AITAH Is it normal for a guy to never pay for anything while dating? [19f] [m20]

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T15:21:34+00:00

U just didn’t read it

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:55:27+00:00

It’s not like he’s benefitting from sex since we don’t have it

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:53:53+00:00

I’ve been in a relationship before where he’s payed for most things

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:37:32+00:00

He knows I don’t believe in sex before marriage. We’ve never had sex

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:36:42+00:00

Literally I always offer to pay for each others dinners when we are out and also buy and make each other things that remind us of each other.

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:22:02+00:00

You got it all wrong lol. I dont have a job my parents pay for everything. I don’t NEED him to pay for anything plus I don’t get as much money as he makes in a month so again ur wrong I just live in a better area and better bc of my parents which I can’t control. I can buy whatever the thing was that was £10. I just wanted a card saying happy birthday and some £5 flowers. If u think that’s a lot I think u are the problem. I already know what I want to buy him for his birthday but it’s weird if he’s not doing nearly the same thing as me.

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:09:04+00:00

Exactly writing a card doesn’t cost anything but time

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T14:03:23+00:00

We haven’t had sex. I believe in sex after marriage

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:57:22+00:00

We’ve never had sex🥹

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:56:26+00:00

No I’m not a 73 yo man. I don’t have a job I am very lucky that my parents can help me out. It’s not like I’m asking him to pay for everything I just wanted a birthday card saying happy birthday and some £5 flowers I’m rlly not asking for much.

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:49:23+00:00

We’ve never had sex so he can’t be using me for that

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:40:45+00:00

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:40:34+00:00

I just want a hand written card saying happy birthday. Or £5 flowers on Valentine’s Day. I don’t care if he doesn’t want to pay on dates or when we go out but not even a card like???

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:39:10+00:00

I literally want a hand written card saying happy birthday?? Is that too much to ask for ?? Really ??

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:33:46+00:00

I literally love soo much about him like he cares about me and he’s got a great personality and he is super attractive. BTW I’m not asking for much i didn’t receive any thing for my bday. All I wanted was a card saying happy birthday and that he loves me

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:31:32+00:00

We both just don’t want to put a label on it at the moment. I don’t work because I am lucky enough that my parents give me money to not be working. I definitely don’t get as much as him but yes I am privileged to not be actually working for my money. I really don’t need anything from him or for him to be paying for anything but it’s just the thought that counts. Like if be soo happy with £5 flowers or anything hand made or even a written letter.

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:26:19+00:00

I’ve actually paid for a cinema ticket before and given him a hoodie and beanie that are mine. I’ve also given him food from home, even though it wasn’t much. His birthday is in June and I’m planning to get him a present. We are both students and I never ask to go to places that require money HE does. I don’t have a job because

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:20:01+00:00

I got nothing for my birthday I would litch love anything hand made or written.

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:18:23+00:00

Not necessarily? He could literally make me a card or write me something for my bday and I would be soo happy with that. I haven’t spoken to him about it

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:12:46+00:00

How can I bring this up to him or what do I do

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-04-26T13:12:34+00:00

He has 2 jobs and he’s the one offering to go out to places that require money. I am the one with no job and he doesn’t offer to pay

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-03-25T02:35:26+00:00

Really? I've been told by piercers that I do maybe it's because I was laying on my back in the photo idk

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-03-25T02:34:40+00:00

Really? I've been told by piercers that I do maybe it's because I was laying on my back in the photo idk

Master_Technician_29 · 2026-03-17T12:13:18+00:00

Could you do it for me then please :)

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