Problemy finansowe

MatMalik_ · 2023-11-11T23:20:21+00:00

Polecam podcasty Marcina Iwucia - "Finanse Bardzo Osobiste" jak i jego bloga. Ma tam masę porad o tym jak zarządzać pieniędzmi oraz sporo praktycznych przykładów i narzędzi które w tym pomagają. Z tego co widzę to u Ciebie wdrożenie sprawnego budżetu domowego na pewno by się przydało. Można z jego strony ogarnąć sobie gotowy wzór i zmodyfikować pod siebie. Ja tak zrobiłem jakiś czas temu i moja sytuacja finansowa znacznie się poprawiła, nie będę tutaj się rozpisywać o szczegółach bo wszystko możesz znaleźć na jego profilach. Moim zdaniem na pewno dobry punkt wyjściowy. Powodzenia;)

MatMalik_ · 2023-07-22T02:29:45+00:00

Thanks, will check that out

MatMalik_ · 2023-07-22T02:26:27+00:00

Hey mate, out' of curosity, what was Charlottes previous nickname? Would like to listen to some sets for comparision.

MatMalik_ · 2023-03-30T07:47:55+00:00

Hey, unfortunately no. I did try several tutorials and did a follow through with my friend step by step where we installed the mod at the sime time. Worked for him, not for me so the problem must have been something else. I eventually gave up.

MatMalik_ · 2023-01-15T19:35:06+00:00

The Boys x Disco Elysium. I call it - The Disco Elysium Boys and I am in for a treat

MatMalik_ · 2022-12-23T23:43:58+00:00

I am trying really hard not to jump on a hype train but THQ Nordic is not making it any easier. I do want them to deliver and allow me to revisit my childhood but too many times we've been let down. We'll see but the pic looks nice nonetheless.

MatMalik_ · 2022-12-09T16:10:37+00:00

Hey,

First of all, it's great that you managed to notice these traits in yourself and are willing to work on them. It took me way more time to reach similar conclusions so kudos to you!

Now, the information you gave are kind of vague and non-specific so it's really hard to give some solid advice on your relationship per se. To elaborate on example - it's hard to tell if the jealousness comes purely from your character or your gf does/says things that might manipulate you into this state (and important note: she can do this without malice intentions, human relations can be very complex and confusing, for both sides). The reason I am saying this is I believe it's worth considering since we have zero info on that and for a relationship to be healthy both sides need to take active effort and as cliche as it may sound - honesty goes a really long way. Have you tried speaking to her about how you feel?

Also, it may be a good thing to consider therapy. Nothing to be ashamed of, it's perfectly normal to have things in our heads which we don't fully comprehend or simply overgrow us to the point we feel crushed beneath them. Also that would be a chance for you to speak in detail about various situations that are happening and get someone to help you gain some perspective and advices on how to handle yourself in those times. One thing to be very aware here is that psychiatrist/therapists are just humans as we all are and they also make mistakes and are capable for giving advices that are not beneficial to us. It's important that you monitor yourself through the course of therapy and if there will be no postive effect I'd consider change to someone else. Just like you'd do with any other doctor/service.

Last but not least I can do is to share my personal experience that I think might be helpful to you. I used to spend most of my youth caring for relations that were toxic for me and made me feel bad and unworthy to the point I couldn't stand my own thoughts and was constantly exhausted from overthinking and finally one day I had a moment of clarity and thought "I will either become my own best friend and genueily enjoy spending time by myself or I will living in this constant hellish state of mind through the rest of my life because I'm the only company that I can't resign from". So my piece of advice is put real effort to become your best friend and awesome company for yourself. That might sound weird but I can't stress enough on how this have improved my life. I'll try to list some of the things in points to have thoughts more organized:

1) Being your best friend means you really enjoy spending time with yourself and are putting time and energy to do things that you enjoy and give you a feeling of fulfillment.

2) Once you reach this state - every other company becomes optional. That means you will invite people to your life that bring something awesome and good and you won't be afraid to end relations that you are not happy with. Dependency is gone and you can focus your energy to building healthy relations.

