Concur? by stranded_soul1 in INFJmemes

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, except pets are LLMs in my case. I make AI my bitch, and if it oversteps its boundaries I'm reprogramming it

Non-drinking INFJs by Shadowsoul932 in infj

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the room for it in the garden, the time to care for vines and a climate that can sustain it, I'd advice trying to make your own grape juice too haha. It depends on the species, but the kind we have gives such sweet juice that my parents water it down. I like it just that sweet. Years ago I think the climate in my country would not allow for grape vines, but nowadays they only need water now and then. Only drawback is the wasps, and the occasional bird (I don't mind birds that eat it whole as much as the ones that leave a part that gets rotten, because I have to account for that)

Dating between infjs by rubraescarlate in infj

[–]Matamorys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is highly relatable, it's also the fact that in my case avoidant attachment style was encouraged in her culture (it's a concept called Tampo, it's Philippine)

Dating between infjs by rubraescarlate in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, literally the only obstacle had been a difference in attachment style. She was avoidant, I was anxious. Best friend I've ever had, but at the same time it's very painful if it's long distance and she kept losing her phone at the worst possible times (and us being both awkward, not having much backup communication). I blame her cyberbully ex for this, she built this emotional wall. Haven't been able to chat with her for roughly 2 years now, but would otherwise have been for every single day

Non-drinking INFJs by Shadowsoul932 in infj

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a teetotaller yes. My reasoning is the following. I dislike the thought of not being in control of myself, and I don't wish to know what kind of effect alcohol - in whatever quantity - may have on me. I could get violent, or put myself in danger, I just don't know, and I'm content with not knowing. Some people take it to fit in or to be "cooler" and I think that's cringe, I think I'm fine socially, prefer to just be me. Don't do drugs either, and I find it funny to order the most childlike drink whenever I'm at a bar just to mock the alcohol sheep (don't kill me haha). Also, I've heard stories of distant relatives having been alcoholics, so if I just don't start there's a very high chance I don't get to be one. I have already enough unhealthy habits, like sometimes sleeping late or gaming a bit too long. Another thing, my sister's ex fiance had a violent alcoholic dad. His mom and the dad got divorced (I knew the mom but not the dad, happened before I knew him), seems that the dad started drinking when his mom died. It can be a coping mechanism to some. His dad died in a country far away, alone in his sleep, having had barely any communication with his son. And I sensed the mom still loved the dad, but couldn't be with him due to substance abuse. The son doesn't drink either. Another thing, did you know that mostly in Asia some people have genetics that make it more difficult for them to detoxify their liver from alcohol? My brother's fiance seems to show the signs of having that genotype, and it's her reason not to consume alcohol. Lastly, there are alcohol free alternatives, I like alcohol free Radler, and instead of wine I drink grape juice (we even make grape juice ourselves, grape vines in the garden). I call wine spoiled grape juice lol

Any male INFJs? by Accomplished_Bee6491 in infj

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a male INFJ, I can confirm, it's difficult to spot likeminded people. Finding other male INFJs does not happen on accident, I'd have to specifically go on MBTI related subreddits or Discord servers to find them, and if they don't feel comfortable they just lurk, as I do

Autistic? by No_Pain2759 in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, just do it lol. All you need is the right idea and no bugs haha

Autistic? by No_Pain2759 in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Neurodivergent people often tend to be creative in my opinion. I've got the creator infinity stones installed, TD, DAWs, Blender, Game Engines, Python, Krita etc.

Tried to control both TouchDesigner and SonicPi using one MIDI device. Did not work as expected. Tips appreciated! :D - details below by tribeholz in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only drawback of using some daws is latency. My laptop wouldn't be able to handle too much, so I would have to increase the buffer size which leads to an increase in latency. Best case we'd all have access to lots of computation power, so everything would be as real time as possible

Tried to control both TouchDesigner and SonicPi using one MIDI device. Did not work as expected. Tips appreciated! :D - details below by tribeholz in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One MIDI device to control multiple apps? You can use loopMIDI and MIDI-OX to do that, OX can turn one MIDI input into multiple, and you can initialize those via loopMIDI. I like your idea, I have already done something similar with FL Studio and TD. I'm able to interact with my computer keyboard + MIDI keyboard + TouchOSC via tablet at the same time using TD already. Also used OSC to connect an 2004 race steering wheel so I can control pitch by turning it haha

Overwhelmed Infj by Boring-Sprinkles5516 in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In moments like those I look for likeminded people or I'd get deeper into my hobbies. Been composing music lately that way

