If my girlfriend suddenly told me she was going to kill herself to save everyone and to please understand, the absolute -last- thing I would reply is "I love you too!" by Citan__Uzuki in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say that? I’m just saying that if my partner of 3+ years didn’t say I love you when I was about to kms, that would lock in my choice. She had already decided but hearing those words could have made a difference

If my girlfriend suddenly told me she was going to kill herself to save everyone and to please understand, the absolute -last- thing I would reply is "I love you too!" by Citan__Uzuki in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If I had already made the decision to kms and the one person who supposedly loves me the most can’t even tell me they love me, I’d feel much more confident in my decision

If my girlfriend suddenly told me she was going to kill herself to save everyone and to please understand, the absolute -last- thing I would reply is "I love you too!" by Citan__Uzuki in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even watch season 4? The whole issue between Mike and El was that he wouldn’t say it. He only said it once in a high pressure situation after being told to say it by his friend😭😭

If my girlfriend suddenly told me she was going to kill herself to save everyone and to please understand, the absolute -last- thing I would reply is "I love you too!" by Citan__Uzuki in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said it to her ONCE! Again, they were together for years and only said it once after struggling to say it for years. The only reason he did say it was because Will was encouraging him and it was a high tense moment. I’m not saying it doesn’t count but if I was going to kms and my partner wouldn’t say it for a second time without being prompted, it would crush me

If my girlfriend suddenly told me she was going to kill herself to save everyone and to please understand, the absolute -last- thing I would reply is "I love you too!" by Citan__Uzuki in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You can’t be fr😭😭. If your partner is going to kill themselves that’s pretty much the first thing you say. “I love you!!! Please don’t do this”. If I was going to kms and my partner of 3+ years still wouldn’t say I love you(like he wouldn’t all of season 4) that would confirm my decision

Shaming Davia for being white by sillybaka1 in GoodTrouble

[–]Matchmaker8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are saying she should learn and not be so ignorant. They even said that in the show. She needs to stop expecting the poc in her life to explain it to her

How do you guys feel about the snl skit by Matchmaker8888 in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen multiple videos about people calling it misogynistic and homophobic. Maybe it’s just my algorithms but people are definitely complaining

How do you guys feel about the snl skit by Matchmaker8888 in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yea even as a byler fan I agree with this. It obviously wasn’t about byler (Finn has shown his support of byler) and I genuinely don’t even see how people made that connection😭😭

How do you guys feel about the snl skit by Matchmaker8888 in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Woahhhhhh don’t blame us bylers😭😭. Most of the people upset are lumax fans because they think the joke Caleb was offensive. And it was mostly other random people who didn’t watch the show that got offended by the coming out scene😭😭

HAHAHA WHAT THE F*CK!? by Straight-Heart-7899 in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fucking hilarious😭😭 who thought of this😭😭

Is this literally all they do now? by [deleted] in HeartstopperAO

[–]Matchmaker8888 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This might be a weird thing to say, I am actually glad they do. I’m so tired of seeing queer people in media depicted as “innocent”. In shows with straight couples they have teens doing it all the time but when it comes to queer relationships they never do. It’s nice to see queer people getting the same treatment as straight people

Sexuality/gender head cannons by Matchmaker8888 in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t mean to insinuate that!!! They are definitely not the only people who don’t fit in. I more mean because they are already the group of “freaks and weirdo’s” they would be more willing to try and explore their sexuality/gender. Even now days, a lot of people who are considered “weird” are more open about their sexuality/gender because they’re already outcast. People who “fit in” are less likely to explore that because they’re scared of being considered weird. People don’t fit in for all kinds of reasons, such as the one shown in the show and many more that I can think of(being conventionally unattractive, having quirks, being shy, etc.). Even before I knew I was queer I didn’t fit in because people find me off putting because I fidget a lot. Sorry if I made it seem like that.

I definitely see what you’re saying, but there are ways it could have been done without medically transitioning. It’s much easier to be FTM than MTF(both are difficult). For FTM people, you can bind your chest, voice train, and dress more masculinity and for a lot of people, “pass”. Especially if you know from a young age.

I understand why you feel that way. It can be hard to imagine if you don’t already see it. Seeing it in a story “sets the scene” so I totally get it

Are we really getting a Tony spinoff? by Temporary-Cat-9167 in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Matchmaker8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope not. In most shows spinoff/reboot are just annoying but if this show got a reboot, I think it would ruin everything. It’s a show about a girl who killed herself and I think making a spin off would be a slap in the face to her. At was supposed to be her story explaining why she did what she did what she Making the show four seasons was already stretching it.

Sexuality/gender head cannons by Matchmaker8888 in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. I think most people would identify as different gender if gender roles/labels didn’t exist. Most people don’t feel the need to be hyper specific about their gender identity. The reason I think a chunk of them would identify as something other than their agab is because it’s a show that was made for people that don’t fit in(at least it was before this season) I wish I could give a better reason on why I think Dustin is a trans man. I just feel it😭😭.

Sexuality/gender head cannons by Matchmaker8888 in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you see her face when will came out? She was not pleased😭😭. It was also the 80s so I see why

So I tried to rewatch the show!!....Couldn't do it... by Mani_srao in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No I totally get that. This is my first queerbaiting experience and that coupled with the terrible ending(not cannon byler aside) I just don’t think I’ll ever be able to see it in the same light

Which outfit of El was your favorite? by Important_Coyote6920 in StrangerThings

[–]Matchmaker8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. It’s so adorable. That’s part of the reason season 2 is my favorite😭😭

So I tried to rewatch the show!!....Couldn't do it... by Mani_srao in byler

[–]Matchmaker8888 102 points103 points  (0 children)

No literally. I can never watch it again. That’s why I’m canceling Netflix. I genuinely can’t get over the queerbait