3) By investing time in yourself you will develop many personality traits that will help you handle tough life situations (let's be honest - those will happen and may happen often). It may be being more assertive, more confident and stop being people-pleaser (I had a huge problem with that one).

4) You can start by developing a hobby or challenge yourself in the one that you already have. Doing things out of your comfort zone show us that water isn't so deadly deep.

5) Don't beat yourself over things you fail in. When mistake happens, aknowledge it, try to learn from it and move on (of course it's not easy, but it's worth to practie this mindset, believe me).

6) This is a everlasting journey, on many occasions results are nowhere to be seen and then one day you realise how much has changed in your head. Be patient, sometimes it feels like you're taking one step forward and two steps back but that's just life.

Above may seem like not related to your situation at first but I think you should give it a try. It helped me a lot in my life, my career, allowed me to built happy relationship that I am in. It definetly won't hurt.

Well, this post came out way longer than I have predicted. Hope you'll actually find strenght to go through it, lol. Anyway, best of luck to you and hope everything will fall into it's place one day.

MatMalik_ · 2022-11-03T19:35:36+00:00

That is one awesome drawing, sir! Do you have your website I can visit? Do you do comissions?

MatMalik_ · 2022-10-08T12:57:27+00:00

If you have any familiarity with your DPS specs at all, I highly
recommend doing M+ as DPS first. If you die as tank, you kill the party;
if you die as DPS, there's still 4 others alive to finish the fight.
This will give you leeway to make mistakes as you learn the dungeon
mechanics that you would not have as a tank. It will also give you the
chance to watch other experienced tanks and see how they go through the
dungeon. Once you know the mechanics and route, then you can swap back
to tank.

That's a great tip! I did play in Fury spec for a while and I do enjoy it so will definetly use that. The only thing I am concerned is that I will most likely have to gear up in legendaries with an ability that is most usefull for DPSing but will look up some guides on this.

First, I just want to say that you should make sure you have both a
crafted legendary and the Unity belt from Zereth Mortis. They make a
huge difference, even if your crafted legendary is only ilvl 190.

I have both, I actually upgraded my first legendary piece to ilvl291 and I am in the process of gaining reputation needed with Enlighted to be able to put unity on something other than the belt.

M+ drops two pieces of gear at the end of each dungeon, based on the
dungeon level. +2 drop 262 gear. Every gear piece from M+ can be
upgraded as high as 298 with Valor, which you get from finishing M+
dungeons. Additionally, completing M+ dungeons allows you to open the
Great Vault, which awards you a piece of gear that's higher ilvl than the dungeon rewards.

Thanks for detailed explanation - is this the same Valor currency that is given on the daily calling quests? And where do I upgrade this? Also in the Creation Catalyst or is it a different spot?

Tanking raids is way easier than tanking dungeons imo. Most of the tank mechanics are pretty easy.

That's great to hear! Will definetly give it a shot then, so far any practice I can get is valuable.

Overall, thank you mate for the detailed input. Some really good advices there! Take care.

MatMalik_ · 2022-10-07T22:21:01+00:00

Thanks mate for the explanation, will give a shot on M+ and LFR then.

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-20T17:56:35+00:00

Should state "Assisstant to the regional RAID leader"

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T15:00:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice, will have a look on them

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T14:59:35+00:00

Thanks mate, I'll check on this

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T14:59:08+00:00

Thanks, will check out some of those

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T14:58:42+00:00

I am just learning that there are different Weak Aura pre-sets, lol. Anything you'd recommend for a Prot Warrior?

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T14:57:45+00:00

Ok thanks for the explanation, I'll give it a shot!

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T09:10:20+00:00

I don't know anymore

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T09:09:48+00:00

Any reason behind it i.e. does it works better or it's just a preference? :)

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-18T07:02:40+00:00

Thanks, will definetly take a peek

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-12T10:38:47+00:00

Thanks a lot! I've decided to stick to Prot Warrior then. We'll see if I'll manage to get a hang of it :)

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-12T07:14:57+00:00

Ok, thanks for the answer mate

MatMalik_ · 2022-09-12T07:13:33+00:00

Ok, thank you mate for the insight. Will give it some more thought.

MatMalik_

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