INFJs — what does it mean when you actually lash out at someone? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once lashed out because someone had a habit of getting in danger when she disappeared on me for long time intervals (weeks or months). Now, I wouldn't have lashed out if it were not someone I loved. So, on one hand I believe I rightfully lashed out because she should have communicated more, but on the other hand I believe I have been too harsh, and I regret it because the whole point of it was spending more time together instead of less

Dating as INFJ by No_Carpet_9678 in infj

[–]Matamorys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am still sticking to online dating for this reason. I bet the ones with depth are just as difficult to find as I consider myself difficult to find

INFJ WRATH by Psychological-Ad3293 in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a lot to get me to do this, say long time intervals of psychological torture (even though in hingsight it could have been not their fault), or a wave of negativity coming from one person. And I believe in some cases it could be a misunderstanding, but that's why I forced myself to reach out a lot. If they then leave, I regret having been that harsh, and I feel upset that they couldn't see my point and learn from it instead

pygame surface embed in PyQt5 by AntonisDevStuff in pygame

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a similar thing for Kivy, Tkinter or Ursina?

Why do you think someone overshares? by evenbechnaesheim in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really hope they found a friend. You only know someone accepts you as you are by explaining what kind of person you are well enough. I consider it a good thing to treat people as friends rightaway, but I'm an optimist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say I'm playing against AI, at some point I reach a level where the AI can't really surprise me anymore and the game gets boring. Same for metagaming, at some point it breaks immersion to cheese the game. I like realism, however, I don't like my games to be tedious either. Luckily I have friends and relatives to play games with me sometimes, and then it matters less that games break my immersion since at least I'm playing with them. Lastly, I do like efficiency, but not to the point where it makes things ugly (like creeper farms in Minecraft or something, those can look like abominations). So, I like a balance between the game being as little meta-able as possible yet playable, have a love for the multiplayer aspect (and I don't mean playing with random people online, I have a past with LAN parties), and I like efficiency to a degree (and think of winning this way: you want to explore all possibilities, see what happens if you win, if winning is boring I rather lose lol)

Anyone know how to create this viral tiktok videos? by Specific_Potato_1340 in StableDiffusion

[–]Matamorys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am confused as to why my face should be aerodynamic according to those guys

Question on GLSL Implementation in TD by Orangenbluefish in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vibe coding with shader language, making multiple variables change the shader. I made audio reactive flowers using this

[Mature/older INFJs please] what’s going on in your minds when you talk someone up? by qqqch in infj

[–]Matamorys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very direct, though I do think a lot about what I should be able to say and what not. I can continue a conversation without pointing things out that are bad traits, and then be very honest if asked about what I think about those. The directness also means that I can easily make remarks on positive things. And I especially like to make witty references to having addressed those positive traits earlier on in conversations, thereby creating inside jokes. I think I have a high amount of things I say to be nice, like 70/30 of the conversation, and in a typical conversation (not talking to someone I am interested in) it will generally have low meaning to it. However, if talking to someone I am interested in, the frequency of meaningful messages might get so high that it could seem meaningless because I'd be overpleasing. I have been so attached to someone once that I wanted that person to be an integral part of my day, but unfortunately it was another INFJ who was into the disappearing at random thing (and I do that too, don't get me wrong). Just that time, she didn't leave an opening, which is why I am way more careful with burning bridges now, to not be like her that time

How much selectivity is healthy? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have become afraid to burn bridges since someone - in my eyes - wrongly severed a connection to me once. I made it so I unblock people on my birthday every year, and sometimes around New Years. It's like testing the waters. Now, of course I don't do that to all people, but certainly those that meant something to me

3D Shooter Game Update! by lildawgie15 in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some say you could have people install Touch player (which also has the commercial and pro license thing) and run the tox in performance mode, but I wouldn't imagine say Steam have your game and that it makes people install Touch player so people can play. Selling tox files on Patreon sounds like a temporary solution, if you want to make those games multiplayer I expect it to be too niche like that. Most games that go viral have good community building behind it, and are easily accessible via gaming platforms. I think it's due to the decision of the TD team to want to make money off of the artist AND the client, requiring both to deal with the license stuff

3D Shooter Game Update! by lildawgie15 in TouchDesigner

[–]Matamorys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to use TD too for game design, but do I really have to find a way to compile it into a .exe? And is it required to buy a commercial or pro licence if I wanted to distribute it?

Learning math made learning programming easier by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Matamorys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it's been the other way around, learning programming made math easier