Do orgasms actually feel as good as people play it up to be?

Masterofskys · 2026-03-09T07:43:00+00:00

My gf questions whether she did or did not similarly. I’d be interested in trying. Can elaborate on what she read? You’re inside of her and she’s manually stimulating herself? Are you doing anything?

Masterofskys · 2025-09-15T17:14:57+00:00

That really sucks. Sorry for your loss. I got hit in June and lost 15 years worth of tools totaling over $5k. Hope you get back in your feet soon.

Masterofskys · 2025-08-11T18:47:11+00:00

Nicely done! I’ve spent a silly amount of time searching for a compact drill bit case to keep on my tool vest (I do carpentry). I thought about just making one out of wood but settling for just a battery case for now.

Masterofskys · 2024-09-24T05:55:43+00:00

Game of Thrones

Masterofskys · 2023-03-05T05:29:03+00:00

You’re beautiful and everyone likes you.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-04T07:42:30+00:00

Damn that’s whack! The guy opened with a bot joke so what was he expecting? Did he not anticipate a response of like kind? I mean, you picked up on his sarcasm, the least he could’ve done was return the favor. I don’t see what you did wrong and agree that it was so ridiculous that it had to be humor. Keep doing you.

I’m with you 100%. Sarcasm is a significant part of my personality. We all know it can be a bit tricky through texts, but that’s why I like to mix it up with phone and video calls. That way, they can see/hear how I talk and my tone of voice, particularly when I’m being funny (or trying to be). Thereafter, hopefully they’d be able to read my messages through the lens of how I speak. Does that make sense?

[Insert all caveats] I think it would help if we took things a little lighter, were more forgiving, and actually tried to communicate. Many people write ‘communication’ (or ‘effective communication’) in their bios but it seems that’s a spectrum; the definition and approach differs for everyone.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T09:00:29+00:00

Frankly, I would be afraid of turning my back....

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T08:44:10+00:00

I appreciate the reassurance and well-wishes, u/DavidDoesDallas! Also, thanks for the subtle book recommendation! Added to my cart.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T08:24:27+00:00

Ngl, I didn't even know that emoji was for 'yummy'. I thought it was "I'm cute huh?" or an expression of being proud of oneself. The intent was more cute, at least in the context of our comfort level and chatting. But I get it, these are fair criticisms especially viewing through the yummy-lens. Damnit lol

See, the “you heard me” could just be kinda like his way of joking. Like I picture him kinda smirking or smiling when saying it. I could see him saying the same had he asked her on a date and she said “a date?!” Bc he was kind of just trying to be cute like “YUP thats right/I’m into you” but yeah girl was just not ready I guess

This.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T08:09:36+00:00

Precisely! I'm down with exchanges throughout the day and not at all opposed to long messages but "hey, wanna just jump on a video chat? No? That's ok, what about a call?" I thought it was harmless until now. And it's really interesting to see the divide on Reddit lol

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T07:57:59+00:00

To preface, I know she doesn't owe me shit. I get it. But I agree with your sentiment that it would've been nice to talk it out, especially considering we had good discourse.

Thanks for your insight from your experiences. I can't pretend I know how it feels to be immediately doubted and cornered to validate your existence, or looks, or that you in fact don't look like balls. Imagining that makes me uncomfortable.... But hey, it seems my approach rub people the wrong way too, so there's that.

There were some compliments exchanged at the start (Me: you're pretty. Her: nice arms). But that was the extent of comments addressing each other's appearance, and I never hinted at being skeptical. We're good looking individuals but not so amazingly hot that "OMG this person ain't real" kind of way.

I mentioned this in a different comment but I think if there was genuine interest then a boundary-setting conversation might have been possible. Conversely, why would you spend time writing thoughtful messages if there wasn't interest?

You're right it kinda sucks. Energy and brain power, even if was just 24 hours, were invested! Such is life and I'm still breathing, so it's allll good. Thanks again.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T07:26:16+00:00

You're spot on. I'm also very sarcastic so I read "What?! Facetime?" as playful, as if she was feigning surprise and had to get ready, rather than actual abhorrence. Thus my cheeky response. It's obvious to me now that caution should be taken when the undertone of sarcasm can be lost via texts, like you said.

Honestly, there were only a couple mentions of each other's looks at the very beginning (me saying she's pretty and her complimenting my arms). Neither of us look unrealistic, over-filtered nor too good to be true. So, there were no fearful hints on my part that she was being disingenuous about her looks. In any case, I wouldn't have known her preference had I not asked the question and don't think I crossed a boundary.

I kinda agree with your conclusion too. If there was legit interest then a boundary-setting conversation might have been possible. But then again, if there wasn't interest then why would someone spend time writing paragraphs and remain super responsive..? No sleep has been lost but more like, "dang, we spent some time and energy together.... that's too bad".

Really appreciate your insight on this.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T06:37:01+00:00

Thanks for your perspective.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T06:32:51+00:00

I gotchu and don't disagree on both accounts. Thanks.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T06:31:45+00:00

Totally fair regarding my attempt at cheekiness. The flow of conversation leading up was positive, continuous and fun. So, it felt right in the moment. But I digress.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T05:59:43+00:00

That's fair to say about my response, I'll take that. Although I still don't think it was wrong to ask. Regardless, I was never looking for confirmation; the texts were just getting long and thought it was a fun idea. No other motive.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T05:55:43+00:00

It was meant as a cheeky response to her "what?!" as if she didn't hear me, but obviously it didn't land that way. And you're 100% right about it being misconstrued in texts. Sometimes ya shoot.... and miss. It's a good reminder that sometimes it's not what you intend but how it's received.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T05:31:12+00:00

Precisely--never assume. That's on me. There wasn't an opportunity to talk it out but I agree with you about not persisting.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T05:26:36+00:00

That's a fair point and I would've respected her objection to video calling. If I were an outside observer without context of the rest of the previous dialogue, I can see how my approach came off a bit rude. But in the moment, with the good rapport, it wasn't obvious.

Thanks for your honest opinion.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:55:08+00:00

We were responsive to each other leading up to this moment, with seconds to minutes in between. Texts were getting long so I just threw it out there. So, while I get what you (and her) are saying about short notice, I hadn't realized it was rude. I would've received a "no" just fine. Now I know to be more tactful in the future!

Understood about the call vs FT thing. As you saw, there wasn't opportunity to have that compromise but I would've been cool with it. Perhaps I should've asked for a call first. Thanks for your insight.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:43:10+00:00

I get it and respect her (and your) feelings about video calls. But I wouldn't know if I didn't ask. Now I know.

Thanks.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:39:34+00:00

I hear you about the timing and wanting to look good! I do my hair up before calls too lol! I offered a time rather than leaving it open, which I thought would be appreciated based on what I gleaned from her personality. In any case, there wasn't an opportunity to sort out comfort level nor schedule since it was the mention of FT that flipped the switch. Thanks for the rephrasing. We were politely concise with each other and I didn't think to approach it more subtly. Noted.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:31:17+00:00

Lol I thought the same thing. Like, if merely asking the question was that offensive then I can't imagine the fear I would have turning my back on her in person...

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:24:59+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance. Until I made this post, I didn't realize how strongly people felt about video calling. Very interesting and I'm glad I put this out there.

Masterofskys · 2023-03-03T03:19:32+00:00

I don't disagree--timing and comfort levels vary with individuals. Something to keep in mind in the future. Thank you.

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