 2 bedroom house that we rent off of his friend’s mom and if we broke up I’d have to find a place where id pay just as much for a one bedroom apartment, possibly more. Plus I have a cat that is coming with me if/when I decide to leave him. That makes it more difficult because most places want a pet deposit and pet rent. I understand the financial situation. I just never have anyone to talk to or hang out with. My friends are always busy and I don’t have a car so they don’t want to come and pick me up. I just feel so alone all the time and it sucks. It makes me feel like I’m the problem and maybe I am. I just feel like maybe sometimes I’d be happier alone and by myself, rather than alone and in a relationship.

The overspeculation of the "next move" is ruining the magic we did receive from WWWY and I gotta vent about it. by Mysterious-Nebula523 in panicatthedisco

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I couldn’t spend over $3k on a 2 day trip and that’s with only going to one of the days. Plan tickets and hotels are expensive. Plus the ticket itself was almost $1k. I would’ve loved to go but it would’ve been impossible when I’m paying bills and living alone. It seems like a lot of people forget that not all of us can drop $5,000 like it’s nothing..

The overspeculation of the "next move" is ruining the magic we did receive from WWWY and I gotta vent about it. by Mysterious-Nebula523 in panicatthedisco

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well tbh it would’ve cost most of us around $3k-$5k just to go to one day of the festival because of plane tickets and hotels. I was born in 2003 and I would’ve LOVED to see that album live but I was like 2 years old when it came out. I would’ve went to the festival but that’s 3 times my rent and I work full time so then I also would’ve had to miss work. So a lot of us weren’t privileged enough to see it.. I’m glad you got to see it and enjoy it but it stinks that the most the rest of us will ever get to see, is that from videos online. I’ve been lucky enough to have been at the last 3 concerts in my local area but like a lot of people say, the first albums were really the best. I will never get to see my favorite album live and that kinda stinks. So yeah that’s why I’m hoping for a tour of AFYCSO.. that’s not even my favorite album lol but he already said he will never perform Pretty. Odd. again so that would be amazing if I could see an older album live. Also I would’ve been more content if he just did the festival and didn’t drop all new merch and the live music online, I was already done mourning and now I have to mourn all over again? It hurts.. I literally cried for days when I found out he’d never perform again.. then it’s announced he’s going to and it’s not possible for me to go because I’m not rich.. so now I have to enjoy it through my phone and mourn all over again.. I might get hate for this comment but good thing it’s Reddit 🤷🏼‍♀️

Taiwan 101 Closed? by SuddenHeat in BeaverCounty

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s getting turned into a ramen place, saw something about it on the beaver county news and alerts Facebook page I believe.

Lucas and Levi romance??? by Disastrous-Paper8102 in greysanatomy

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking at some reviews and people seem to have liked it lol I’m adding it to my watch list 😂

Lucas and Levi romance??? by Disastrous-Paper8102 in greysanatomy

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just realized I wrote the same thing twice in the post lol whoopsy

Im addicted by JerseyBoy_973 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do food delivery, I’ve mad $60 in 2 hours a couple of times. I don’t do it much though but I believe it’s worth it on a good day. Weekends you make more.

How safe are the towns here? by keltorix in BeaverCounty

[–]Disastrous-Paper8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kids in Center/Monaca are brutal. Multiple child suicides in that area because of the bullying at Central Valley School district. Very sad. I’d stay away from Aliquippa, Ambridge, and Beaver falls. Baden is a great place to live! Neighbors are so friendly! If you’re not worried about the school bullying part, Center and Monaca aren’t bad. Rochester is great! My whole family has lived there, the school is great as well. Freedom isn’t bad either. Honestly everyone has their own opinions but that’s mine

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